How will you know if a guy or girl is serious in a relationships?

I'm one of those extremely clueless people when it comes to the seriousness of a relationship. If I don't sit the person down and talk to them about it, then I have no idea what's going on.

Hard to know at first, it requires time and patience for you to understand someone properly. Otherwise, most of the first time impressions are fake and deceiving.

okay dinner and compliments everyday won't be a good basis for someone becoming serious. it is just a start. i wouldsay a realtionship becomes serious if both of you commit to each other, spend time with each other, do things and go to places with each other. when you build relationships, etc.. that sure is something becoming serious.

I believe is a metter of how deep you know the person.. You can observe. Not because a person smiles at you means he/she is serious. Not because a person treats you on a meal means he/she is good to be with. Its a matter of how you two people collide with each other behavior and traits. Its a matter on how you understand his/her negative and positive doings. Its a matter of when was the moment you can say that I can rely on him/her. Its really unpredictable unless you know him/her that much....

I think one of the best clues would be that he is willing to go to your house and meet you parents. Your love would be polite to your parents as well as your siblings. Maybe your love will talk about the two of you in the future, like when you are married and have kids. And your love helps you out in any way he could on anything. And without conditions. Your love doesn't easily get jealous. Your love always shows sincerity and your love claims that he or she is never bored of you. Your love shares his inner thoughts and feelings and ask yours as well.