Is it better to have a friend or a boyfriend?

Italy
November 19, 2011 9:48am CST
A friend of mine has discovered to love one boy she has always considered just a friend and now she's afraid to tell him the truth because she says that talking and showing him her feelings might destroy their friendship. She asked me what to do and i said she has to decide what it's better for her if to have a friend or a boyfriend. Of course everything may change but who can say what will happen? In any case for me is better to say the truth. What do you think about?
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3 responses
Jane
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
19 Nov 11
It better to have both. Yes, her boyfriend can be her friend too. My bestfriend now is my boyfriend. He is my inspiration and he always tells me the right thing to do. I share with him everything...and I am always happy when I am with him.
mhelsdelacruz
@mhelsdelacruz (160)
• Philippines
2 Dec 11
well, good for you that your boyfriend is your friend. . exactly, it can be that her friend can be her boyfriend that if her friend is an open minded one. .but i guess so that there relationship will work out. .its just on the first step that hard to tell to his friend. .pretty sure that her friend will understand it. .
markphil
@markphil (285)
• Philippines
2 Dec 11
They are both, there are both benefits of having a friend and a boyfriend. The most important thing you have to consider is the way you treasure both, you have to respect and make it happy all the time.
shskumbla
@shskumbla (3338)
• India
20 Nov 11
If she is afraid to show his friend, I think it is not mere a friendship. In my opinion it may be more then that.