heart broken for the fisrt time..
By rubylin28
@rubylin28 (76)
Philippines
November 18, 2011 2:01am CST
It happened like about three years ago when me and my first boyfriend had a break up. I never thought that it would hurt so bad that every time I remember him, I can't help myself but cry. For the first time I got brokenhearted. And even though I've already moved on and started a new relationship with someone else, it seems like I never forget the first heartache I've ever had a few years ago.
It doesn't mean that I don't love the person I'm with right now but it really seem so different with the first time that I've fallin' in love with someone.
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6 responses
@dannahjade (29)
• Philippines
19 Nov 11
Because it was your first love... Even though you cried a lot, what's the best thing about it is that you learned & able you to grow as a better person... Time to shed tears my dear coz it's not worth crying instead focus on the new relationship you are in right now...
@rubylin28 (76)
• Philippines
22 Nov 11
you're right. it's now time to move on and forget the past. though it was not that easy at first but I'm just so thankful that I've already found someone who's able to shed my tears off and made me realize that i deserve to be happy after all.
@baanadetto_yuki01 (71)
• Philippines
19 Nov 11
Every individual surely experience the same thing but of course I respect what you feel, it's like remembering the past. Well, it's part of your love life experience at least you met the guy you are with right now. Maybe God planned it for a reason.
Just try not to show it to your boyfriend that you still keep on remembering your ex it will hurt him a lot i swear. focus on him and be happy...^_^
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
18 Nov 11
I think everyone has heartbreak when I think back I think to myself yes it hurt but I learnt a lot and found better and then heartbreak again and even though it doesn't get any easier one soon learne hopefully it was for a reason, the reason being there is someone better...plus I think of the old saying it is better to have loved than never loved at all and in my life time I have come across a couple of people who never did have a heartbreak because they never did have a love and that is even sadder.
@Mikaela_taz25 (1842)
• Philippines
18 Nov 11
Accepting that we can no longer be together to the person who we love before, what we need to do is to survive form the pain and sorrow that heart broken brought us, time can heal all wounds, glad to know that you now with the person you love and hope that you never have again a heartache. Cherish every moment don't let your past ruin your present and your future.
@SandeeE (346)
• United States
19 Nov 11
It is hard for most to get over that first break up. Some say that with any major break up as long as you were together is how long it can take to get over it.
However I also say and often remind myself when going into a new relationship that the first heartbreak is the worst. So not that you've gotten past it you not only know what it feels like and no longer need to fear it. You can be trully free in your new relationships because you know you will be okay even if this one didn't work out because you got past that first one.
I trully hope in time you are able to get past the first heartbrake. It is best to do that single though as you don't want to bring that into another relationship until your over it but I wish you all the luck.
