What kind of VIBE do you give off?
By pepai123456
@pepai123456 (879)
Philippines
November 15, 2011 4:32am CST
I know every person has a different kind of vibe that surrounds them.This vibe can either be good or bad from time to time with different people.
As for me I give off an intimidating vibe sometimes without knowing it...
When I'm in a crowd of new people they sometimes find me cold, but once I know them and become friends with new people I become nice and friendly and they are usually surprise by it.
So what vibe do you give off is it?
Happy? Scary? Cold? Intimidating? Sexy? Good? Bad? Hyper? Mean? Lazy? Cool? Spoiled? Stubborn? and etc...
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14 responses
@pepai123456 (879)
• Philippines
22 Nov 11
We have the same attitude friend, but i tend to love the person over time especially with a guy and it might end in an awkward moments hahaha...
@MaryLynn321 (2680)
• United States
15 Nov 11
When I am in public, I am more out going. So I would say I have a good vibe, but there are other times I can have a cool vibe (not as outgoing), I guess it all depends on the day and the situation.
Just saying hi to people and smiling can change the way people perceive you to be. Give it a try, you will be surprised in the difference.
Have a nice day.
@MaryLynn321 (2680)
• United States
16 Nov 11
I can be cold as well, it all depends on the day. I can feel so many different ways, sometimes it all depends on the people one will be around, and the vibes they are giving.
We don't travel real long distances very often. The longest would be a few hours.
Have a great day too. :)
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@pepai123456 (879)
• Philippines
16 Nov 11
That's nice too hear I'm not really that outgoing and i totally hate traveling to a distant place it seems so tiring.
nah I really like my cold and intimidating vibe X3 it makes everything so surprising =).
have a great day =D!
@pepai123456 (879)
• Philippines
16 Nov 11
Your vibe kinda remind me of a sweet anime character =)...
too bad i cant sing i suck at that =(...
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
15 Nov 11
It depends on what i feel around me or about the person.
I don't give quick judgment with first impression.
It's not good to judge someone quickly as we do not want to judge also.
I might feel something bad about the person but I do not entertain it...or try to shrug it off and let the truth revealed in the long run.
@pepai123456 (879)
• Philippines
16 Nov 11
I think everyone is being judge by first impressions even in normal days or job interviews we cant avoid to judge a person with his/her outer look,aura,vibe and etc.Its a normal human reaction on a person they find unique or intriguing.
I do agree with you not to judge a person with first impression, but let me ask you if your going to hire a person to work for you isn't it normal to judge him from the outside first and watching how they work =).
have a great day jaiho2009 =)!
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
15 Nov 11
Well i don't really feel comfortable when I am around new people so i just sit there quiet. I have heard my close friends say I looked scary when they first met me LOL i am not scary at all. Once I start getting along with someone, they will know there's nothing to be scared of. But maybe that is what vibe I give them unknowingly or maybe people are scared of people who are quiet
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@pepai123456 (879)
• Philippines
16 Nov 11
LoL im sure your not scary ...
Maybe your just gloomy that day and it reflects in your facial expression.
have a great day =)!
@rmendoza123 (637)
• Philippines
16 Nov 11
We're both the same actually, when I don't the person I usually keep quiet but when I am at ease, I tend to become as crazy as seems. I know a lot of people who are so Mr. and Ms. Friendship, there's no problem with that, as a matter of fact I envy them.
As to my reason, people have different characteristics so you must be very careful in dealing with others, especially when you don't know them well.
@pepai123456 (879)
• Philippines
16 Nov 11
Lol ... I understand some of us are really quiet when alone and no friends like in high school and transfery students.So innocent and quiet but when you made friends with them OMG they are even crazier and talkative than you are ahaha... high school days so colorful =)
have a great day
@celticeagle (168126)
• Boise, Idaho
15 Nov 11
What kind of vibe do I give off? Now I give off an intimidating vibe. I have social anxiety so I am not out alot but when I am I am hurried and I don't like to be around people. I would rather intimidate, get in and get out and call it good. I am not there to make friends. I used to be easy going and fun but not so now.
