feel different

feel different - i have a problem with myself.
i cant do many thing that usually people can do.
i am different with all of people.
i have try to do the smae thing, but i lost myself.
@deliar (609)
Indonesia
November 16, 2011 12:03pm CST
have you ever ffel tht you are weird, different with all people around us. feel that we so unlucky in this world. feel that we cant do anything, just like me now, i lost my self. i dont know who i am,just see ehat people do and i cant do that. feel soi burdenend..
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11 responses
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
24 Dec 11
I always felt different from others, and always feel weird. Because, I can not do what I want to do. While others, could do what they want to do. I always feel weird, because I have to depend on others, and can not decide what I want to do.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
4 Feb 12
I already try my best. But sometimes, I do not have the ability anymore. When I feel do not have the ability, I was desperate. Trying to bounce back, and accept all that is, I always try to do it. But sometimes, my ability is limited.
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@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
6 Feb 12
remember your mother and your son sista it make you are stronger and stronger
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
4 Feb 12
but you is still alive miss indah??right?? so you is still lucky you are still lucky because still had a mother don`t easily lost hope like that wake up... someday if you are patient , God will change your situation as long as you work hard for it
@Mashnn (4501)
17 Nov 11
Learn to accept your weakness and strength. You are just who you are and indeed not comparable to anyone else. You just need to accept that your special in your own ways, do your own ways, work towards your weakness and live your own way. You will find happiness in that. I promise you.
@deliar (609)
• Indonesia
19 Nov 11
yes you are right, i am who i am, it doesnt need tone the other. i have try to do that, i dont think about what people talking about me now. trying to be myself, not stealing the other style. this is me and iw ill not be like the another. i have my own characteristic and have my own way. my value, only me that can can decide that, no other person.
@Mashnn (4501)
20 Nov 11
That is exactly what I want you to understand and face the world knowing that in your mind.
• United States
16 Nov 11
We all feel like that sometimes. Some times I feel like everyone has or is more then I myself can ever be, so whats the point to it all. I grew up being hated by everyone except my Mom & Aunt. Now they have both passed away & I find myself all alone. I have 3 sisters & one brother, but none of us can stand the other & so we choose not to speak to each other. I have my husband who I know loves me, but if anything were to happen to him then I would have no one. It's a wonder why some of us even bother to get up in the morning at.
@deliar (609)
• Indonesia
17 Nov 11
i feel the same thing like you. live in my environtment and being hated. really such annoying thing. i would like to go out from there and find my world and so far from them. they dont know about me but they judge me. i dont like that. i think, being with my best friend only, is better than with them all.
@KOSTAS499 (1624)
• Greece
17 Nov 11
Feeling different is Ok. It means that you are influenced by more things than others. Feel you lost your way or goal? It happens, at least to me. Just analyse what you like and want mst and it will be clearer.
@deliar (609)
• Indonesia
17 Nov 11
yes los my way and goal. But i think it cause by myself. too much ambition, maybe...
• Philippines
16 Nov 11
Hello dliar! I hope you feel better soon. If you continue to hold on and think of positive things, everything will eventually turn out right for you. I also feel the same way at times when I don't know why I am here for and I feel like not moving forward anymore. But it passes. It always does. Just relax and unwind. There are several things that could cheer you up. Open yourself up to the possibilities of the world and see the wonder of nature and simple happiness. Friendship is one way to keep you strong. I am here to be your friend and I am sure that you will also find a lot of mylotters who are willing to be your friend :)
@deliar (609)
• Indonesia
17 Nov 11
im so afarid to move forward. i am afrai ebing wrong. and i will be more weird in see of peopple. but i will try to keep myself in my way. i dont want to be like this forever. i have to change myself and it has to succes.
• Philippines
18 Nov 11
face your fears! ^_^ there is no way to go but forward so you don't really have any choice. just take things lightly ^_^ you are lucky enough that you are still alive so just enjoy the moment and smile everyday! good luck to you! ^_^
@wulania (1524)
• Indonesia
20 Nov 11
sometimes i feel so different and lonely. but i know i am not alone in my life. many people are poorer than me and in worse condtion than me. so i dont have any reason to complain about my life, my conditons with others. just enjoy my life, and my life must go on
@deliar (609)
• Indonesia
23 Nov 11
yes, what you have said right. maybe the best way for me is thinking positively. im still lucky than the other. maybe with that, i can be better.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
2 Jan 12
I think it is normal to feel abnormal sometimes. I have and I know there will be times I will again but the important thing is to just know yourself and who you are. I think you have got some wonderful advice from your responders here. Positivity and self confidence can go a long way. I especially like the responses that questioned who said it was normal? I think that is a huge point. Who says? You are perfectly normal and perfectly you. As far as your ambitions..they can never be to high. You are capable of most anything you set your mind to but no great ambition comes without extreme challenge and some disappointment. Wipe off your knees when you fall down and try again. It is how we learn how to walk as a baby and so you will learn how to do more complicated things in life. Take care and good luck.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
4 Feb 12
really?? why do you so feel unlucky?? it`s not good if you always seems like that c`mon many people is more unlucky than you wake up wake up
@megamatt (14291)
• United States
20 Nov 11
I do think that there are times where I feel that I am very different from others that are around me. Of course, that really doesn't mean much of anything to me. I will not allow myself to fit into any mold that is predetermined by society. If people do not really like me for the person that I am and what I do, then that's their problem, not mine. Of course, weirdness and being unique is something that is in the eye of the beholder. There are just a lot of times where the weird one could be the only normal one and everyone else is strange in their want to conform to society's predetermined molds. There are just many times where things just seem rather different and I go for the flow.
• Indonesia
16 Nov 11
Yes, I have a secret in mind that keep telling me to hide what's inside my head. I feel other people are also weird and differed from me and I also was to them in mutual way. I like having though of different from others.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
16 Nov 11
No I don't. I think other people are weird, I find myself normal. Also the thing is that many people who others find weird I do find normal or don't see much wrong in their behaviour. So what is weird you can only measure yourself and in my eyes I am perfectly normal. No need to doubt about that since I am who I am. Not fake just me and not the need to prove me or belong to a group or be one of the sheep in the cattle.