i do need help badly in my life

hello hotsummer! I can feel that you're depressed now...I recommend that you make your lists of the things that you want to do, Make yourself happy first with just simple things. Don't be afraid to try new things because even mistakes can lead us to more wonderful opportunities. Ask God for help. You can talk to someone whom you trusted so much about your problem.

Take a pause and give ample time to PRAY...You have to talk with the one who has the greater power and who can solve your problem.... Just hold on,later or sooner you will be able to find the answers for all the questions behind your mind... Everything will fall into places if you'll just allow things to come into your life... everything has it's own reason and GOD will always provide light to shine your darkest hour... Be brave buddy

Some people, put them self under life stress, either in their work or family life. they do not get them self a time to think about their future. I see that you are now looking to your future, and it is your correct start. try to optimize your life budget, to save some monies, to be used after your retirement. My best regards

You did not need to rush in deciding what you would to change your life. You must find first what sort of things in your life that needs changes. You should be focused on what the priority that you have to make your life out the problem. One more important thing, there are thousand or even million people out there not as lucky as you are.

if you are worried about your future do your best in the present.set your goals..and avoid negativism..appreciate what you have today.. worry is not gonna help you so just be focused with your priorities

Hey hotsummer. I haven't seen you in mylot in a while. I am living my life in the EXACT same way as yours. If you do not believe me, check this discussion out by me: http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/2595808.aspx I know I am wrecking my life. I am having no fun at all and have wasted the most important part of my life - The teen years. I just believe (I false promise myself) that I am focused and when I become what I want to, I will start living my life. I just hope it happens.

I don't think you should worry too much about the future, live for today because if you worry too much today about the future you will look back to your past and all you have dobne is worry, it is nice to think a little about the future but try and be happy about today and the future will hopefully look after itself...live for today, just be happy you are alive as life is short and the future is promised to no one.

Maybe you are not doing what you really like to do. Most people face this problem when they are not doing what they are really happy with or don't know what makes them happy. Just try to find out your area of interest and work in that field

Hello hotsummer, You can still enjoy your life if you really wanted to, there is a free will and determination in you that you haven't really use it yet. We need to think about what we want to do with life, i admit it's hard to dream again even at this age, but i have seen people out there who has made it out alright and despite of the hardships, they were able to pull it through,am sure you and I can do the same.

Hello!I think,for the future,and we don't go to worry,as long as a good now. Jesus also said,tomorrow,keep it to tomorrow. Choose good their goals,move,the future must be better! Wish you good luck!

Then my friend, you need to show some resolve...just put your foot down and say enough is enough! Of course its a bit live having surgery, where the would takes time to heal and hurts a great deal.. why, because you're leaving a state that at present you feel comfortable in, even if you know its destroying you. You will feel urges, you will feel like returning.. Be strong, find a new hobby, find new friends, maybe take a vacation to someplace new. I personally find that taking a break from lifes routines helps me greatly,; just spending time alone. Its gives you time to think, rediscover and energize yourself. Set goals, to where you want to see yourself, what you hope to achieve, within a certain time frame...2 mths, 3, 6.. 1 year from now, etc.. Remember that you have friends here, even if you don't know each other.... and yeah, pray, pray for strength, resolve, guidance, patience... but don't blame yourself too much if you return, just pick yourself up and get back to it. I've found out that doing it that way also makes you into a stronger person, when you look back at where you were and what you've become, you feel strong and it motivates you for other goals...

You may be right. You are the best judge of your life and where you are in it. If you are not happy with your life, then make changes that will make you feel better about yourself. Sometimes those changes are in your attitude and not the things that surround you. Case in point: Jesus meeting the woman at the well. She was blind and cursing everyone. Jesus healed her. She was still blind but she was then praising the Lord and welcoming people. It was her mind that needed healing.

Maybe you are just too negative. What is so wrong with your life? I am sure there are lots of people with life that is worse than yours. If you get depressed and sad easily you should get a nice hobby.Find something you enjoy doing that will bring you some joy daily! Also try to think more positive and concentrate on what is good in your life,not on what is bad.Don't live in the past and don't fear the future.Just live now and be happy today! Be nice with people and give love and smiles daily! I am sure your life isn't that bad.I know it can feel like it is sometimes but it really isn't. Think about what you wanna do in your future.Do you have any goals?Do you wanna achieve something?What kind of life do you want to have in 5 years? When you answer these questions just work for it and get the future that you want to have. Stop being negative.Life is beautiful.Smile:)

Do some deep soul searching and figure out what makes YOU happy. A lot of people live their lives for other people and they are never happy and they can never be happy because you can't please every one.