how do you deal with this situation ?

I think that you should make a discussion with her...That will help you to express your bad opinion about her character...You can't blame her for her behaviour... She will not know that what she is doing...When you are in a happy or good mood,You can share this feeling with her...And try to reveal her about the seriousness of that behaviour....Encourage her to change that character....She will definitely try to change that...I have a friend...She is like this...She don't know that what,where,how to say something...She is an open minded person....There will not be anything in their mind of this type of people...But I love her because of this character.... ALL THE BEST.... :-)

Treat The Girl The Way She treats you Man and be a MAN. have a nice day

I would first try to just tell her how i feel about what she does. If she continues then i would give her a taste of her own medicine. By doing it back to her. If that dont work then maybe its time to get a different girlfriend. One who can respect your private lives by not bringing it out in public.

Next time she will say something bad in public try to close your eyes and imagine your worst enemy is in front of you .Then try to kick your worst enemy butt and that will solve your problem.Probably you will lose your gf but you will earn back your self respect

Wow that is hard. Has she always been awful to you? Are you still happy with her? First of all, I would like to commend you for being such a gentleman. Even if your girlfriend scolds at you, you don't scold her back. Instead, you just keep quiet and take silently every awful things she says. That's an amazing trait I must say. Some guys would shout back at their girlfriends. They would even physically hurt their girlfriends. Next, I know you love her but with the information you have provided us, I don't see your relationship going anywhere. She would always be angry at you and you two will never be happy. I personally think that you are better off without her. You can find other woman to love. I know it would be easy since you're a good guy. I can feel that. This is what I would do if I'm at your situation. I would try to talk to her. I would tell her I don't like it when she's angry at me and ask her if we could start all over again to work out our relationship. If she still did not change after that, I will break up with her. Look for someone who would love me. I deserve to be happy.

It's kinda sad what's happening to you! I always had a thing against couples who used to argue and tell each other harsh words in public, I hate it when you wash your clothes in public! You said she uses words "hard to bear and to hear"... if my boyfriend would do stuff like this in public, I'd try to have a conversation with him, ask him what's the deal with his behavior and why does he feel the need to speak to me like that in public. Does he need to show that he is in control of the relationship, that he is bigger and stronger? That he controls me through words? I'd try to explain to him why i feel ashamed by his behavior and why acting like that in public it's just NOT GOOD! And, in the end, if he would not stop doing stuff like this, if he doesn't at least try to control himself, I'd seriously start thinking if this is the man i want to spend my time (possibly even my life) with... cause it's sure he's not worth my time and my feelings if he doesn't even considerate my feelings when i specifically tell him it hurts me to see him act in a certain way. And i advise you to do the same!

If a lover scolded me in public and made me feel like a child , I would just leave. See I would be so angry that I Could beat them to a pulp so the wisest thing to do is leave. But if you are less angry and more hurt, then sit her down and tell her Exactly what you told us here . That you feel like a child when she does this. Tell her you deserve the proper respect and if she can't give it to you , you are leaving.You deserve to be with a woman you treats you like a man , not like her child!

Hi, conquer: I so much surprised, how come to continue your relation with such this girlfriend. if she do not respect you now, do you feel that your in future she do. Get free now and look for another respected girlfriend with good personality, to share the future with you. best luck for you

Teach her a lesson and give a chance to her again. Will you?

If you feel that way why not break it up with her? if she treats you like that and treats you like a trash then move on, find someone worthy of your time and respect.

If I am in your position I feel very disappointed. Because scolding in public with bad words and anything is not beyond the control of love affairs or boyfriend and girlfriend matters... I need to think twice if I still continue the relationship with that person or not. She only your girlfriend and talk to you that way in public. She never respect you as man or even as boyfriend...how much more if she is your wife...everyday quarrel. Ouch! I don't like that way of life...

Hi! OUCH! I can understand the frustration of how you feel. In a way I have been there and there is nothing more annoying than someone making you feel this way. Before this truly gets out of control, is there the remotest chance of the two of you sitting down and talking it out? Is she aware of your feelings when she does this in public? Does she seem as though she would moderate her behavior enough so it is not nearly as embarrassing for you, and eventually her? Do you know anything about her past that may be causing her to act this way? If she is willing to listen and moderate her behavior for you and still be herself, then perhaps things will work out for you. I sincerely hope that they will as everyone deserves to be happy. Do give it time as it takes time to moderate ones behavior. Best of luck!

Oh. Your girlfriend is a potty mouth. Well, there are girls who are like that. I can't tell whether what is exactly wrong with her but it must have been with the environment she grew up as a child. You know, we tend to copy what we got exposed to in our younger years. Somehow, her behavior isn't healthy for you as it is causing you to distress. I think you should think about the whole relationship, you two doesn't seem to have a healthy upbuilding type of relationship. :)

Make her to come to you by your actions and response.

I would be very sad and frustrated if the one I love treat me like this. So talk with her, tell your true feelings to her. Maybe she also felt painful when she scolded you, she just cannot control herself. It is said that we all live in our life modes, negative or positive, just we hadn't realized them. And all these life modes are related to our birth, family atmosphere, growth and education backgrounds. It's just complicated. It is not easy to maintain a good relationsip, requires both parties' efforts. I do hope you good luck~

Well first, she doesnt respect you. No matter if she says she does or not, second let her know you wont be a doormat to be walked over especially in public,..even if in public while she is doing this you say "Im not going to tolorate this I deserve respect" and walk away and leave her standing. Yes i know you feel belittled when she does that. dont belittle her back, just walk away and make her come to you to apologize or whatever. noone deserves to b humiliated like that

Since I am not in your position I can only say this: You can only be blamed if you feel like that (same with embarrasment). So is there something true about what she is saying? My question is: what are you attracted to a girl like that? Scolding at you, blaming you, using a lot of dirty words??? An other question is: is she trying to provoke you with dirty words, scolding, bad behaviour because she has the feeling you don't respond on her? Are not taking her seriously, are not giving her what she wants or ignoring her? Is it possible she is trying to find out when you will say: STOP? She doesn't sound to me as the girl that will give up before you do so or as someone that has any respect for you.

Speak to her openly about the problem you are getting by her to her.If she doesnot agree(no girl agrees),put her conditions that i want these good quality character(not using dirty words,being more friendly,not treating like a bad person) from her.If she doesnot,leave her alone without you.make her to feel the pain without you.If she says about the worry of losing you.Say about the pain you got by her.She will become good. if nothing happens like this,better leave her permanently.because life is short.Enjoy to the most!!!There will be another girl friend,who will understand you well..happy mylotting!

I think what you need to do is sit down with her and express how you feel about her behaviour. It is really bad and embarrassing especially if someone do it infront of other people, this only signify the level of immaturity your girlfriend has. A mature person usually wait or look for that private moment to talk about issue and don't just burst with issue infront of other people. She just seems to be far out of reality.

I'm sorry to say this but that's not the rightful things your girlfriend should do to you. That could only mean that her love for you was translated into insecurity and disrespect and that is never in the context of love. You should tell her how you feel about losing yourself with the things she does. Maybe it's a part of her blind spot and you as her boyfriend should be the one to expose that bitter truth to her for your relationship to work out and last. Breaking up at once is not the answer and there is no problem that can not be solved. Happy MyLotting and have a great day!