Newbie Discussions

@telmesh (1793)
November 22, 2011 8:28am CST
I keep hoping that the newbies will realise that this is a discussion site and will come back to their discussions and answer their responders. I know this has been an issue before but it looks as though it needs mentioning quite often as Mylot becomes more and more popular. It's only by carrying on these discussions properly that Mylot works so newbies please come back to your discussions and answer your responders.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
22 Nov 11
Good observation. Yes, this is one of newbies mistakes. They post topic and topics and never comes back to respond their respondents. They were tagged as response collector. Then, they will come back ranting why they are not earning good. I just hope newbies will realized about this...good post
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@telmesh (1793)
23 Nov 11
I feel it's only because they are not aware of the purpose of my lot and how it works. They must think they can manage without reading the guide and then complain they don't know what to do.
• Philippines
22 Nov 11
I totally agree with this, some members tend to post discussions but don't take the time responding to the reactions and it just doesn't make this a healthy forum at all. Maybe, just maybe, the idea of having some idea to be posted is okay and that they don't need to read the replies, OR maybe they could not locate exactly where to find their previous discussions as much as I wanted MyLot to have here. Just like the Facebook Notifications where one gets notified when someone comments back on their posts so that they will enjoy a more fruitful discussion..Or maybe they have read the replies but don't know how to react? Which is ODD, I suppose. LOL. Anyways, happy MyLotting to you and have a great day!
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@telmesh (1793)
23 Nov 11
Notifications are made to your e-mail address that you entered when you joined up gagagaohlala as well as on the tabs that binggaling has outlined. Thanks to you both.
@umabharti (3972)
• India
22 Nov 11
first of all we should say that there is a notification system,which we get notified when some one responds to our discussion or topic .So if every one uses this option then there will be response and comments back.
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@telmesh (1793)
23 Nov 11
With the newbies they really don't know what their supposed to do right off so we must give them a little leeway and encouragement.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
23 Nov 11
Yes, telmesh, sometimes the newbies have to be reminded here. They have to comment back on those responses to their discussions, because it is only through that they will earn in their discussions.
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• Philippines
23 Nov 11
Really, you can't earn from your discussions unless someone replies?
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
23 Nov 11
No, it's not that way orbit. What i mean is, you won't earn from your discussions even if it has lots of responses , if you don't comment back on those responses.
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@telmesh (1793)
23 Nov 11
~I'm hoping there is some misunderstanding here because I think your both right in a way. Orbit03 I see you are reading the responses keep it up. You get paid when you type, I get paid when I type and because it's a discussion site we can talk to each other about things we are interested in. Now I think that's great and interesting. You have a discussion with someone who are interested in the same thing as you and may have or may not have the same view. This is discussed back and fore until it runs out of steam. Don't forget TYPE MORE GET PAID MORE but lets make sure its sensible.
• India
22 Nov 11
I am just wondering at the possible reasons for them skipping responding: -Want to post more comments -Undecided on the line of response -Confusion or misinterpretation of guidelines -Too overwhelming for the limited time trying to maximize earnings It is not a status update site that people make a post and forget about it. Discussions mean interaction and people need also not be necessarily goody goody and cryptic merely to skirt the stimulation for more points of view & debate. True benefit can accrue when post threads get responses & reactions providing good perspectives of the topics on hand. The guidelines also require that people do not post topics on which they will not have any value addition to make. It is a point well emphasized.
@telmesh (1793)
23 Nov 11
Thanks for your efforts to clarify that the more that is contributed the more you earn. Make useful conversations.
