Can an old fling break a strong relationship?

This guy should try to be a real man. Personally, I would not waste my time on such kind of guy. Who knows who will he choose in the end. He might be looking for some crazy thing to do, make me fall for him so that he can have another girl to have .... ya'h know what I mean, I won't mention it! If a guy stares at me that way and tell me his real feelings I would asked him if he likes me. If he said yes then I would asked him to be with me and leave the rich gal. If he can't do it, nah I don't think I will be entertaining him anymore.

I think love can happen anytime and with anyone. When a boy is in love with a girl (in this case - who is unattractive, but is supporting him financially), he must be loyal towards her. If he finds someone who is very beautiful and he develops feelings for that girl, then he should tell his girlfriend about her, and he should breakup with her officially. When a person hides something out of fear, then something is surely wrong.

Dear Camie, Be careful how you perceive this guy. It does look like he tends to stray from a relationship, any relationship. He may not let go of his girlfriend just because she supports him financially, but he probably would if he became independent. There are two things you have to bear in mind if YOU are looking to capture the hearts of this guy. 1) If he can have crushes with you while having a GF, what makes you think he won't do the same if YOU were his GF? 2) Do you really want to financially support this guy? It shows that he is not independent at all. You will have problems with him later on. You would want someone who can support and protect you, but it does not seem like this guy can.

who does that? if they really love each other that wouldn't happened. you have to confront the guy about why is he expressing that kinds of affection to you. because you too might end up getting hurt. look at what hes doing with the girlfriend it sounds like hes going to end up cheating. which is not a good man's quality.

Wow! Poor girl. The guy only sees her as a bank or monetary aid. It should have been the other thing around. I'm sorry to say this but I hate guys or people like that. The guy loves the girl because he needs her instead that he needs her because he loves him. I feel sorry for the girl. I hope she finds a man who deserves her more than her bf.

Oh really sorry for the girl. I believe the guy is a coward and joker, If he survives on financial support from his girlfriend then he is still a boy and not a man yet.

Hello Camie, First of all, i think he doesn't really love his gf. He is getting along with her because as you have said, she is financially supporting him. He is maybe grateful for that that's why he tries to be good to her. That does not change however his attraction for another girl. He maybe committed to his gf because he feels that he is obligated to do that but his heart is not in it. Thus you catch him looking at you. I believe that a relationship based on financial needs would not last long. No matter what, the real feelings will surface. Yes, there is a strong possibility that their seemingly strong relationship will break.

oh my, that was a big problem. I cannot tell that the guy really loves his GF because if he does, he will be honest to his GF.The guy who always stares and being sweet to you has surely had a crush on you. If the guy really loves his GF, he will not find another girl even if his GF is less attractive in physical appearance. If that guy broke up with his GF and court you, I advice you should not say yes to him because if he cannot take care of his relationship with his GF right now, how much more to his next GF to be? There is a possibility that there relationship may not last.But it's up to them also.