MyLot Stalker!

Yes I don't think it's creepy at all. I think that it is a form of flattery and that the person in question should feel real good about being stalked

I have an official stalker at myLot, which is not harassing me, but a good friend. She is not there this week, and I am missing the interaction. When I have a friend request, I often watch the discussions started on the profile, and I give sometimes responses when I am interested, but I don't stalk anybody. At least since today.

I find the meaning of "stalking" as harassing another in an aggressive way,. Answer for your discussion -- NO. There is no point in stalking another in a forum like this unless one is devoid of other work or has extra interests. Reading old discussions --it is perfectly in order and to post wherever we want--that is fine.

i have occasionally looked at someone's profile to see where they live, or what gender they are before responding to a discussion they have started. would you call that creepy? i think you are perhaps creating a barrier to meaningful interaction on the site by defining being interested in another member as "creepy". but of course becoming totally obsessed with another member could be a problem, but at what point does it become stalking. i am not sure if it becomes stalking until it becomes a form of aggressive harassment, in real life. it would be a shame to turn innocent things like an interest in other people into something thats wrong.

I don't know if I can call it stalking. But I have been following this one member of mylot because she responds so much everyday and all her responses are good and informative. I love reading her responses. Everyday, I will visit her account and look at her activities, and I will also leave responses to the discussions she responded since she is good in choosing an interesting discussions.

Hi damned_dle! Yes, I did that. I was very interested in this person because at first I did not like how this person responded to one of my discussions. I wanted to see how this person interacts with other mylotters. Then I found that this person's way of speaking (or putting words) is a bit sarcastic but I guess it is normal for him/her. So in the end, I understand him/her better and I'm not mad at him/her anymore. It's not really stalking but I like viewing mylotter's blogs that are posted on their profile as well. It makes me know a bit more about them. :)

Hi there... Years of experience on World Wide Web has taught me that if one decides to fool somone on internet, that is simplest of all... It is true that a person who keeps posting a lot about his personal life, might be at a risk to reveal his life story to many wanted and unwanted people... But i don't see a point in tracing someone here... Its futility is immeasurable... I stalk Quality here... Am always hunting for quality discussions, like this one... :-) Happy Lotting...

Whatever the person has done in the past, is of NO relevance to me! People change...times change...attitudes change! I just like to know who they are today...and how we will interact in the future. I don't want the past to have any bearing on how I feel...once we have interacted, if they care to share what helped to create them, as to who, what they are today...that is a choice they can make! By reading your responses...I guess I am different. Have a great day...

No, I have never secretly stalked anyone here on myLot ... instead I do it right out in the open so that everyone knows! I do not think it is creepy at all, but then again I guess that the motivation is what would or would not make it creepy. I have found that on here people that interact on a regular basis often reference things that have been said in other discussions, so sometimes it is a good thing to investigate and find out, because it makes participation much more fun when you know what everyone is talking about not to mention that you might find more discussions that you can respond on.

Hi, I haven't done that. If I come across any interesting and thought-provoking discussion, than I would respond and add that person as a friend. Otherwise besides playing games, I really don't have the time to do anything else. I have had this experience with one of the social sites. Never again I'm creating another new account there. You can call it creepy but I'm sure many would say that it is a normal behavior. I find that rather strange.

I don't think it's creepy. Beside, the stalker could very well be stalking a person pretending to someone he's not.

I have never stalked anyone here or on any other site. I like coming here, making friends and responding to their discussions. I don't think it's creepy, it would be if they kept on emailing you all the time or kept leaving messages on your profile. But, reading and responding to all their discussions is normal for MyLot. Thats what we do.

I haven't stalked anyone here on myLot. And maybe if I did I won't actually think that it's creepy. I usually view someone's profile just to check whether this person have posted a new discussion that I might have missed.

No. I don't, I try to respond to others people discussion as much as I can and as time allows me to do so. Infact that alone leaves me with no time to stalk people around but to participate.

people here sort of stalk me but not in a mean secretive gonna get you way at all. Its just I have been here awhile and some are fascinated that I lead all of you in participation as I am retired and elderly and love to mylot.But noone has ever been scary to me. Now I know what real stalking is and its very scary. I worked as a young woman as a nurses aidel. I was 22 and this young man was 20 and in for an adult tonsillectomy.I was his nurse off and on and so mehow in his mind I was as stuck on him as he was on me. He asked mbe out but I was not interested. He started sending me gifts at the hospital which was irritating to the front office who had to find me an give them to me. then what was worse he started calling me at work'oh my gosh now the front office was getting really irritated. so finally determined to put a stop to this I agreed to go to dinner with him. but that was a mistake. He assumed I was now ready to be his girlfriend. not only that he brought out an engagement ring and wedding ring set very expensive and asked me to marry him. I told him I was flattered but I could not accept as I did not love him and also was too old for him.He turned deadly.He threw the stuff at me then got up and put his hands around my neck. I was about to pass out when two burly waiters got him off me and the police came to arrest him; I signed the paper for assault and battery.but his wealthy father bou ght off the police and sent his wild son back east to live with an Aunt.I heard later he almost killed a woman who refused his advances and was in prison for attempted murder.that was my experience with a stalker a real stalker. very scary.

For me yes they are to be with that like to view information of others but if you don't like to be with don't follow with the bad things in them.

Well I have better things to do with my time, but I have been sorely tempted to take a closer look at some posters. It's not creepy unless you want to do horrible horrible things to that person. Just taking a look at the posts of a person is not stalking per say, just observation. Yes, observation, of course, that explanation doesn't fly with the authorities, but that's another story. ;) Seriously through, it's perfectly harmless to take a look at the posts of the others. Of course, if someone decided to do that to me and looked at my older posts...I'm kind of appalled. Then again, I'm one of those writers who has periods where he hates pretty much everything that he has written ever. Not stalking again, it is just merely observation. That's the ticket.

So far i haven't done that and there's nobody here in mylot that really interest me that much to stalk him or her. Don't take me the wrong way but i do love my friends here but i'm not that obsessed to stalk them.

i alwyas do it, but not that mean i very interested with that people. hey, just check other older discussion, that not creepy.

No I haven't. The only people I know here personally are those that I referred. Even their post, I rarely follow it I normally reply to post that are catchy and interest me (like your post:). It's really creepy and nonsense at the same time.