• Philippines
22 Nov 11
Yes you are right. I am still a newbie here and I try my best to answer back my responders. It's just that I have a hard time keeping on track with it. How do you keep track with your discussions and responses. There is no notification here like facebook does. I'm still adjusting though and figuring things out. I like it here. Happy Mylotting. ^_^
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• Philippines
23 Nov 11
Actually I don't check my e-mail that much. I can see that. I am also doing that actually but I still find it hard to reply to all responders. I try my best to reply though. Thanks gonzales. Happy myLotting too and GOD BLESS ^_^
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• Philippines
22 Nov 11
Hi there! Actually i am also newbie here and i notice that notification is sent on our email..only if you discuss and somebody follow thru with your discussion. You can see also at the homepage of myLot all your discussions made..check If it is not too much..and all your responded discussion was always there at thr sortie..happy myLotting melody and all of you pals
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• Philippines
23 Nov 11
Hi guys, I'm new here, so I haven't created any discussions yet since I don't have any idea what I'm gonna post about, but, is response that important?
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@sid556 (30960)
• United States
29 Nov 11
So true, Telmesh!! I try to respond to the new member discussions and you can almost tell by the first couple of posts which ones will last and which ones just won't make it here. The ones that seem to hold a bit of promise, I'll jump in and give them some direction and guidance. I want to see new people do good here.
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@sid556 (30960)
• United States
29 Nov 11
We really do want to see them join us and do good here. Some take the advise to heart and seem offended by it but I think most...at least the ones that really do want to do well, appreciate it.
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@telmesh (1793)
30 Nov 11
It's really difficult to advise without offending as advice is better when it is asked for not when it is given without request.
@telmesh (1793)
29 Nov 11
Most vets are excellent at giving advice to the newbies although it is obvious they ( the newbies) have not read the guidelines in their eagerness to get into the flow. Yes I can see how you can tell those that will last, more being better for us all.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
22 Nov 11
hi telmesh yes its really like a slap in the puss when you work to make a quality response and the discussion maker just goes off into space somewhere. I think there is still a bad erroneous idea that if they make say 20 discussions and get twenty responses they will earn huge and thats a falsehood.,we users who responded wrote the 'responses so we type we earn. the only way these errant newbies]can earn is to go back and comment on our responses. newbie you type comments you earn . you do not comment you will earn just some pennienes not a nice earning. go finish your job.it is your discussion so make it work now.When I find my responses go without comment after so long I do not respond again to this user. remember this YOU TYPE, YOU EARN I TYPE I EARN. REPEAT IT
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
23 Nov 11
Hatley is the best model in mylot where newbies can learn a lot. The numbers besides her name is self explanatory and she deserve a trophy, should there be one for jobs well done.
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@telmesh (1793)
23 Nov 11
An extra bonus would be nice. We ought to be able to vote on that.
@telmesh (1793)
23 Nov 11
Hatley I hope the newbies read your response, you would have made a good teacher. This is where I was hoping this discussion would go with you more experience members teaching the newbies if only the newbies would stop by.
@mentalward (14690)
• United States
22 Nov 11
I agree that this needs to often be pushed in front of newbies and even some not-so-newbies. Just this morning I had to turn notifications off to one person on my friends list because this person has been flooding my inbox with discussions started for the past few days now. I'm talking over 20 discussions every day, one right after another, and not one response to any comment to any of them have I seen! I commented on two of them before I suspected that none of the comments were being responded to so I checked a few of them and didn't find one single response by this person. So, since this is a discussion forum and this member has no intention of participating in any discussions, I turned the notifications off so I will no longer be receiving them. I may actually delete this person from my friends list because, now that I'm thinking of it, I can't remember this member EVER commenting on any discussion I've ever started.
@mentalward (14690)
• United States
23 Nov 11
Actually, this person I'm talking about has been here for years and used to have meaningful discussions. He began disappearing at times, sometimes for weeks, then explained why. His father has a health issue that requires full-time care and he is the caregiver. Now, suddenly, he's flooding myLot with meaningless discussions that are hard to comment on in the first place but he's also not responding to anyone's comments. Maybe he's desperate for money but apparently he's forgotten that he only gets paid for what he types so just creating discussions that he has no intent to respond back to isn't making him any more money than if he simply commented on others discussions. Less, actually, since his discussions are not quality discussions. There are moments when I feel I should send him a private message and remind him of the real reason for myLot's existance but these things are sometimes sorely misunderstood and end up with the person needing the information getting an attitude and pushing that (-) button inappropriately. Just trying to help can backfire and cost you, sometimes.
