i wanted to be a strong person

@hotsummer (13837)
Philippines
November 21, 2011 10:10pm CST
but i am sure that ther would be time that i would be tempted to regress back to my former weak self and just give in to the loneliness and emotions i would feel at the moment. i would want to always stay positive. i can do think positive but to be consistent to think that way is the hardest part of all. there are times i am sure that i would need to fight this big temptation to give up and just be contented being miserable at least myself the struggle to keep trying to be strong. but it will not do me any good. so hopefully i can always be strong.
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@areskya (398)
• Indonesia
22 Nov 11
Life is never flat. That's the same with the your feeling. Sometimes it is strong but it will be weak another time. However, whatever your feeling right now, it is really depends on you. Your mind and heart control everything. By having good motivation for your life will give you the stronger feeling.
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• India
22 Nov 11
It will be better you find an intresting hobbie like photography,art craft etc.For keeping your mind clean and fresh and positive,you can practice 'yoga'.Have you ever heared of it?It will make you healthier also. Repeating 'I'm the strongest,I'm the strongest....every morning infront of mirror make you feel better. best of luck!
• Philippines
22 Nov 11
In dealing with our weakness, we have to be smart. Every day you wakes up and do the normal routine you usually does. There are vibes that surrounds us, both negative and positive. It's a fact, when you start your day happy then it turn out to be a good day for you . But if its the other way around then you will notice everything is a mess. This is just a piece of advice, if you want to conquer all those weak part of yours then consider this three things. THINK RIGHT THINK POSITIVE and last but not the least When your day turn out to be BAD, pause for a moment, have a deep breath, relax and smile or think of something that can make you laugh. Remember: Laughing is considered as a Therapeutic regimen for Stress and Emotional breakdown.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
22 Nov 11
hi hotsummer if you are lonely you need to be among people b ut why not do something different. volunteer at a local hospital where you will meet people and help out by directing lost patients to the right p laces and also take flowers to the rooms and magazines. it get you out of the house and out of feeling sorry for yourself as I know I used to be when I was lonely.also use my lot as ahelp when you are lonely or blue too.doing for others makes you less lonely and also makes you feel good about yourself.Why do you want to be miserable? be happy no matter what as only you can make yourself happy nobody can do it for you.
@hotsummer (13837)
• Philippines
22 Nov 11
i am already taking care of my father. which needs a lot of attention also. wish that my father is totally healthy so that i can just volunteer for other people as well. so thta i would be able to meet more people also.
• China
23 Nov 11
The heart of power is really strong.Stay positive is important to face the loneliness and difficulties. Although you so hopefully can always be strong, you shoud not give in.Keep smiling in your heart forever, how hard time you have.I am very sad that that girl refuses my love, but the more she spurns my love, the more it grows. I also need a strong heart to face that.
• Philippines
22 Nov 11
Yes you can always be strong if you choose it, many psychologists say that it is a matter of conditioning's ones self. "It's all in the mind." as they said it. I hope you can condition yourself of being a strong person.
23 Nov 11
I think that you need to remember that it is too easy to just give up on yourself, but the hardest part is having to face what you didn't do to make the situation better. It is hard at first to "face the music", but once you make those first few hurdles then you can look back and realize it wasn't as bad as you previously thought. What little steps can you take to make progress that are gratifying, but not all consuming?
@umabharti (3972)
• India
22 Nov 11
yes to be strong enough we should stay postive and be positive,what else are you suggesting others to do to be strong and what do u do to be strong enough,for fighting when it is required and saving ur self or others.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
22 Nov 11
Hi! Please don't be so harsh on yourself, it is completely normal going back to be negative, sometimes we are just catching someone else's tought flying in the air. About being positive I realize years ago how negative I was and life got a little better, my way of doing is to change each thought. When I remember I'm negative and ungrateful (I'm that too) I try to take my foccus away from me, that there are those in worst situations and also I go back to see how much I do have (I can walk, see, I have where to live etc...and the list begins to grow), when we see that we become postive instantly. Also when the mind wonders in dark places, that makes us negative try to just change toughts and be positive for the next minute. The next minute will get easier. Be patient and live more by the moment and slowly you'll change even as a person. I'm not even as positive as I wanted to be years ago but I'm way more positive than I've been my whole life. Hope it helps!
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
22 Nov 11
Socialize my friend. Talk to your friends and your family. Interact with them. Have some hobbies that you really like, so you will not feel lonely. Just be happy that you are alive unlike those people who have ailments. Always be thankful and stay positive. Learn to appreciate simple things and derive happiness from them.
@gaea23 (252)
• Philippines
22 Nov 11
Always talk to God and ask for His guidance and enlightenment. Motivate yourself and always think positively. You can be strong if you wanted to be one. Give importance to yourself and talk to a friend for it help you build self-esteem.Have a great day!