We have four dogs and we cant' afford to feed them.

@bulastika (5966)
Philippines
November 22, 2011 11:58pm CST
Its so sad how things turn out. Our family of five has no income for four years now. And all of our savings are gone. Especially since my mom has been in and out of hospital for three years and we have lots of debt right now. We are only renting and we can't afford to pay our dues. Where thinking of moving out if not we will be force out anyway.Problem is that we have four dogs and we can't feed them anymore. And our dogs are so attached to us that we know they will going to die in depress if we will going to give them away.
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11 responses
@Octav1 (1419)
• Romania
23 Nov 11
Oh, I'm so sad to hear that! Cant you find anything to work to help your family? Not to mention the poor dogs that will be faithful to you and your family until the last day of their life! Maybe you can go to a restaurant and ask for some left overs to feed your dogs. They should not ask you to pay for it. Is there anything like animal shelter around? Maybe your dogs would be well fed (or, at least, fed) into a place like that.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
24 Nov 11
We can't feed our dog table food. They eat dog food with dietary restriction. Our dogs are breed dog and prone health problems if given table food. Even if theirs a choice we will never going to give them in animal shelter. We treat our dog like a family, like our children. And even in hard times I think that the least we will going to do.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
24 Nov 11
Well I know it is hard to give away pets you've been so attached with. But dear you have to be practical. Will you allow those dogs to die of starvation? You better just give them away to people who could feed them so that they'd keep living. Otherwise, they might just die of hunger if indeed you situation is just that hard.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
24 Nov 11
What??? It sounds quite unbelievable! Even a person when he is already dying of hunger would eat just about any food offered by any one. I presume dogs will do the same. If your dogs won't, then they must be extraordinary!
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
27 Nov 11
Just one question. Do you have dogs that you treat as part of your family? Sleeping with you in your bed? If not then you will never understand it. Its not that extraordinary. If you keep thinking that our dogs are pet to us then you will never going to understand. Because our dogs is not pet to us. Its also a member of our family.
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@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
24 Nov 11
Yeah. Its easy to give them away. In fact I know many friends who I know will going to take care of them. But problem is that our dogs is so attached to us that they don't eat if they been feed by other people. We even hand feed them if they feel down. That's how spoil our dogs are. So if we give them away. I'm sure they will going to die because of depression.
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@aprilsong (1884)
• China
24 Nov 11
It is a hard choice for you. But it is really hard to keep four dogs without any income. I think you should let them go. First, if the situation doesn't improve,and you can provide enough food for your dogs, they will get sick. And four dogs is a big burden to your family now. It is a bad thing to have them all around but can't get enough nutrition. You can choose to let them live in one of your friends' or relatives who have the ability to raising them. And take them back after the situation improves later.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
27 Nov 11
Its a good suggestion. But I guess in order for that to happen. The one who going to adopt them even just for temporary. Is to live with us for a while. To give the dogs some time to adjust. Because our dogs are hand feeds. So if our dogs don't know or not comfortable with that person our dogs will not going to eat.
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
23 Nov 11
I'm really sorry to hear that. And I know how it's hard to let a pet go especially when its very, very close to you. But you have to make a very hard decision. Would you rather give the dogs away to someone who can feed them or watch them starve and get sick and might even die? I'd rather they be taken cared of by someone else than let them starve.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
23 Nov 11
I agree with you beamer. I think when the dogs are given away, they will adjust to their new owners, because they will be feeding them well. Dogs tend to get attached to the ones who are feeding them. At least, they will be feed well rather than they will not be, if they continue to be with your family, who is in a financial crisis now. At least you can save a lot by doing that.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
24 Nov 11
Even though theirs some logic in your comments. But its not that simple. Because we know that if we give them away even if they have food. they will not going to eat. One of our dog need to be hand feed if nobody notice him for a day. So just imagine if we give them away. They will simply refuse to eat. That's the hard part.
• Philippines
23 Nov 11
Sell your dogs so you can earn. What kind of dogs do u have?
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
24 Nov 11
Selling is not an option. I don't need to explain. the way I see it you will never going to understand what it meant to be a dog lover. Unless if you have a child and you are willing to sell your child simply because you want to earn then I guess that's is your personality.
• Philippines
17 Dec 11
hahaha... don't make it too tragic... a child is different from a dog..besides others make some money out of selling good bred of dogs.. and its nothing wrong with that as long sa buyer will take care of them right..
• India
4 Dec 11
If you are not able to feed the dog I think it is better to sell your dogs to have some money. By doing this you have some money and you will make your dog alive. I think this is the best idea. What do you think guys ?
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
11 Dec 11
Its never been my option to sell my dogs as my dogs are like family to me. The most I will do is to give it to someone who can love my dog. But I never going to sell my dog. Its like selling your own children.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
23 Nov 11
My dogs have become part of my family. I have five dogs and one is expecting. I know keeping dogs is not cheap and I have to allocate a monthly budget for my dogs foods and vitamins. I feel sad for your dogs when they are forced to be given away as they are close to your family. