this is my life
By chadzie24
@chadzie24 (51)
Singapore
7 responses
@ladyofelia (33)
• Romania
20 Nov 11
I got to a point in my life when i figured out the fact that sometimes it's good to be a little selfish and think about yourself before you think about others. You don't live on this planet for other people, you live in order to be at peace and happy with what you are and maybe what you have become... so yeah, good for you, try to make things your way every now and again, only thinking about yourself!
@chadzie24 (51)
• Singapore
20 Nov 11
thanks ladyofelia, i will dont worry... to be able to love somebody, i think we need to love ourselves first.
@ladyofelia (33)
• Romania
20 Nov 11
You're right! In order to be able to love somebody else, you need to know yourself better, to know what you like and what you need (and what you can offer)... and you find out these things when you know yourself by putting yourself first every now and again!
@cassije74 (247)
• Philippines
22 Nov 11
Hi chadzie! i remember someone saying " Your life is yours, my life is mine" " what is yours is Yours, what is mine is Mine". How come this person voice out this idea? maybe there must be something that she/he learns from life due to bad experiences or emotional distress or bitterness... Unexpected challenges and experiences in life sometimes teaches us some lessons to make our life more sustainable and keeping worth alive, surviving, coping and hoping. We busy ourselves pleasing others without giving ourselves its own worth and happiness... And in the end worthless ...Why? because they never care what we have done and never dare to say good thing after all.
So, stick to what you think is the best way for you. To pursue your own happiness is not bad, it only makes bad if pursuing that thing you hurt someone directly or indirectly through your own selfishness.
Be careful by making yourself Happy !!! Things on this earth has a plenty of tricks and trap... Enjoy life to the fullest !!!
God want it to be the best for you !!!
@chadzie24 (51)
• Singapore
22 Nov 11
much has been said cassije... i know that no one is in charge of my happiness but me,myself and i... so i absolutely doing what u had said. thanks. :)
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
20 Nov 11
Yes, that's your life and nobody can direct it except you. Just make sure that in going on with your life, you are not stepping into others' shoes. 
@chadzie24 (51)
• Singapore
20 Nov 11
thanks simplyd. i know life sometimes unfair. but it is still good. ;)
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
20 Nov 11
Congratulations!
From now on it's: you, you, you!
I been there too and I can tell you: if I would have invested so much time, energy, love, money in myself as I did in others (who find it normal, no appreciation and don't care about you anyway) my life would been way different.
And please DO NOT fall for people who say you are selfish!
If you can't please yourself first, if you are not happy it's the worst that can happen.
You = your responsibility!
Everybody has to be responsible for his/her own life.
It's a good start to say: from now on I will do everything to be happy!
@chadzie24 (51)
• Singapore
21 Nov 11
Yeah,absolutely... and how can we love others if we cannot love ourselves. sometimes its ok to be selfish,as long as you did it for yourself. have a nice day kitty!
@wulania (1524)
• Indonesia
20 Nov 11
it is my life too. i do everything what i want to do. but remember, every body has their own life. and they may do anything they want to do. we have to respect others privacy and right, because we wont get annyed by others too. it is hard sometimes, but just do it have a better life then
@umabharti (3972)
• India
20 Nov 11
so what is the first thing u achieved being ur own self and how happy are u doing that.
