betrayed

Wait, let me clear this... Are you saying that your long time guy friend left you since he found a new girlfriend? Did I get this right? If this is the case then give him time. I also went the same experience a few months back when a real close guy friend got a girlfriend. It's like I was suddenly tossed aside and he set his life around his new-found girlfriend but that's life. Are you a guy or a girl? If you're a girl then I definitely know what you're feeling. I think your guy friend just got his priorities differently now since he found a girlfriend. Of course, if your a guy's girlfriend, you would like the guy to pay attention to your first before your other friends. That's how some girls would commonly think. Others girls would get jealous if their boyfriends give attention first to his female friends rather than her. Just give him time. I don't think he left you or something. A guy in love would give priority to his girlfriend first. Sorry if I may sound rude but are you feeling betrayed because he left you or are you feeling jealous since he now had another (more) important girl in his life? Let time pass and if he still don't talk to you like the way he used to (as a friend) and you feel pissed about it, talk to him. You can jokingly say "You don't give importance to me anymore... As a friend, I'm hurt" or something Good luck on you and stay strong!

Yeah, girls have that effect on guys. I understand what you are saying because that's how I saw things at your age. Now that I am older and I guess a little wiser, I let my friends enjoy their girlfriends and don't complain at all. I only ask them to find some time for me too. Is he a very good friend? Have you known him for a long time? If you feel that he is really your friend, tell him how you felt and make him understand that he was wrong. I think it will be good for your friendship. If he keeps on doing the same mistakes, then it is up to you to decide for how long he will be yoour friend. You will find new friends, I can tell you that for sure.

I had felt betrayed but not quite similar to your situation. It's more of expecting a friend to stand by your side when I was in a tight predicament but instead, she opted not to get involved in the matter. But give it time. He's your best friend, right? Maybe he's just head over heels right now for this girl he met and forgot that he's got friends other than her. I know it doesn't justify anything. I'm just saying that these things happen.

That seems to me like the type of friend I won't like to be close to. It is not right to do that to a friend.

I know how you feel, deliar. When seriously ill, a good friend of mine started to avoid me. It felt really bad.

to be honest eventually yes I would. I am a loving and caring person and especially "prone" to forgiving people. I was bullied as a kid and yet I can still hold my chin high. I know it sucks losing girls and everything but you have to view it in a bigger picture. To put it in the words of Obi Wan "There's always a bigger fish."

i have experienced something like that also..i was left because she has her new boyfriend..but i didn't feel any betrayal to it..i understand her..but i always make her feel that i'm just here for her..a text or call away..that's how i show her that i'm giving her my true friendship.. so just calm down..maybe your best friend has his own reason also..