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@telmesh (1793)
23 Nov 11
This was not a full participant just a serial poster. Not what Mylot is about and I think that your actions were quite understandable.
@telmesh (1793)
23 Nov 11
Yes it's easy to upset someone with the written word as it is mightier than the sword.
@babyanna (1216)
• China
22 Nov 11
Hi,telmesh~ Yeah,it happens.But sometimes even us do this,too.It's just hard to keep up with every response immediately.I can understand this but sometimes I do want to get a feedback.But I look at the good side,hoping they have seen my feedback and that's enough for me sometimes.I usually don't respond to every response I've got either because it's just a little bit hard.I do my best though.I do look through every response and rate it if it's good.And I'm trying to get to my old discussions and respond to every feedback. Have a nice day~
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@babyanna (1216)
• China
26 Nov 11
Haha,yeah.I think there are two discussions where I still haven't chosen the BRs yet,gonna get to it soon. I know they put efforts in and that's why sometimes I feel bad about not leaving a feedback.That's why I say I'm still trying~
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@telmesh (1793)
27 Nov 11
At least babyanna you are making an effort and holding a conversation is the best part.
@telmesh (1793)
23 Nov 11
babyanna and binggaliing, it is hard to get back to all responders but they have put in the effort and should receive some recognition. It's the main parts of Mylot that make it what it is, discussions, rating, and best responses which reminds me I have some to do.
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• Indonesia
22 Nov 11
all they need just guide, from senior here, including us. sometime, some senoir here write an angry response just because they wrong to interpret rule in this site. please, all we need just guide them, not angry to them.
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• Indonesia
23 Nov 11
hai telmesh. just one thing that make people interest in mylot in first time: big earning. so what we must do is make them our friend, and show them our payment prove. i do that, i guide one of my friend who still confuse about the rule in mylot.
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@telmesh (1793)
23 Nov 11
Couldn't agree with you both more. We need to encourage newbies so that they become better and enjoy participating more.
@telmesh (1793)
24 Nov 11
Good on you keep it up it's called co-operating, giving each other a helping hand works the best for all.
@Mashnn (4501)
22 Nov 11
That is true. It also make a discussion more worth and entertaining. Sometimes, I get disappointed to check my response just to find that I don't have an answer.
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@telmesh (1793)
22 Nov 11
It's that way with me as well. I sometimes wonder why some, post a discussion that is a question and then it appears they never return to it or don't indicate that they have.
@Mashnn (4501)
22 Nov 11
I think because some people think it a wastage of time because the numbers are not affected but it also added to the earnings.
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• Philippines
22 Nov 11
Hello telmesh! I had the same problem when I was a few days old here in Mylot. I was very eager to respond to discussions that caught my interest and attention. I was overwhelmed actually by the first response that I got from my very first discussion and I did not know whether I should thank the person, agree or disagree, etc. But as I go along, I realized that we need to discuss things here, and not merely respond and then go. Same as with posting discussions, we don't just ask questions and then thank the respondent. I've learned that by reading some of the helpful discussions about mylot. Just like this one. Hope this will help a lot of newcomers.
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@telmesh (1793)
23 Nov 11
It's just like driving nobody knows what to right off but practice makes perfect and it's the same here. A little guidance is all that is needed.
@telmesh (1793)
23 Nov 11
I was really trying to get the newbies close to the more experienced so they would know what is expected. Yes we can't always respond to all but as long as we make an effort that's fine and we can always come back to something we've done before.
