Love without marriage Or Marriage without love?!!
By svjomboy
@svjomboy (873)
Philippines
November 18, 2011 8:21am CST
Guys some of young live in partner they don't have
plan to get married,their reason why is better like
this than to involve of marriage and endeed with broken up.
Some situation also are they are marriage but lucking of love
some of them the one who choose for their partner is their parents
in different kind of reason and purposes.
On part whats your opinion,situations like this???
8 responses
@almond24 (1248)
• Hungary
19 Nov 11
I wouldn't choose either... or maybe love without marriage, but I would want to marry whom I love, whatever people say about that it's just a paper.
Marriage without love must be tough if someone doesn't accept it.Some say that the parents know their children's personality more so they know more who is the right partner for them. Well I don't know. They have to work a lot to get to love each other and make the best out of the situation.
@khithi17 (762)
• Philippines
19 Nov 11
Love is enough to have a lasting relationship but marriage is the legal way of saying you love someone. But if i would have to choose just one I will choose Love without marriage. Because a marriage will not work out if there's no love in it. It will eventually fail.
@julianmac (396)
• Malaysia
18 Nov 11
Hi svjomboy,
There are couples who lives under the same roof, they care and love each other very much. But there are no ties between them. They are not husband and wife.So, what's refraining them from getting married?
Most probably these kind of people are suffering from commitment phobia. They tend to run away from serious relationship. They want to enjoy life as it is and do not want to burden themselves with extra responsibilities like raising a family. Marriage without love is like a living nightmare. I guess I have to choose love but I sincerely hope this love of mine will end in marriage.
@kharlav (1669)
• Philippines
18 Nov 11
I truly believe in marriage. If truly a couple really loves each other then they should get married. Thinking not to get married because they are afraid of divorce or what just means that you don't really have enough faith that your love has never end. It is just as if the couple is playing safe, in case they won't love each other anymore. A couple should never get married for anything else except for love. ANd when you are already married, the partner should try to love the other as much as she/he can and not give up easily. Love is not just an emotion but a choice to continually choose to love and the betterment of the person. It is selfless.
@angelgie05 (118)
• Philippines
18 Nov 11
hmmmm, that's a hard to answer question because both love and marriage are important specially to us filipinos. I'd rather choose love without marriage than Marriage without love that later on will lead to break up or divorce.
@svjomboy (873)
• Philippines
18 Nov 11
yes i agree, in filipinos traditions is hard to get the birth certificate with your child if your chils is iligetimate and if without marriage too some says no blessings. if marriage without love that will lead to break up and the kids is a part of broken family.
@ygna21 (294)
• Bulgaria
18 Nov 11
I choose love without marriage.
Why should you be in a marriage without love? I know lots of people do it but I just don;t understand that.Maybe I am too young still.
But I still think loving someone without a marriage is much better than being married to someone you don't love! :)
@svjomboy (873)
• Philippines
18 Nov 11
i think you an idea, marriage without love is endeed with broken up.
but i know marriage without love is a lot of purposes too.
for example:
we will say the situation of kuwait they are first degree
cousin but their parents let them to get married and eack=h of one
of them had bf and gf, they are still leaving just
for their parents.
