Friend get to fall inlove!!!

falling in love with your best friend can be the sweetest thing of all but nightmare when you suddenly know you can't cross the boundary and asking more than it. But you can still save the friendship just before you two start screwing it up. Take Care!!

I have experienced this too. In fact, the guy is my current boyfriend, LOL. It was very unexpected, i didn't even believe him when he first confessed. He had to let his best friend(who is also my friend) to confirm it to me. At first, it was weird. But i still treated him as a friend though maybe i was a little bit nicer and kinder towards him. We hang out together, just the two of us sometimes even when i had a boyfriend that time. I was comfortable around him so i don't think our friendship changed that much. Initially, he was like a brother to me. Eventually, i don't know how it really happened, i began to like him like he liked me. IF it was someone that i could never love or like romantically, i would be kind to him still but that would only be it. WE'll still be friends.

Under such situation, if I don't love her like a real lover, I might simply explain to her, and tell her that we simply are friends, and I would like to keep it this way which won't interfere our friendship hopefully. There is nothing more I would like to say to her, otherwise, it might make things worse.

I have a friend. I knew him just this July 2011. My sister introduced him to me. We started became friends. He always call me on the phone every night. I like him because he is very attentive whenever I talk. For the first time in my life, I felt that I'm also important for a guy because he really listens and give his opinion. We also share laughter over the phone.We also share our problems. My sister was wondering why we became so close even though we just knew each other a month earlier. I never knew, I was falling in love with him. But I don't want to lose friendship. Just then, on my birthday, he ask me if I could be his girl. He admitted that he has fallen in love with me!My gosh! my heart jumped with joy! But still, for us, it's better to be friends at all. We lose contact this November and I kinda miss him talking and calling me. But if we are really meant for each other, time will keep us together at the right time. Until now, I still love Him.

Though it has never happened to me, I think at first it will be too awkward. I really don't know how to react if suddenly a close friend of mine will tell me he has fallen in love with me, especially if I really don't see him as a lover. Probably, I will not turn him down right at that moment and say I don't feel the same way, because I know how hard it is for him to tell me that he feels that way for me. I should give an extra credit for his guts to pull that through.

Human beings are in this world with variety of mistakes and if my friend tell me that she loves me then i will tell that we are wonderful and that chain should be maintained until the end of the life. Life ruins if love hurts so don't love me. Let's have a good friendship .

That is the usual happen because there big chances that friends know each other and appreciate what they have and what they do in life. Remember that friendship is one of the best way to socialize people.

My best friend recently got committed. He had a crush on this girl for a long time and she told him that she did too. So I was happy and sad at the same time. I wasa happy that he got a gf and sad that I didn't (I almost broke down but I didn't let him know). Also for a few days I got pissed with they coming for a chat and then ending up on the phone with his gf. But now it's alright. We never meet now!!!!

That happened to me too, and for a while I didn't realize that my best friend fell in love with me. He was shy to tell me so I knew from others and from how he acted. I wasn't able to discuss it saying 'look I know you love me, but...' so I started to keep a distance between us. Not the best thing to do I know.

this is why most people do say that it is not possible a friendship between male and female, even if you've been friends for a long time, one may have a few of love to the other without he or she knows. lol. in your case, since you already know that the friendship turned into love for him, and you feel him like a brother, all you have to do is to make him forget about that. i had also a sister who was in the same situation, but you know? the only thing she did was that sometimes she made him believe that the friendship between them and not love. I've never come up through this, but if this happen to me, you guys..they always run to everything, but i first have to comprehend the other friend feeling before any decision