• Philippines
23 Nov 11
@bing & telmesh- yup, it is nice that all our discussions are saved on our profile no matter how many of them gets accumulated ^_^ But really, I have experienced one time when I had a hard time commenting to the responses because all of them seem to have the same sense/content. It felt like there is nothing else to say other than "thank you for responding", which I do not want to practice because for sure when I leave a response, getting a comment like thank you is a bit disappointing. Especially if I have thought really hard for that response ^_^ But then again, as mylot faqs said, we are not obligated to thank all our respondents. But of course, it is a polite and a nice thing to do ^_^
• Philippines
24 Nov 11
I have been here in myLot for almost a month now. But since I am quite busy with my ever demanding job. I never made any discussion again except to respond to top discussions. You are right, if you have open a new discussion, it is just right and courteous enough to reply back to your responders.
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@telmesh (1793)
24 Nov 11
You are obviously pleasing the members to be on a nine star already. It's the newbies who have not read the guidelines and are not running their discussions the right way that I was trying to get to. Hopefully to get the more experienced members to teach them so that they can enjoy the site better.
@telmesh (1793)
24 Nov 11
Well your sitting nicely at 86% so you have done really well in such a short time.
• Philippines
24 Nov 11
Hi Telmesh, I even wonder how I got the 9 star right away, I'm just been here for more than 3 weeks now. I guess, members rated my responses well enough. I am so happy though.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
23 Nov 11
Discussions are meant to be a two way traffic and every responders should be acknowledged by the starter of the discussion.
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@telmesh (1793)
23 Nov 11
If only that could happen.
@aprilsong (1884)
• China
23 Nov 11
Good reminder, i think not only newbies, but also some old members of mylot often forget to do that, or can't do as well as they can. Actually, it is best to further one's discussion and make it as long and meaningful as possible, it is better than to find what you want to take part in others' discussions. Since we are earning by our typing. So it is both impolite and a big waste if we don't come back to our posts and make comment back on others' responses.
@telmesh (1793)
23 Nov 11
Yes aprilsong it is a discussion site to get ideas from others internationally which is what I find exciting. Just to get some idea of how things are for others. There is no point in a one sided discussion.
@yspmyl (3435)
• Malaysia
23 Nov 11
Hi! That is the correct direction that everyone here should do, it is not only for newbies and it also for other old members. This is what a discussion should work where discussion will be no ending until it reaches the conclusion.
@telmesh (1793)
23 Nov 11
So simple is it not. That is the most accurate description of what this site is about. There are few except the really experienced that follow it to the letter what a shame.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
22 Nov 11
That's a great tip! I wasn't responding my own discussions in the begining cause I took to long to respond other people's and there wasn't time to come back to mine. In the begining MyLot seemed hudge to me. Now I know where to go and the order I like to open windows so it's easier and fast.
@telmesh (1793)
23 Nov 11
Sorry but I don't know who you are congratulating with a great tip katie.
@fannitia (2167)
• Bulgaria
22 Nov 11
Hi, Telmesh, you are right. Maybe there is a need to start this discussion over and over again. Newbies need to see more explanations except myLot guidelines. We know that many people just don't read the guidelines. I think also that it's a good idea to explain what means a discussion. Maybe some members don't realise that this is a conversation. And when you make the simplest conversation there is an exchange of views, so you say something, you get an answer, then you show your reaction to the answer etc. But there are people who don't need to discuss their ideas - they just proclaim them and don't care to read the answers.
@telmesh (1793)
23 Nov 11
I was reluctant to post the discussion as I did not want it to look as though I was newbie bashing which was not my intention. If the newbies came to this discussion as had hoped they would,it would give the oldies more chance to encourage them and guide them to the purpose of Mylot.
• United States
22 Nov 11
Some times I feel the need to give a few replies to my responders but its very seldom I will reply to every responder because it isn't time efficient! When I start a discusson, I'm expct people to reply without the intent of me to directly reply back to them. Particularly, my post count does not increment when I give additional insight. It is not beneficial to my earnings, and sorry, but I'm mostly here for the earnings!
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@telmesh (1793)
23 Nov 11
Thanks for your response but it is a discussion site and I would respond to your discussion in the hope to have a conversation.