What can i do to make friends with the boy i really like?
By ichris
@ichris (67)
China
November 14, 2011 4:39pm CST
I met a guy that is so cute and smart,i really want to talk to him and become his good friend,but i am too shy to take the first step.we are on the different places,we are only friends on facebook,but never chat before.what can i do can attract his attention,and become his friends?I need you help??Thank you
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6 responses
@mathildachelsea (37)
•
15 Nov 11
I guess your infatuated at a first glance to this boy. I would suggest that you better get to know him better through the net. You can't simply trust the guy you just first met or because of his looks. If you want to go out with him, try to bring a friend with you so it would be safer and happier. Tell him that you might have a group date with his friends too so that it would not be so obvious to him that you like him.
@keihimekawa (2009)
• Philippines
15 Nov 11
You are already friends in FB. That's a good starting point. Start commenting on his status or photos or whatever. Internet is always a good place to start especially when your shy. Eventually, you'll slowly step out of your comfort zone. If you get a bit familiar with him through FB, that's when you can start trying to talk to him in real life. A simple "hello" with a smile is a good start. Or if you happen to meet him somewhere, you can start small conversations like "how are you doing?" or "I saw your status" or something.
Stepping out of your shell/comfort zone is a huge step to deal with what you want to do. Have guts!
@sk66rc (4250)
• United States
14 Nov 11
When you said you guys live in different places, be little specific? How far do you guys live apart? Do you guys have any mutual friends? If you guys live close enough, next time when you run into him, say hi... Ask questions like, "hey... What are you doing here?". If you guys have mutual friends, make a plan to have a night out with them & have him included... Gives you an excuse to be in his company... Then just start up a conversation... Ask him his opinions on the topic... Talking always seems to be one of the best way to get to know someone... And it doesn't have to be an one on one thing either, hence the idea about being in a group of friends...
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
14 Nov 11
If you are already friend on fb it must be easy. Since you already have contact.
Internet is great for those who are shy. You can think about what to write/say without anyone seeing you.
Start poking, give friendly remarks or say good morning or good night (well type) and see what will happen.
@curmont (343)
• United States
14 Nov 11
The best advice I can give you is to be yourself. Talk to him about the things that interest you. He may be very cute but if you do not share common interests it will be hard to make a relationship last. If you find that you share a lot of things in common and you enjoy each others conversations and company the rest will come naturally. Do not pretend to be someone other then yourself in order to get his attention including pretending to be interested in things that you are not just to talk to him. Share your true self with him and then just let nature take its course.
@sopigs (107)
• Indonesia
15 Nov 11
as you are friends on facebook, maybe you can start with a little chat with him on facebook. Try to talk about something global. Like her study or work, and another. To attract him, first you must know what type of girls he likes. And you can change your self little by little. But, for me, would be better if you be yourself