Why people fight?
By isloooboy
@isloooboy (1733)
United Arab Emirates
7 responses
@cassije74 (247)
• Philippines
17 Nov 11
Yah, i agree with you islooboy! that is the correct way of saying it. People sometimes make it in a reverse mood. We cannot deny the fact that sometimes we use people because of our personal interest and self gratification instead of loving them which is the proper way.
USING in the sense that we can drop people easily that way, like we are using things and trash it after taking advantage of it that's selfishness. LOVING in a sense that we care nothing for ourselves but THEM as our first priority involving no money and no cost can compare.
@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
18 Nov 11
Very well said, I was thinking why we are witnessing increase in frustrated and disturb people around us? the main cause behind this increase is the behavior which we are following right now. We have to go back to our values in which we have to take care of people around us instead of collecting materialistic things.
@cassije74 (247)
• Philippines
22 Nov 11
True isloo! To change the attitude of the people around us, we must change ourselves too in order to influence them... I believe, charity begins at home. We cannot change others if we cannot change ourselves in the same way, we cannot teach others and share if we don't have. The REAL principal values of life is to LOVE the people and not materializing them. How we love ourselves reflects on how we love others in the end.
@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
17 Nov 11
Absolutely correct, yes we can help each other by communicating by loving and by giving respect instead loving just car, home or shampoo ;)
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
17 Nov 11
Greed is one common reason why people fight.
Yes, using other people for their vested interest and it's about greed.
Since the time memoriam...greed is the reason for war between kingdom and countries.
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
17 Nov 11
Hi islooboy
I agree with you. Like you I always believe that we humans are the most blessed species on the planet as it is we who love... Many other species too love but their love is just confined for their offsprings and limited. Unfortunately, we humans are not only having love for humans but we also have love for power, religion and so many other things. When the love for these "Other" things plays on our minds, we end up fighting others. Unfortunately we never care to realize that this is wrong and continue our warring attitudes making the world unpleasant for not only us but many others
@AJsMom (157)
• Philippines
18 Nov 11
People fight because of misunderstandings. If only we would learn when to mellow down, when we begin to hurt other people or people would calm down when their heads are flaming up, then these fight would never start. Loss of respect to each other would ignite an ugly fight and these could lead to violence. If only people would learn to treat each other right then these fights would come to an end.
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@ravisivan (14079)
• India
17 Nov 11
You have some point in your mind. You are not able to tell it fully.
we should love people and not things. When we love things we will fight for getting it for our use and in the process we may be antagonising others. have a good day.
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