What do you think about your self?

Apparently, what I do and plan to do is affected by what my family would think about it. I don't want to disappoint them or in any way mar the family's name. For me, family come first. I make sure that my decision is sound and wise and I respect my family's too especially when it comes to big decisions.

The bad point is that I run from any confrontation and fights, I try to be at peace but if I'm provoked until a point I don't ever back down anymore and the person gets an enemy for life, so I guess I take a lot but when it's my limit I become revengeful, not that I act upon it but I'll defend forever, like anything the person do will have an answer. I'm too stuborn too. The good parts I guess I'm brave and help people and animals a lot.

Hi chiyosan, I like to look upon myself as a hardworking, caring and honest person. I try my best not to hurt anyone in any way and always take others feeling into consideration before mine. Sometimes I have to do things to please others for instance, my boss. I'm not into dress code parties but still I have to attend them. Being in a formal attire drives me nuts. But then I guess life is too short to be taken so seriously. No one is going to come out of it alive.

Well in a way, i also think of what others would think when i do a thing. Hence, my tendency is to tone down what i do. In a way it helps because it is a reminder to always do what is right. But overall, i do things that pleases me, not to please anyone. Maybe i do it to please my husband, like dressing up , but most of the time it's for my own satisfaction. I have to love myself too.

Sometimes i care how people see me but sometimes i don't.I'm an individual and i'm positive.So basically i'm an easy-going person.I always pass on my joyness to people around me.

I always make time to think about me.I don't think i'm the perfect,but i'm so confident about my personality.I know i have many negatives.but i'm often trying to recover those ones.I love this world.REALLY....

I think I am a person with the comimtment to do all what I do with excellency,and respect to the others. I think I am a responseble person who try to do what have said, because I think that the most important thing that I have is me, so with me I can do a lot of things but if I am person without credibility I will have a lot of closet doors forme. I think I am lovely,sweet,shy,sometimes too serious,sometimes with a lot of humor,respecteful,good friend,good wive,good monther and try to be a good Christian.

I think I'm a passionate individual who is a hard lover! I'm caring in my own way (others say I'm selfish), I'm grateful in a sense (family says I'm ungrateful), and I love to be loved. There's not really much to me other than some creativity, and a spark of intelligence but I'm happy God has kept me alive through several obstacles! I know I'm not what I act to be now, so I'm going to become more me! I'm acting out of place to be cool, but now, I'm going to just be myself and see where that leads me.

Actually, maybe you think about fear of acceptance thats why you think about others..this is just a clarification of your discussion. I myself dont think of others mostly if that only needed to satisfy other people...sometimes as person we tend of thingking what people may say or think about us. For example the way we dress if its ok or not..the way we walk if people will always look or what they will do if see us.. but thats only for show...what matters is the character inside. Who we are and what we believe we are...if we think that we are loosers we will become one.. But if we think we are great then we will be Great...it is better to accept ourselves before others will do..