How Will you Know you Are In Love ?........... love means...
By lijoos
@lijoos (346)
India
November 18, 2011 12:23pm CST
LOVE ITS ACTUALLY A DRIP.ITS A FEEL...ITS REALY GREAT...........
friends some people dont know if they are in love?
whats love?
is this love?
if i am in love?
for them a psychological study....about love...if you among one of the category..Then understand that you are in love.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
While we have heard a number of answers to “How do you know you are in love” question, we can place them in seven categories
1.PHYSICAL :People in love have a positive physical reaction when they think about or see the one they love in person.
2.EMOTIONAL:.People in love feel emotions for the person they love that they do not routinely feel for others.
3.POSITIVE WORRY:. “worry about their lover” when they are not around.these thoughts are normal and natural when you are “in love.”
4.I CANNOT IMAGINE WITH HER category.: This is the point in love when you begin to think about the future – your future with the one you love When you cannot imagine your life without him, you are in love!!!!!!!!!
5.ONENESS OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP:.You begin to realize that you truly want this other person in your life. You want to be with them.You want to share with them ,want to live with them” You actually begin to think about the one you love and not just about yourself or your needs. You think about theirs – their wants, their needs, and their desires. When the feeling of oneness consumes your body you are in love!!!!!!!!!
6.PREOCCUPIED LOVE. Simply stated, you think about the one you love most of the time. You can’t get them out of your mind. You pull their photo out of your wallet and you smile. You are preoccupied with them .When you are preoccupied with them, you are in love with them!!!!!!
7.LOVE ITSELF AND YOUR ABILITY TO EXPRESS THAT LOVE:.You finally have the courage to tell them you love them! You miss them when they are not around You worry about them. You care about their safety and welfare. You feel about them in ways you have never felt about another human being before. You suddenly and out of nowhere are inspired to say I LOVE YOU! I LOVE YOU! I LOVE YOU! You shout it to the stars. You are in love!
friends what you feel are you in love.............?
5 responses
@wulania (1524)
• Indonesia
18 Nov 11
have you got married?
if you have got maried you will understand what is love and what is passion. many people cant differentiate them, especially the young, who the life is filled with passien only but they say what they feel is the true love. haha, so strange i think.
@lijoos (346)
• India
18 Nov 11
i am not yet.
but i dont think its marriage essential..to understand whats love.
this is just only the discriptions...which all are signs of love.
i dont ever say what i feel is the love,
this discussion is realy based on psychology..and studies on a lot of couples..
@cassije74 (247)
• Philippines
22 Nov 11
Thanks for sharing your thought about what LOVE lijoos ! it really inspired me knowing and reading the expression of a person being in love.
It reminds me of a very special person who cannot express what is really love. He was speechless when i asked him how he feels and why did he say he's experiencing that kind of feelings. Actually he had been into many relationships before but there must be something special about the person that makes him feel that way. He just doesn't know why and the reason. He just feel that things you mention above lijoos! Therefore, i was asking him... is it not love you feel before? i mean having been relationship with so many times.. is it not love you felt? And he was speechless..
Well, well... every person has its own way of expressing love... The most important is... We are happy and capable of loving others aside from ourselves..
As for me, LOVE means i never end up feeling sorry for myself because i lost them of my own selfishness. I give them compliments or corrections if necessary... I give more of their ideas than mine... Even if it sacrifices my own happiness just for their own happiness as well. But i also consider my own limitations... I am also human being capable of hurts and emotions... It is just that when i got hurt i just easily forgive them because i cannot obtain peace in my heart if i don't.
Love will always prevail no matter how long it will takes... God teaches us how to love a person truly in the bible. We will thank Him for giving this important aspect so that we may avail and taste the goodness of it. Keep loving and enjoy !!!
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
19 Nov 11
You know when you feel it.
There are no other rules or signals for that.
@joni1215 (394)
• United States
18 Nov 11
I think you sum it up very well. I think that
if one has to ask the question they may not be
in love or they have never felt it. It is easy to
confuse love with physical attraction. And many do.
I have heard that physical attraction fades after
about 2 years. So, I guess if you really are not
sure then hand with it at least that long to see.
@syedmuhd82 (30)
• Malaysia
21 Nov 11
I feel secure. If i don't love some one, it's hard to tell them the truth.... because it will might hurts...
