i need you all to be my friend here
By chadzie24
@chadzie24 (51)
Singapore
November 16, 2011 10:50am CST
I need a friend here. a good listener is what im asking for. period
6 responses
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
16 Nov 11
what does a good listener mean to you and what is . period?
Well if you feel the need you can write me.
@chadzie24 (51)
• Singapore
16 Nov 11
Not just an open ear but an open minded person. good to know you are. period means i need you. :)
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
16 Nov 11
well I have an open ear and open view and I will say my opinion, no lies, might sound hard but at least you know that I am honest and not lying around. It's something that I can't stand and also I don't see the need of it.
Just drop by if you want to.
@chadzie24 (51)
• Singapore
16 Nov 11
I will love to have a conversation with you, --bait need to sleep for now. coz i have work later, Will still waiting for your reply.
@sizzle3000 (3036)
• United States
16 Nov 11
being a good listener is pretty easy. I can do that and so can my daughter. After a while though if you do not do the same for us then we don't really listen to you.
My daughter has been friends with her best friend for 17 years. She loves her like a sister and has listened to her through out the years. But she also listens to my daughter as well. If I didn't know better she could be my kid too.
My point is that listening is easy if it goes both ways. And there's more to being a friend then just being a good listener.
@cassije74 (247)
• Philippines
17 Nov 11
Count me as one Chadzie, I have ears and heart to share with too like them. Anything as long as you share it with us. But sometimes, in friendship you have to tell me what person you are, so that we may not end up hanging ourself and what ideas and opinions i can give to you. Because a friend is someone you can be treasure of and it is not a one way communication only but rather a two way. It doesn't mean that you have to understand me all the time but also i must know to understand you better than you do. Knowing what you want and knowing what i want gives us lasting friendship because we need to adjust and cope up each other to make it works.
Online friendship maybe a sort of different thing and quite interesting at the same time advantage for me to have friends internationally ? am i not proud of that? yes of course though not meeting them in person but i can share them like one.
@chadzie24 (51)
• Singapore
17 Nov 11
thanks for your response... glad to know that albait i don't know you, still willing to listen to someone like me. ;)
@henkiprananda (2729)
• Indonesia
16 Nov 11
hmm... just add other and we became your friends. you can create a discussion for asking something you need or sharing.
welcome to mylot.
@Rosa26 (2618)
• United States
16 Nov 11
I am a good listener so can count with me.
Listening to people will help us understand them and their needs, and this will make us be more comprenhensible with everybody problems.
To listen well, is as powerful a means of influence as to talk well, and is as essential to all true conversation.
Chinese Proverb
Most of the successful people I’ve known are the ones who do more listening than talking.
Bernard M. Baruch
