i don't know what to do now

Like what you said to her, she should go to their house. Maybe you could accompany her, so it won't appear obvious that she's seeking him. At least by doing that she will also discover how his boyfriend is , with his family.

i hope that "friend" is not pregnant! that would be a bomber if she is... pregnancy is hard, going through hormonal and physical changes is stressful... you really need someone to help you go through it, even if its not a boyfriend... family is one and friends is very handy too. i have a friend once who was pregnant and we help her out of it even though the boyfriend is out of reach (he was working to another province). regarding the question... i think that you should stop guys... it's not helping your friend. it's obvious that the boyfriend is on hiding and you did all possible way to reach him with your dignity still intact. right now all your friend don't need is the fact that the boyfriend will tell her on her face that she is rejected. it's really obvious that he dump her for if the guys is just angry he would still answer the phone and yell at her but he didn't. sorry about your friend...

I think 1 month of him not returning her messages and her calls. that would tell me he is no longer interested. the fact that the phone is ringing and that he is rejecting them, means to me that he is no longer interested in the relationship. I would not want to have her(if she is my friend) to go to his place; i won't advice her that. instead i would tell her to send one last message telling him if this is what he really wants to happen then she is breaking up with him.

Hi Mjweed, It sounds as if he is avoiding her which would be a really cruel and cowardly way to break it off with someone. The only other reason that I could think of for him not taking any of her calls and not getting in touch with him would be if something happened to him. I think that your suggestion of going over to his place is a good one and that way, she will at least know one way or another what is going on. The not-knowing is what is preventing her from moving on if the relationship is really over. Does he live with his parents? If so, she could ask whoever answers the door if he is alright.

peoples must understand each other very well to become best girl and boyfriends.If they are not better understanding,the condition goes like this and at last ends painfull hurting both sides.Better open heart the without shame and express the feeling!!! directly

I have read that your friend is not pregnant. So why waste a time looking for him when he is not to be found. If this guy went on a vacation or business trip,he should have told your friend. For her not to worry.This guy do not have concern for your friend. And i think he is not serious with his relationship with your friend,sorry to mention that,Because if he is serious one thing he needs to tell his girl is where he lives.If something happen to them before this guy vanished then i think that that is this guys intention. Tell your friend to not waste a time to a guy who is like that. There are a lot of fish in the ocean,Find a fish that is worth keeping. And stay beside your friend.That's the only thing you got to do to help her. :-)

Ignore him..........yes.......Ignore and don't give any importance to this careless boy. If he does not care for your friends, then obviously he is not right person for her.......God has given her a chance to find someone better and trustful in life so she should stop running after this mistake and try to make better decision in future with the lesson that she learns from this past bitter experience. Making mistake is not wrong, but making same mistake again and again is definitely foolish........hope you will help your friend in making right decision. Best of luck

for me the best way is to visit their house like what you wanted to so she will know the reason...i know its so shameful to do but this is the best way she could do...

For me if you worship the only true God Jehovah you don't need to worried more because you only said that problem in your prayer to him he knows what happened right now in that case he answered that in your way of life try to prayed him and called Jehovah God in your prayers.

People should understand that everything change and that includes relationships. Nothing is permanent. One should learn to let go when the time to do so has come. Too much attachment is the source of misery and suffering. Yes, you may try to mend relationships, but when it appears "broken" already (meaning the relationship does not work anymore) just let go and move on with life. Letting go is a blessing most of the time.

kinda sounds like hes lost interest or has someone else and is trying to avoid her to get her to end it so he wont feel so bad. I think a text should be sent that says "If i dont hear from you after 3 days, im done" if that doesnt make him respond then he is already done.