is it wrong for a girl to tell a guy that you like him?
By camie13
@camie13 (31)
Philippines
November 19, 2011 12:39am CST
There's this guy whom i really really like and seems to be nervous every time i saw him...
7 responses
@eunique317 (347)
• Philippines
19 Nov 11
I think it is not wrong but you run the risk of being ignored by him if you do it the wrong way. There are times when the girl should take the initiative especially if the guy is the shy-type.
@eunique317 (347)
• Philippines
19 Nov 11
You see, Camie13, many guys are like that. That's why many girls prefer to wait for the guy to confess rather than risk losing the friendship they have formed. However, there are guys who are so dense that you just have to spell it out for them for them to get what you feel.
@gaea23 (252)
• Philippines
19 Nov 11
Nowadays, it's no big deal already but that depends on the kind of person you are. If you keep your dignity and character in a right manner, of course you will never move first because you have the decency. If you think you are really in a "new generation" and you don't mind whatever people (especially the old ones) may think of what you've been doing, then go. Just make sure you will be happy and no regrets in the future. And I think you are too young, and that is only a "puppy love", an admiration that often misunderstand as real love.
@camie13 (31)
• Philippines
19 Nov 11
nope,,,im already 29,,, thats why im doing this...But unfortunately, he turned his back to me...huhu...i thought he like me, because he makes me feel special and always concern about me. thats why i took courage to tell him that i like him...but he chose her GF that is less prettier than me...And she looks like an old woman..
@mmgonzales (882)
• Philippines
27 Nov 11
No problem with that. Lift your head, be glad and move on. Its his lost anyway! Ü
@Greninee (369)
• Philippines
19 Nov 11
For me, you should be true to yourself. Hiding heavy feelings at yourself sometimes leaves you uncomfortable. I think, it's not that bad to tell a guy that you like him. Whatever happens, at least you have just been true to your feelings and that is the most important.
@tamirs (1807)
• Philippines
19 Nov 11
Take control dear.I see no problem with it.We all have the right to do what pleases us as long as we are not hurting anybody.
If you took control,you'll knew right away what his answer will be,you don't need to suffer any sleepless night thinking about him. Aside from that there will be no "ifs and buts" ..
but of course ,If he will tell you that he don't like you you need to accept that so as to hurt yourself more.Or you may also ask him why he don't love you,so that you know if you have a chance or just let him go.
@thewonderboy (7501)
• India
27 Nov 11
I never think so. I think it is very good when you express you feelings to a boy when you love him. I think you must do so when you have sincere love. Now a days most of them love many of the girls for something else. Most of them give importance to cheat girls. I don't know why this happens. My friends are also chested by their lovers. Why this happens ?
@dannahjade (29)
• Philippines
19 Nov 11
There's nothing wrong telling a guy how you feel towards him... But you must be ready with the consequences after you had expressed your feelings because a GUY will always be a GUY. .. He might take advantage on you or worse play with your feelings.. On the other hand if you are lucky with boys he may appreciate your courage and admire you for that... Good luck for you!!!
