what is this.......how to explain.....?????????
By apsara60
@apsara60 (6610)
Israel
November 15, 2011 6:31am CST
Hi Friends, You and me both know very well that there are no Ghosts and no evil- spirits. It is just what we think in our sub-conscious mind. But I a worried about my Sister-in-law, who lost her hubby few months ago and is now living with her 22 year old daughter. Yesterday she called me and said that she cannot sleep in the night because all the time see feels existence of someone around her and even his/her touch on her body. When we told her that it was just her thoughts, she started to cry because no one is taking her seriously. Her daughter is confused, she does not know if to agree with her mother or not as she too felt strange things, but she is not sure if it was a dream or real. Besides she is sure that it is not her husband, but some evil spirit........what should I do. How can I help her.......Can anyone help me to help her.........Thanks.
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@leon923940426 (480)
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15 Nov 11
I cann't understand this phenomenon and you scare me a lot....
Is this true ???
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
15 Nov 11
ha ha ha.
......you are so sweet leon and you are so innocent........Please don't feel afraid........it is not true and even if it is.....they can be good angels who come to sing songs for you 
and nothing to feel afraid........but you really made me laugh........Have a nice day.
......you are so sweet leon and you are so innocent........Please don't feel afraid........it is not true and even if it is.....they can be good angels who come to sing songs for you and nothing to feel afraid........but you really made me laugh........Have a nice day.
@CRIVAS (1815)
• Canada
15 Nov 11
Excuse me but YES there are EVIL spirits. You cannot believe in one without the other. There is NO good without evil, NO God without the Devil. So you cannot sit there and say that there are NO EVIL spirits. I for one KNOW that there are as I have had experiences with both kinds. It is rude of you to say so just because it is what you believe, and dismissing something as being NOT REAL just because you THINK it's not, is NOT a good idea. There are things that people can't understand but that doesn't mean that they should be dismissed as not real.
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@airkulet (2700)
• Philippines
15 Nov 11
You can ask experts to do some paranormal things in their house just to know if there is a soul being still around the house or maybe the husbands still have unfinished business here on Earth. There are a lot of Professionals now doing these things for paranormal purposes.
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@djbtol (5493)
• United States
15 Nov 11
I am not sure what I would tell your sister-in-law. What she is experiencing is very real to her, so it will do no good to tell her she is just imagining it. Maybe you can help her find a change in behavior that helps. Different sleeping arrangement, change in diet, no sleeping pills or add sleeping pills. It could certainly all be connected to the emotional stress of her loss. Maybe she needs to continue working through the stages of grief. Friends and daughters must continue to be patient.
I cannot rule out spirts and such. The Bible is very clear about the existence of a spiritual world that is unseen, but yet potentially a reality in life.
Wish you all the best.
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@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
16 Nov 11
HI Apsaraji
Just because you don't believe does not mean ghosts and spirits don't exist, i have strong reasons to believe that they do exist, they live in a parallel world, in a different plane though, i have seen and faced ghosts, they normally are harmless..
Thanks for sharing.
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
16 Nov 11
My sister-in-law was several times in India and she met some relgious people who gave her kind of Taaviz and peformed some rituals. But all works for her for some time, then she is back to same problem again. You see if things happen rarely, you believe it but if everyday becomes a new problem, then its importance becomes less and less. This is what has happened with my sister in law..she is always afraid ....what can you do. Do you have some solution then please suggest.Thanks for your response.
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
15 Nov 11
Oh dear! I am so sorry for this poor lady. I guess you are referring to your husband's sister. I do not know the practice in your religion but going by your name , if you ar a Hindu, then there would have been ceremonies conducted after the sad demise of the poor gentleman. THen it is believed that he would have attained salvation. If a prohit had performed all that had to be, she can be sure that her husband has attained the lotus feet of the Lord. Prayer is the only problem to her solution. She must get in touch with a religious guru and he would have a solution for it. If you are a Hindu ask her to recite SUdarshanashtakam that would drive away her fears.
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
15 Nov 11
hello kalav56, how are you. Yes if nothing works then we will have to perform some religions rituals or make some kind of Tawiz.......which she has done in past too as she has been always scared of something or other. Lets wait and seeThanks for your reply.
Thanks for your reply.
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
15 Nov 11
Hi Aps!
This sounds scary. I would like to say that she needed to consult a specialised Doctor for her fears and unusual happening.
I personally do not believe in spirits or ghosts, however I am not aware if they exist at your place/country.
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
15 Nov 11
ha ha ha........yes Deepak, they are only in my country, they are not in your country because you are so sweet and spirits think everyone in your country is as sweet as you
.....and it thinks vice-versa about me and my country so they came here.........you really made me laugh.. I think I will bring her to specialized Doctor in your country.......lol
.....and it thinks vice-versa about me and my country so they came here.........you really made me laugh.. I think I will bring her to specialized Doctor in your country.......lol
@mayka123 (16604)
• India
18 Nov 11
There are somethings that can never be explained. I have had a few weird experiences that I just cannot explain either to myself or to others. I too am not sure how real this has been and just try not thinking too much of it during the day as it will disturb me more.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
25 Aug 12
Hi,
I feel very sad for your sister in law. As she has lost her hubby few month ago, so she is very sad and her mind is upset. She is in very depressed state of mind. She needs expert advice and must get out of this depressive condition of mind. I don't believe in ghosts. But I Don't want to to take objection to your sister in law's feeling. There are some people who can solve these types of problems. Something should be done for her and her daughter. i wish your sister in law wili get well soon.
