How do you forgive?

I'm the type of person who don't easily get mad. That is why if someone did really something bad to me and hurt me, it would really hard for me to forgive. It will take a long time before I can forgive them. For me, it would be best if I don't see the person or have any form of interactions because in a way it helps me to forget and eventually forgive the person.

how to forgive. not easy to forgive, but when you love being able to do many things to forgive and to love more. I know it is not easy nor is difficult but everyone has their some way. Oh, I generally always forgive not know why there was a period where I thought that if you forgive then this thing can be repeated but is convinced that it is not. why people forgive and love. nice day!

Hey, i have encountered situations when it is difficult to forgive specially when the other person is not sorry. As time passes I feel it becomes even difficult to forgive as the wrong done to you has dominated your heart to a largerer extent. Yes, mind says seeing them in pain that they should be forgivven but the heart says that they deserve this....

I think the only thing that we can heal is in fact time. Sometimes it is rather just a little time but there are just many times it is a lot of time. Sometimes we have to coax ourselves into forgiveness. There are just many times where there is just a lot of times where people are going to do something so bad, that it is rather hard to forgive. Forgiveness may seem necessary to keep the peace. There are just a lot of times where forgiveness is just something that is going to come slowly and more naturally to say the very least. But other times, we just feel pressured into forgiveness because that is just something that we should do. There are just times where something has to give and something has to break. It does take time regardless, if nothing else than to completely understand what happened.

Sometimes it means that we care so we can't forgive that person who hurt us.Learn to forgive and that makes us more generous.Completly not to think about it and you may find that you've been give up.Just think wider and you would gain more.Hope this will help.Have a great day.

you know forgiveness is a matter of the heart and determination.Years back in my life,it was really hard for me to forgive people who hurt me and i was not always happy.Until i realised that unforgiveness is like a burden and if you dont let it out it will weigh you down because its like a spirit that controls you in the sense that if you're happy in a moment and you mistakenly remember how someone hurt,your mood will change immediately to a sad one.So to forgive,you need to let go off everything someone had done to you by being determined to do so.

hi chiyosan yes I hated my father for molesting me once as a little girl and could forgive . I married a wonderful man who suggested my hatred was making me physically ill and told me go forgive my father but ask why he did what he did as now it a real crime. I did this an i asked him but he only turned red and left the room. so still I felt a ton of weight lift off my shoulders. I could go back to my husband and ou rtwo little ones with a feelingof freedom. no more atred, it was over.but I never left my dad with the two babies alone it w as okay if mymom was there.otherwise no.Real slimy crimes like this are very hard to forget or forgive.vengenance is mine sayeth the lord.I remember that always.

As for me, I find it really easy to forgive someone who did wrong to me. I don't know how I do it. I may hate a person so badly but when I've had enough of the day, I no longer find so much hatred in my heart. Although there remains perhaps a little, an apology will be enough to make me forgive. I guess I just have a heart of a child, quick to anger but quick to quick to forgive.

I faced a lot of problems like this. first, my mind never gives a way to forgive. then, it cools down.it takes time anyway to fully forgive someone according to me. i just think abt myself into that situation, then my mind slowly starts to forgive the person.

I easily forgive person and but sometimes the to forgget is too long to process. In order for me to forgive is alow me to process the anger to slow down then things are ok but only on a case to case basis. But i am more on easy to forgive and forget

Yes is difficult to forgive. Forgive is more difficult than to ask for forgive. But I forgive when I put on the of that other person and see that I am a sinner too, and have made a lot of incorrect things and everyday do it. So I forgive I know is difficult but is better than giving too much importance to that person havim him in my mind all the time, asking myself why he did that to me? if I am a good person, no I prefer to forgive,than living with that person in my mind. The bible says that we have to forgive in a day 70 times 7 meaning that we always have to forgive, because nobody will have the ability to do something against us 490 times in a day, so it means always forgive. How know that we are sinners too, nobody is clean of sin.

Every does have someone they thought they can't forgive. I experience this a long time ago when my friend flirted with the guy I love. I thought I could never forgive her but it is true that time heals everything. In a matter of 2 years we are the best of friends again and up until now. I can't beleive that we will have such kind of argument over a guy. It was so funny.

I'm the type of person who don't get angry that easy. That's why if someone did something really bad to me or hurt me, It is really hard for me to forgive. It will really take a long time. It is best that I don't see the person because in a way it helps me to forget and eventually forgive.

There's a lot of times that I cried and been hurt. And I admit that I am a bit sensitive person. But in my case the person who hurt me so much is a family member or let me say my in laws. She hurt me again and again that's why it took me a long time to find in my heart the forgiveness and the important thing is she's not sorry for what she did in fact she's proud of hurting me. So who will I forgive when no one is asking forgiveness. But for me the most effective way to forgive someone is when that someone is asking for it deep from the heart.

well, i believe it is a process. and because it is, it really differs for each person. it is also dependent on the gravity of an issue, or the attitude of the person who had wronged me.

Hi chiyosan, It depends on how that someone hurt me. If they hurt me just a little.. Probably I will just let things go. But if he hurts me bad enough, I will consider that he will never appear in my life. If he appears in front of me, I will act as if he is not there. Then, I will move on. I will not do any revenge. I'll forget all the hurt and move on. I act the way I act is to prevent myself being hurt by the same person again. :)

i always forgive people who did something wrong with me.. the way to forgive in my own way, if we want to forgive someone then our heart doesnt i always pray and give me strength to forgive them in heartily way. if we forgive somebody only in word not in heart..you are only making your self ruin..