Is it possible for a mother not to attend to his son's problem?

Philippines
November 21, 2011 11:37pm CST
We all know that every people in this world has different point of view, different understanding and outlook in life. We cant say that we are perfect, that we cannot afford to have mistakes. We are just a human being created by GOD right after him. He himself teach us to forgive and to forget. But is it possible for a mother not to attend to his son's problem? Knowing that he is the only son?
4 responses
@viju0410 (2286)
• India
22 Nov 11
hi,i think a mother can always understand her children and help them out to find a better solution to their problems. But it depends a lot on the situation as how the son is conveying his problems to mother. Also the son may take a decision based on his knowledge, present conditions but a mother can help to think about his future plans as well. There are also mothers who do not intervene in her son's affairs as she feel he's matured enough to take care of himself. So in such cases, mothers stay out of the focus. But if a son approach her then i don't think so any kind hearted mom can make his disappoint.
• Philippines
25 Nov 11
Yes if your mother is kind, but if it is not? what will you do? Not all mother's is like that, have you heard of abandoned baby's? That is one of the example of mother not being kind to animals, i mean there son's and daughter. I wish my mother is kind to me now because you know what? she is really upset with me. I can't think of anything that will make my mother soft. I hope she will when the time comes.
@viju0410 (2286)
• India
26 Nov 11
hi friend, yes i do know about few children mistreated by their mother or step mother. Those children grew up with a lot of regrets and frustrations. I really hope you can say sorry to your mother if the mistake is from your side. She will be soft and loving then. Also assure her the mistakes won't be repeated by you. Yes, time is a natural healer of bitterness in any relationships. best wishes and a nice weekend.
@areskya (398)
• Indonesia
22 Nov 11
It is possible in this wild world cos there are so many mothers did it. I don't know exactly what are their reasons but they are cruel and so irresponsible with his life. Actually, they really have heart connection with their sons, those mothers will feel uneasy whenever their sons got trouble or pain, but they don't do nothing. Woman can be so kindhearted but she also can be more cruel than most cruel man in the world.
• Philippines
22 Nov 11
We can say yes its possible, like this situation. You had your girlfriend pregnant and it happen that the family of your GF is your mom's mortal enemy. For some reason your mother will hate your girl for being her enemy's daughter. Even though you already have a baby but still your mother will hate them and she will not acknowledge them to be part of the family. Then there comes the time your mother will make u choose between them and your girl T_T . . . this is possible.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
22 Nov 11
Mother's concern for his children are always there, what more if she has an only child. The more that she can give her full attention on that kid. If a mother don't care for his only kid then there might be something wrong with the relationship. I've seen movies/tv shows where a mom doesn't even care for the kid, because the kid is a product of rape or anything... but that's always not good for a mom to treat her own kid that way or not being there for her kid.
@svjomboy (873)
• Philippines
22 Nov 11
well it depends upon the situation, what if your mother has i'll and cant stand or posible inside in the hospital are you still wishing your mother to be there with you at your wedding?