crazy exs...
@xmichelletarax (370)
United States
November 13, 2011 12:47am CST
when my fiance and i first got together his ex kept texting him none stop. she even went as far as to tell him that she was going to have his baby. total lie by the way. not only was she crazy but she was really ugly too, seriously she looked like a drowned rat.
then there is this chick that he never actually dated... they liked each other but she moved out of state before he got to ask her out. i think he still might have a little thing for her because he never got that chance. he says they are just friends but the way they talk makes me nervous.
i saw a picture of her and laughed sooo hard, she is like 4 foot 1 inches tall, and like 170 + pounds.
ryans mom is trying to get him to leave me for her, the girl is all about my fiance but at the same time is trying to get with his brother. i think we can all use our imagination to figure out what i have to say about her.
another one of his exes just happens to be someone i grew up with. she moved away and they got together so i knew nothing about it until after we were together. it was kind of weird when i first found out because she dated my brother and ending up giving him an STD. (we got my fiance tested and he is clean) but i was like ewwwwwwwwww. she just happens to be psychotic as well... she has tried to commit suicide many times, filed her teeth into fangs, and tried to get with my while she was with my brother.
anyway he has a ton of exes, and it really shouldnt bother me. i know i shouldnt have to worry because he is with me. but for whatever reason every time some girl runs up and jumps on him i get pissed. i bite my tongue and fake a smile and try not to let him know it bothers me. even though a few of his exes are psycho and ugly there are a few REALLY pretty ones that want him to leave me for them, and it drives me nuts
is it horrible that i get jealous when these things happen or do i have the right to be?
what are your thoughts on the matter?
storys about your crazy exes??
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4 responses
@BannedHelsing (693)
• Philippines
14 Nov 11
Wow, your fiance have a knock for dating ugly and psychotic girls. I wonder how you look like...:D
anyway, it is just normal reaction to that kind of situation. Jealousy proves that you love him.
@xmichelletarax (370)
• United States
14 Nov 11
ummm.... wonder how i look? my picture is me... take a look.
almost 6 foot tall, natural blond, hazel eyes, about 115 pounds.
and thanks
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
13 Nov 11
Hi there,
Well, first of all, their looks really should not come into play here at all. He found them attractive enough to be apparently. Looks are fleeting and have little to do with love that lasts. That being said, your ex seems to have a lot of angry exes which to me would be a red flag in itself although not knowing him or these girls, I could be wrong. I can only relate with my own experience. Breakups are always painful and emotional and people will act in ways that they normally would not. I don't know, the description of your boyfriend reminds me of a guy I know who had a long string of girls just angry and bitter. I knew him and I knew how he was...he was a player and a cheat. He dated my daughter for a couple of years and I never saw her act so crazy or be so miserable much of the time. He was charming and had a way with words and she wanted to believe him but over and over, he cheated and betrayed her. She finally got free of him and moved on. Maybe this doesn't describe your boyfriend at all but I'd keep my eyes wide open if I were you.
@xmichelletarax (370)
• United States
13 Nov 11
thanks for you imput. i have been around many guys that are the way you described and that is one thing i have watched for in ryan. i have not seen anything that even remotely reminds me of that kind of person.
the thing is a lot of his exes are crazy but they arent angry with him. every time they see him they run up and hug him and are like all over him.
i think i would rather him have a bunch of angry exes instead of ones that dont get the point and wont leave us alone.
i know their looks shouldnt matter and i know that was horrible of me to say but i just couldnt help it.
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@xmichelletarax (370)
• United States
14 Nov 11
it is very hard, but i dont think that even if we wanted to lead them on that he has the time, he works 2 jobs comes home and eats and goes to bed.
@couchPotato100 (94)
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14 Nov 11
You totally have the right to be mad. I would be so furious if some ex jump up on my man. Biting your tongue and putting on a fake smile is really mature. I dont think I would be able to do that or be able to contain my anger.
@xmichelletarax (370)
• United States
14 Nov 11
it is really hard, i have never been good at controlling my anger so i literally have to bite my tongue lol.
@xmichelletarax (370)
• United States
14 Nov 11
and i dont know if you have ever bit your tongue and tried to smile at the same time but it hurts and is really not easy to do
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
13 Nov 11
It is horrible indeed that you behave like that and blame her for everything.
She was the ex and I assume dumped and did not ask for that.
Put yourself in your shoes and ask yourself how you would feel if you were here.
And what does it matter that she is 4 foot tall and 170+ pounds?
Your boyfriend loved a girl like that otherwise they did not had a relationship.
So you better keep that in mind as well.
Women and men can do terrible things if they are dumped. It might seem crazy in your eyes till you are in their shoes.
BTW you already behave crazy in my eyes.
You have your boyfriend, it's clear to me the relationship he ended is not really ended. He did not answer the questions he left that girl behind with.
Since your ex had a ton of exes count on it you will be next "crazy" ex! Then there will be someone like you are now, calling you ugly and psycho.
Remember that being ugly is not only the outside, your inside doesn't sound very healthy or beautiful at all!
Watch in the mirror and ask yourself what is wrong with you. Will you ever bite your tongue or go for a guy that really appreciates you and not is using women as a piece of dirt? Girl where is you self esteem!
@xmichelletarax (370)
• United States
13 Nov 11
i never said i was anything special or even pretty at all. but at least i have it in me to admit it, instead of running the streets in tiny skirts and acting like a sl*t.
