Ideal partner is the exact opposite of the one your dating.

An ideal partner is just an image we have in mind for a partner. But because it is an ideal, it seems unrealistic, because no person is born perfect. In one way or another he/she will have his/her flaw. So, as long as your partner has some qualities that will endear him to you, then you can try to start cultivating a nice relationship.

To sum it up love is blind. As long you are happy with your partner, it is what matters.

I can relate with this because this is what's happening to me right now. Maybe we just seem to be attracted to the opposite us, which we hate.. And love (psychologically) those who are like us. Maybe opposites do attract. Like me, my ideal guy was a person who had no vices, handsome and doesn't go out a lot. But all my previews and recent boyfriend was exactly the opposite . My 2 ex's were chain smokers, drunkards and party people. And now, my current boyfriend was a rock star when we met. but happily he changed right now.. He doesn't smoke nor drink anymore, which i loved.

I'm sorry bewitchingmelody but you cannot really generalize things like the ideal partner is the opposite. You may have an image of the ideal person in mind and someone just not so perfect comes along and sweeps you off your feet. As irritating and as annoying the person maybe, you still tend to like him/her for some of his/her qualities. Then what do you know, you end up being with that person forever.

Interesting discussion, hehe. Women nowadays would prefer to be with a man who can offer love and stability. Someone who will always care for them and love them truly and faithfully. Practically, women would rather have men who have the dough/cash/money/riches. Your friend is no exception to this. Some would even regard women who marry poor men as foolish. In life, we can't always have what we want. Our ideals rarely coincide with reality. The same goes for the type of man we want to spend our lives with. What we want, isn't always what is best for us. I've read this somewhere but i can't remember. Somehow, it managed to stick to my brain until now. This guy your friend is dating seems okay. How old is your friend exactly? If she's young, then it's to be expected that she's undecided about this man/guy. I bet this guy is still too young for anything serious, which might explain his 'happy-go-lucky' attitude. It's not a bad thing and certainly not enough reason to break up with a guy. In other words, it's a shallow reason to break up the relationship. I don't think looking for another guy would be the best course of action here. Get to know the guy first. Discuss this openly with the guy and listen to what he has got to say. It seems to me that the guy is kept in the dark and then you and your friend are already discussing this matter which greatly involves him. I have fallen in love with a guy who is not exactly my ideal man. Though i can say that he met most of the qualities that really matter. Physically, he wasn't the type of man I want, but i was taken in by his personality. Anyway, don't let your friend break up over it. He probably and might be the man who was meant for her.

Nobody is perfect, so does that guy and your friend. They are two persons who are trying to be connected each other. It is complicated process and so difficult to be done, as they are not the dreaming soulmate expected. Moreover, there are some couple which are truly matched by God, they have the same hearth and vision, but they have different characters at all. On this case, I think your best thing to do is keep a silent for a while about her relation cos she will not hear what you say at this time, she is being deeply in love with him. But, it doesn't mean that you ignore him at all, just be in her side and give her your best advise whenever she told you about her relation or whenever she has problem with it. Time will answer anything, let's time goes by and see what will happen the next. If they are created for each other, they will be couple forever and able to solve all of their differences and problems. If they are not, they break up once day.

Looking for an ideal partner is like looking for a needle in a haystack. Every girl has to kiss many toads before she meet her prince charming, though he might not be the charming guy she is dreaming of but it is said that God has reserved our soul mate and it is only a matter of time before the two meet and truly fall in love. Forcing your way to accept someone with benefits would surely end in disaster.

ideal partner in my opinion, no one can find. Each of us has both positive and negative qualities. For my cousin's girlfriend is a copy of their appearance is very important what kind of car it really makes a person must have a high standard. for me personally. Taqwa situation came, but I do not know what to say. and say something was always broken, I'm right and then left her to burn to see that she is right and then to understand that it is not right. Have a nice day!

There's no 'Ideal Man' once you have fallen in love. No matter how high you have set your criterias and no matter how repulsive you think of guys who does not fall on your criterias, once you have laid your eyes on the one meant for you, whether he passes your criteria or not, you will fall hopelessly in love with him. You see, love does not want to be dicdated. Love does not want you to say "hey fall in love with this guy he's rich" or "that guy's smart i think i should fall in love with him". Everything happens naturally. You will be head over heels on this guy and you don't even know why you like him. Love's unfair at times. So I would suggest you not to meddle with your friend's relationship. She may be complaining at you all times but she still sticks with the guy, meaning her love for this guy overshadows his short comings. Besides, the guys does not do anything wrong with your friend. Yeah he may be teases her most of the time but this may be in his nature. He might be like this to everyone he's close at. Maybe your friend could tell him to tease her less cause she's not happy about it. Let's not interefere in theri relationship and let's see what will happen. If they really love each other then they will work their relationship out just by themselves. If not, then breaking up is the best solution.