FAITHFUL or LOYAL... what do you prefer?
By rubylin28
@rubylin28 (76)
Philippines
November 16, 2011 6:56pm CST
Sometimes,we tend to ignore the difference between these two. But here is a description which will possibly make us choose what's better..
A FAITHFUL person doesn't have time to get attracted with others. His/Her attention is only for the one he/she loves.
while, A LOYAL person still gets attracted to others, appreciates beauty and flirts at times. But at the end of the day, he/she knows where his/her heart belongs.
Are you Faithful or Loyal?
4 responses
@areskya (398)
• Indonesia
17 Nov 11
Faithfull, of course.
It is really great feeling that could make only focus on him without seeing others guys, no matter I know their strenght which are better than my guy, but don't know how and don't know why, yeah,,, it is me. I have tried to get in touch another good guy but I feel so suppressed cos being so close with this guy as lying to my own heart that don't want to spend my time with him and don't love him. I also feel guilty with him who loves me but I can't give the same thing to him.
On the other hand, it has bad side which make me can't be objective in choosing the best guy for me.
@rubylin28 (76)
• Philippines
17 Nov 11
It's good that you wanted to be faithful on a guy. I have observed that you are being confused on whom to choose between the guy you love and the guy who loves you. I guess you just have to sort out the pros and cons between the two. Then decide not only with your heart, but also think well if who among the two will make you happy in the end. Your happiness is a great factor in choosing the best partner.
@rubylin28 (76)
• Philippines
17 Nov 11
I appreciate your honest response. As long as you know where your heart belongs and you think you are doing what is right for your relationship, being loyal is a better choice. I guess no one can always stay faithful without being loyal.
@SandeeE (346)
• United States
17 Nov 11
I would def. have to say that I prefer both. When you are faithful you will be loyal to the person your with.
To break it down in my eyes, someone faithful that's also loyal will not flirt with others, will always make it clear to another person of the opposite s** that they are taken, they can mingle among the opposite s** but not have one person leave the night thinking that they might just be able to date him/her. I think that's important. If your spouse is faithful and loyal he will make sure to come home at night and call when needed so you don't worry as well as expect the same in return. The decisions will be made for the entire family and not just for themselves.
@rubylin28 (76)
• Philippines
17 Nov 11
Everyone of us has our own opinion on these things. Faithfulness and loyalty are both good depending on how we apply it on our own lives. As long as you're doing what's best for the relationship, it won't matter anymore if you're being loyal or faithful to your partner.
@jtj_hello (627)
• Philippines
17 Nov 11
I think I'll go with the LOYAL one. It is not healthy if your man or woman doesn't know how to appreciate other people around them. For me, that's so sickening. However, faithful person are rare to find. With that, LOYAL is the beter choice. :)
@rubylin28 (76)
• Philippines
17 Nov 11
That's right. It's really hard to find faithful persons nowadays. It's because everyone of us were given the freedom to appreciate beauty. The choice you've made is definitely true to most of us.
