Would you ever cheat on your spouse or lover?
By lijoos
@lijoos (346)
India
November 13, 2011 7:27am CST
i do and everyone do in small things.
i had promised to my lover i will stop smoking.and she trusted me but what can i do i continued without her knowledge.we wont spoke about it a long time.she thinks that i quit smoking.
oneday i had realy out of control because i have drunk.
i have a problem if i drunk i will tell everything i cant hide anything.
and i feel sad for my lover and i apolagise that i dont quit smoking.
it was too much for her.she has no problem if i continued smoking.
but what i do i lied to her.
it was a big problem.she told me how can i trust you if you are lie for small things.
i told her if i can keep going with that lie.
but i confessed so please and atlast i made her ok.and then i realy quit smoking but i dont tell anything about smoking and even she.
do you friends ever cheat?
7 responses
@ifrahkhalid (46)
• Pakistan
14 Nov 11
I also do such stuff but i have never calculated it in cheating. It is like a lie or something. The best part is to keep it hidden and never talk about it.
@es_cud91 (24)
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14 Nov 11
as much as possible, i won't ever cheat on my wife or lover when i have one someday. i will love her with all of my life. and i'll continue praying to GOD to guide us in our relationship and to help us strengthen our bond. and i hope she will do the same thing for me. that's life, a relationship is give and take cycle.
@couchPotato100 (94)
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14 Nov 11
I dont think I would cheat on my partner. I always believe in telling the truth and be honest. Yeah the truth hurts but it's better then lying.
@sijabatnaburjut (2171)
• Indonesia
14 Nov 11
Why do you promise something that you can't keep, especially the small problem that ultimately make your partner disappointed or upset with you ?
My suggestion for you is you have to say sorry for that lie and you won't do it again. That's simple. I bet she will forgive you, but again don't promise her until you are sure you're gonna make it out. Good Day.
@DracsWolfy (139)
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14 Nov 11
I think it's wrong. Completely. It's such a negative word and a horrible thing to do to someone who you know loves you. If you are clearly unhappy in a relationship then by all means find someone else, but what people forget to do is have a heart. Some will refuse to tell their current partners they are unhappy, thus digging themselves a huge hole they'll end up having a very hard time getting out of. It really isn't a very nice point of view to see cheating as acceptable, it is not.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
14 Nov 11
Cheating is part of the game. Its damn boring if you don't. Lets like playing cards. Will you going to show your cards just to say that your open or honest? Of course not. You keep your card close to your heart and show it when its time to show and see who win. Theirs many way to cheat to your spouse or lover. But as long you don't get caught its can't be consider cheating. lols.
