my inbox excites me. . . .

Yes, my friend i got 4 BRs in one day, from one user. So, i have to ask what made him liked my responses and he said i made him laugh and happy with my responses. I even jokingly told him, you might be asking me for future favor and he said no, just what he said. Thank you my friend for saying i respond well. That's because my answers comes from my heart and my experiences. You see my friend, we get excited with lots of responses to our discussion and to top it all, receiving a BR!

Actually inertia, i have a lot of old unresolved discussions . Lately , i have been resolving them, going through all the answers. It's actually draining, to choose which among the many is the best response. So now, if my discussions already gets more than 10, i already choose which one is the best. I don't want wracking my brain choosing whose the best from many responses. But if i see an answer that best fits what i think is the best, i would sometimes choose already. Of course, responses are still welcomed.

You definitely do answer from the heart. It shows. I am not to quick to give a BR because I want the discussion to get old enough and then I read all the responses and then I give a BR. Giving one right off the bat is not a smart thing as far as I am concerned. I think that if we wait to give it, everyone has a good chance.

Oh, you got to see them too, when i receive them. Actually shane, when i answer i answer from my heart and from my experience. That's why maybe the one who started the discussion like it, and give me a BR for it.

Yes, i get overwhelm, whenever i have 2 or 3 in a day, from the same mylotter. I ask him why he liked my answer and his comment makes me feel good indeed. Makes me motivated to post more.

yes, i get to see them too! and whenever i get to see them in my homepage i wonder how you feel whenever you get a bunch of BR in a day. cause for me it truly overwhelms me whenever i receive one at least one or three in a month? the feeling that your answer has been very much appreciated is more than the overwhelming earnings you get in a day. right?^^, well,those heart felt response deserve the BR's.

My friend, Mylot send the Congratulations, whenever someone gave us a Bast response Mark. That's what i am trying to say. Whenever i receive one, i would immediately thank the one who gives me and there will know, why he has given me such.

oh is it so? I thought you got a mail directly from mylot friend.. I never know mylot sending congratulation mail.. let me check too.. :-)

Yes, Mylot does that, when somebody gave you a best response mark!

Even if it's just one BR, but still it's a validation that somebody liked your answer so much! It motivates you more to answer nicely .

So that's how it is,thanks so much!Hope you get more and more BRs.

Actually , that depends on the topic. It if is something that i can relate to very much, i am sure i can give a nice response.

Yes ! sometimes as I am not at home in what other have said,so I am in no position to make a response.

No, it doesn't have to do with friendship. The exchange of answers just becomes so good that along the way, both of you have discovered things in common. Thus, it becomes fun and chosen as BR, because a lot of related topics came out.

hehe.. but to make everybody happy is a good think. and keep to do that.

I agree bounce. BR is the validation indeed of the effort we made in responding to the topic. And yes, usually you get it because you are thinking in like manner as the starter of the discussion.

Correct, sids, Making somebody happy with our responses is the real gift. It motivates you more to have a nice response without exerting too much effort. Just speak naturally.

What i am trying to mean, kingparker is the Best Response mark that a discussion starter gives us. Mylot would notify us in our email if a discussion starter gave you that. Though it's only a bragging right as they call it, it gives me a nice feeling whenever i receive one.

You will feel the excitement when you receive one also.

Yes, my friend. Here at Mylot, some responses can indeed make us laugh or smile. When that happens, the talk gets animated and would continue for an exchange of more funny experiences.

I think my friend all of us gets excited whenever our discussion gets a lot of responses. But, nothing compares if you received a BR mark.