How long should a relationship be maintained?
@mysteryscorpion (33)
India
November 19, 2011 11:13am CST
I believe there are different types of relationships which need to be maintained for different durations.
Example, I would like to maintain relationship with my family and my close freinds forever
But with a person Who I met randomly and got into a discussion with him but soon realized how irritating he was, I would like to forget him ASAP.I would love to give my wrong contact no. if he would ask for it.
Similarly a person who annoyed with me,fought with me with he being at fault ...I would never ever like to step into him again
Thus u decide whether u want a long engagement or not.
4 responses
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
19 Nov 11
Ofcourse I decide if I go on with a relationship (no matter what kind of) and not the other person.
I don't like to be with people I find annoying or a waste of time.
I expect you find it hard to say or?
Well we have (Sunday morning) a radioprogramm about this. The radiostation even has a cellphonenumber you are allowed to give to people you don't like but do ask for your number. Ofcourse they don't answer it so the caller can only leave a message behind (and yes the radiostation spends some time to let her listeners hear what these messages are).
Remember that the longer you go on with a relationship the harder you will make it yourself to end it.
Be honest and say: I don't like you! or You annoy me!
@mysteryscorpion (33)
• India
19 Nov 11
You have to be completely insensitive to say :I don't like you! This might really difficult at times
@tkarabulut (434)
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19 Nov 11
I think if you find the real love there is no limit for relationship maintenance.
@FearlessHunter (142)
• India
20 Nov 11
If my love is true, then definitely will think of marrying her. I do not maintain any limit in my relationship. Yeah, if the guy fights with you for no reason and annoy you for anything then you must not care a bit about him. Finding true love is very difficult....