is it hard to be friends with some one you have feelings with

Of course it is! I confessed my adoration for this one girl in my class and for the longest period, she never responded! Now our conversations are rather awkward and I feel we are drifting apart as friends, and she doesn't seem to care so now I'm kind of left on the edge it feels like! Looks like things will never return to the way they were before, and I can't become good friends with her or even decent friends because of the fact that I still feel some connection/attraction between us two. :/

Once, I experienced that when I was in college. I admired one of my friends from different classes. But, it's very usual for me to keep my feeling alone, without anyone knew about it, even my close friends. Sometimes, it was confusing when someone we liked, don't feel the same as we did. However, for I always keep my feeling closed, I can still befriend with him and I don't get bothered with it.

no one likes to end up being friends with some specific person whom we come across in our life time.It is the time which manages everything and makes us away from that person .Yes it is hard to stay friends. Life is just lik ethat ,it teaches us a lot and for the first time we may feel this to hurt us a lot but if that happens many times we get used to that and become strong from within to face situations which go across us.

I have a similar situation with a friend. But we are still close friends until now. We had some time away from each other which I think is good. It is better to be really far, I mean very far from that person for at least a lot of years. And when you see each other again after such long years and cleared up to him that it's really not possible for the both of you to be in that kind of relationship. I was bothered by this before for many years. But I'm glad that I am feeling comfortable now that I think has accepted this fact.