Dating a married woman - is it really for you?

21 is adult not a boy. but you sound like a boy so you are. Also.. you don't say you love her so there is no need to start a relationship or keep it on. How to stop it? Say NO THANKS and leave or better stay away and even more better: take a girlfriend you do like and love and tell her she is way too old for you.

I can understand your confusion. You're a guy and you're weak when it comes to girls who are tempting you. But one thing that you should know is... She don't love you. She just wants you for something. Try to stay away from her as she can put you into big trouble if you fall for her. There are a lot of women your age, try to shift your attention to those ladies.

Hey lijoos! What do you think you are doing? That girl you are saying is married? You indeed say it is wrong so why keep the relationship going? the Holy Spirit is telling and guiding you it is wrong follow what it says or else you may risks your life and suffer consequences afterwards. Do not enjoy life when you feel or think you gonna hurt someone and especially when you think it is wrong to do it. Temptation is not a sin, unless you fall into it. Be careful... or you gonna end up something unexpected bad things to happen. Just a friendly reminder... I know you can make it... Goodluck.

Several month ago my status as same you! But now I've already out of this situation!You are very young and should be stay with the same age young girl. If you still with her, sooner or later you will get into trouble!

You are too young t become involved in this. She is playing with you. And she could get you hurt. If you can't escape her then move. This is not serious to her and she is going to hurt you.

dont do that. i htink you are interesetd physically and she is too, but you both dont loev each other. it is not love, but passion, and having affair with married woman is very dangerous. just stay away from her or you will big problem. just find some one and get married, prblem solved

She could be playing you against her husband - you know, he screws around so she can too. You end up hurt if you fall in love. On the other hand, older women are fantastic lovers and a great education for you. So if you just want to keep it simple and have a really good time then 'jump in and fill your boots'. I have very happy memories of my time with a married woman in her 30's when I was your age.

Please stay away from her. I'm sure you would be in trouble if you entertain her much. Avoid her as much as possible and ultimately she will stop bothering you.

Be careful my friend. If you go with her, you are going to get into serious trouble. Do not entertain her. If she call you, sound out to her that if she does not stop, you have to bring the matter to light to her husband. Ask her to think about her child and husband. She don't love you, so don't pretend that she does. Maybe she is lonely, but that is not your problem. If you make it your problem, it's going to be a very big big big PROBLEM to you in no time. Run...like Joseph in the bible when approached by the wife of Potiphar, all I can repeat is "RUN FOR YOUR LIFE!"

First by comparing your age, the women is quite older than you. Simpy because women matures faster than men do. I would advise you to look for another girl who suits your age, not only because of the age difference but worst of all the woman is married. Be careful with dating married women, you never know what the husband may have in store for you once he realize what have been happening.

you need to finish the relationship, she's using you and you're messing around with a married woman, it's best to ditch the relationship? i think you need to sort yourself out, maybe even think about moving?!

this situation is difficult, if you really don't like her then tell her that you don't have feelings for her,and also its a sin she has a husband and you are a single,its not a good thing to build relationship with her. stay away from this lady.

The simplest thing you can do in your situation is be frank to her. Tell her that you are not open to the relationship she wants to have with you. If she insist then remind her of her status. Tell her that you are not going to ruin her family and will not going to submit with what she wants to happen.

It seems like you are not really interested in her though.Am i right? If you aren't interested then just try to talk to her and explain it to her. You can still try to stay friends and stay in touch but if you aren't up for something more you should definitely talk to her and explain your feelings. But if you are attracted to her...then i don't know what you should do and you are the only person who can decide it. Good luck! :)