How would I forget my ex bf?
@silenthumofhearts (63)
Philippines
12 responses
@cearn25 (3456)
• Philippines
16 Nov 11
There are so many alternative ways in forgetting your ex-boyfriend. If you really want to get out of him and it is really over, then it is time for you to take the next path and see what is in it for you. You can go travel and explore the world. You can also get to know other people and get acquainted to them. For me the best way of forgetting them is through reflections. Try to reflect everything what happened. After that face the world around you.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
15 Nov 11
1. change your sad and make your life become happy...dont ever think only you had got broken heart..you are not alone when you cry because of your boyfriend..
2. maybe you must look around in mall, shop and see your new bag or whatever...
3. pray for God, for helping you seek another right man for you..thats the best solution for you , forget your ex boyfriend
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
15 Nov 11
Its very hard to do so.But try to keep yourself busy in work or household actvities
@tessa9 (1085)
• Philippines
15 Nov 11
You can do the usual things like be busy and remove anything that will remind you of him but what worked for me is to put my attention to another guy. It can be a celebrity or what not, this distracts me of thinking about him and makes me think that there are a lot of guys better than him.
@keihimekawa (2009)
• Philippines
15 Nov 11
Get yourself busy and appreciate yourself more. I'm not into the "look for another guy" type of advice since I believe it would hurt me and the guy eventually. One main problem if someone gets dumped is that person tend to lose his/her self-esteem and self-worth. Above all things, you need to get this back first to move on. Make sure you always have your friends around you and try new things. Get on a vacation. you deserve it after all the stress you've been through :D
@345042441 (130)
• China
15 Nov 11
i know how difficult it is because it has ever happened to me. But believe me, you will overcome it in the end by when you will realize it is really a waste of time. You can spend more of your time on work or something else. Just keep on moving and i am sure you can make it.
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
15 Nov 11
I think the only way to get over an ex is to replace him, but you can go out and make sure you always look great and have an attitude of look at me , your loss and I am going to live my life and be happy....I look back at some of my ex's that I cried over and I think how lucky was I to have moved on, everything is for a reason and for you there is someone better to come.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
15 Nov 11
You can forget him by doing a lot of things, you can and should actually keep yourself busy. Most of the time we would forget them if we try to stop missing them. Replace your moments of free time and do things with friends, or keep yourself busy with work... spend a lot of time in mylot, and eventually you will notice that you already have not thought of him for the day...
@SpikeTheLobster (6403)
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15 Nov 11
I'm not for the whole "find someone else" thing - I think it's unfair on the new guy, since he'll get all the backlash and emotion from the breakup. I feel it's better to concentrate on yourself. Do nice things for yourself, work on your projects, go out with friends and have a little innocent fun, that kind of thing: time is the great healer and if you're looking after yourself rather than thinking about some bloke, you'll forget him soon enough.
@sunli123 (538)
• China
15 Nov 11
Well, my suggestion is just focusing on what you are doing now, studying, working or partcipating in other activities. It is not easy to forget one person, especially the one you loved before. But you need to believe in yourself that you can go through this tough period. And as time passed by, you might appreciate this experience a few years later. Good luck to you!
@leon923940426 (480)
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15 Nov 11
well ,as a boy ,I must say that you are a good girl . on the other hand ,it is your ex-bf's fault that he did not cherish you . So ,you can release your mind and forgot him and I believe that this is a way of time .
However ,you can use some software like photoshop and make his photos into black-white ,so you will find that's funny and you can get off this.
good luck to you ,sweety.