How do you view cheating?

geekemgirl I am not sure what would do...I tend to think I would not tolerate it and walk....the worst part of this would be trust..could I ever trust the person again..I think not..

Cheating is if you don't know, don't agree and it's sneaky behaviour and a lot of lies as well. If you make a commitment you should keep it. If you can't keep it then be that great person who says so and go different ways. There is no need to cheat if you can break with the relation you already have first. There is no need to hurt your partner or even give him/her diseases he/she is not asking for.

Personally anytime a person cheats, it is wrong. When a person is cheating even if they say it is just casual they are usually lacking something in themselves, and not wanting to be committed to someone or something else. Personally especially before marriage a person needs to stray from people like these as they will only destroy you in the end, and most of the time until they feel committed to change this they never will.

My boyfriend and I actually had this conversation the other night, and we agreed. Cheating is anything from flirting with the intent of hooking up to the actual act. Sure there is harmless flirting and flirting that goes no where; but there is also flirting that makes the other person think you want more and act upon it. That cheating too, you are taking something special away from your spouse.

I feel that cheating is wrong. A relationship is all about trust and respect for each other and when someone cheats they have broken both those aspects. This is not even to mention the whole STD thing. I would find it very difficult to be with someone after they cheated on me.

It is immoral to sleep with someone when you're in a relationship.If you love your partner then be loyal and devote yourself only to him/her. If you think that you don't love him'her anymore, it is better that you end the relationship properly than cheat because you are hurting your partner in the process by not being honest. I just wish everyone is responsible when they are committed.

No one likes cheating, and I personally view cheating is a betrayal in a relationship. I don't like that, and I definitely despise person like that. My ex - girlfriend was such a person, and I personally despise on her now. Actually, probably we won't be friend again too from all that she had done to me.

Cheating is also an adultery, at least in a minimum level, but still is a sin. If my partner should ever sleep with someone else and I learned about it, our relationship should end there, that would be a single sided relationship and there's no reason to stay on a relationship such as that, I deserve someone who will love me and will not seek for an affection with somebody else.

Cheating is disgusting and if you're really committed to a relationship, you wouldn't cheat in the first place. I don't get why some people cheat, the chances of getting caught are pretty high and who want to face the consequences? Like you said, sleeping with multiple partners can cause the spread of STD and giving this to your partner is selfish. I remember watching a show on Dr Phil in which a wife knew her husband had another mistress but she allowed him to sleep with her. What was this woman thinking?! If a guy cheated on me after we've been in a committed relationship, I would drop him immediately. No chances. The cheaters always use the I was drunk excuse. Of course, that isn't a good enough excuse. If you knew the effects, you wouldn't drink with such people in the first place. But if the person really did love you, always chasing you back and living it hard, then I guess they have proven themselves that they deserve a second chance.

Cheating is very wrong. I'm a guy and I've never been in a relation. But I've been following many shows like Cheaters (Both Indian and USA) and I know how a girl feels about it. But it is even harder for a guy coz it hurts his male ego. Cheating may arise due to insatiable need like money, s** and what not. So yes, if there's no true love and respect one is ought to cheat.

cheating for me shows no respect also with the partner and the relationship..i also don't mind for their reasons why one cheated..because for me, the end doesn't justify the means..even if my partner will say he slept with another girl because i don't have time with him, it doesn't have sense..everything can be solved in a conversation, if both are in calm state..another mistake won't solve a problem..

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I view it as a betrayal of vows and time together. even if your not married I think every-one can agree that in essence it is a betrayal of vows. When your with someone don't you usually say "I love you." Now what is love? A show of emotion refering 2 people being together? so is that not like a bond? Curious no?