The type of guy you would never date or go steady with...
By Aja103654
@Aja103654 (5646)
Philippines
November 14, 2011 5:17am CST
Hey, girls!
This discussion is related to my other discussion entitled: The type of girl you would never date or go steady with.
I posted this in order for both genders to understand each other, even just a little bit, better.
The type of guy i would never date?
-someone who smokes, drinks alcohol excessively
-lazy (at work, school)
-broke and not doing anything to earn for himself
-potty-mouthed (always swearing)
-playboy (infidels!)
-bad mannered
-arrogant, mean bully
-selfish
-disrespectful
-etc.
XD Go ahead, girls! You are welcome to rant about those men here XD
7 responses
@besweet (9859)
• Ireland
14 Nov 11
The problem is that when you start dating you don't really know the guy's habits. I mean that in the first dates we all try to show the best of ourselves. There are obvious things like smoking and bad manners but it's difficult to find out is your date is broke, lazy or a playboy, if he has 2 more girlfriends or he is selfish. The obvious signs are the ones that will help you see if you like the guy (although I believe that if you find someone that you enjoy his company smoking will not keep you from starting a relationship).
From my experience you will constantly discover new things about your boyfriend and you won't always like some of them.
Other girls judge characters from the jobs. For example if he is a barman, he possibly meets a lot of girls every night so it will be difficult to be sure if he is faithful or not. But he will also be very active and social.
I am not sure about those genaralisations though, sometimes they are true but they can also be proven wrong, it depends on the individual.
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@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
14 Nov 11
you can add also: badly or not shaved, hairy, mustache, beard, always talking about himself, always complaining or complaining about his ex, thinking he is very funny, greedy, taking badly care of himself (dirty, smelling teeth, hair not washed).
I don't care about old clothes as long as they are clean, also don't care if he is broke for a moment but I can't stand lazy people and beggars.
Less self esteem, boreing and not knowing what to do with his life is a bad thing too. I also don't like a guy that sticks to me and who's life I have to fill with.. whatever. Not to forget the guys who think they are great lovers and stink in reality and never heard about pleasing a woman.
@julianmac (396)
• Malaysia
14 Nov 11
Hi,
Well, to began with, I wouldn't want to date anyone with the above mentioned qualities either.Male chauvinists and the one who likes to blow his own trumpet need complete neglection. This kind of attitude pisses me off. I'be digging my own grave if I ever mess around with this group.
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
19 Nov 11
We abhor chauvinist! How can they expect us women to want them if they have that kind of attitude?
@jennastewart2482 (357)
• United States
14 Nov 11
I could not and would not ever date a man who thought he was better than everyone else. We see these types everywhere. Whether its because they have money, a good job, etc. These people don't take in others feelings and always think its all about them, and that's something I can't stand.
I also don't like arrogant males. They just make me want to scream. I dont mind if the guy drinks a little bit but I don't want him to be a drunk. Especially a loud, obnoxious or mean drunk. I just can't handle it. I don't like drama in any way for or fashion!
@maycolmenar0427 (14)
• Philippines
15 Nov 11
I would never date a guy who has halitosis! and the kiss-and-tell type... they are just as annoying as cockroaches...
@discussminu (108)
• India
14 Nov 11
I would say:
who smokes,
drinks,
does not respect women,
who looks down to other people,
lies.
Many of the things, I can adjust. But not the above mentioned. For loving a guy, it is very necessary that he is trustworthy. For me, no trust, no love, no relationship.