@pepai123456 (879)
• Philippines
16 Nov 11
Im sorry to hear that you must have experience something painful in the past to act like that and i understand it.
Hope you can find peace in your life.
have a great day celticeagle =)
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
16 Nov 11
i used to wonder these.. i happen to notice that when i enter a room , i know that people do look at me and tend to really see me as someone high almighty lol.. i guess i have that confidence. anyways, lately an associate of mine told me that when she first saw me, she knows that i am someone whom she could just approach. I am totally glad of this because it is the first.. but personally i do admit in a crowd, i am not one who gets to be the center, i am not one who talk first.. i am one who can just be cool and shut up
@pepai123456 (879)
• Philippines
16 Nov 11
Lol as i was reading the first 2 sentence of your response, I was like "Hmmm... she must have the sexy vibe" but then it wasnt hehehe... sorry about that friend.
Im happy for you that people likes you and they approach you so easily.This is a good if your new to a place and you need to adjust.
People tend to call me but hesitates to ask a question =)... I dont bite *grin*
haha... have a great day jazel =)!
@m_perez (506)
• United States
16 Nov 11
Apparently I give off a negative vibe. People always see me as a non approachable person. I'm not even mean and I try not to give off the impression that I am.Maybe it's because I have a naturally mean looking face like my mom. Most off my friends who see my mom think she's scary but she's not. Well since I try to be more open when approaching people since I know how bad it feels when no one wants to talk to you based on your body language or your natural facial expression.
@pepai123456 (879)
• Philippines
16 Nov 11
Excactly! sometimes our face is to blame, some people have strong facial features that they are mistaken to be mean or grumpy.
Its okay at least your kind and loving in the inside =)?
have a great day =)!
@Triple0 (1904)
• Australia
16 Nov 11
It's always the first impressions! I' not exactly sure what vibe I give off but I reckon I'm just like you. When I' with new people, I tend to feel kinda uncomfortable and I don't really talk as much. I don't like being in a big crowd of people I'm not so close to. People tend not to approach me all that much, they always talk to my friends who are very talkative. I only talk to people I feel comfortable and god friends with. I'm weird like that, there are some people I'm comfortable with and some I just don't feel like myself. So I give off a very intimidating vibe. I can see it when people react or talk to me compared to my other friends. It does depend on the person, some see me as intimidating, some see me as funny or sarcastic I don't like how some people find me intimidating but I have to warm up to them in order to show off my true colors.
@pepai123456 (879)
• Philippines
16 Nov 11
Sometimes i can consider myself a tsundere. A tsundere is an person with cold vibe on people sometimes hostile, but overtime becomes loving and caring =).
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
15 Nov 11
I think this depends on where I am, how I feel, with whom I am.
If I feel very sick have a hard time to manage I am invisible or back off, not in for a chat.
At other times I am full of fire/energy and dominant.
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@pepai123456 (879)
• Philippines
16 Nov 11
Yes I understand when we are sick we might act differently to other people and they might find it awkward.
have a great day =)!
@iuliu23456 (48)
• Romania
16 Nov 11
everytime i want to go out i put tom jones music and i dance and sing in my house jump around , when i walk out of my house i have the big smile on my face i don't care about anything just have some good time and if some people doesn't like me is ok i will continue to have fun whit my people .be positive , be optimistic and smile i think the world around you is an expression of your inner world ,world is a mirror of you if you are happy you will see happy people around you .
@dellessimon45 (710)
• United States
15 Nov 11
I try to give off a real chillistic vibe and I'm always at ease! My friends know me by my realness and also because I'm quiet at time but if I know you well, I'm very talkative! I'm energetic and I try to be outgoing at times so I guess I give off a pretty optimistic vibe and I try to stay happy! On bad days, I give a "leave me the eff" alone vibe because I don't wat people to bother me constantly!
@pepai123456 (879)
• Philippines
16 Nov 11
Lol so your the cool dude who likes to chill and watch everything in slow mo hehe... joke...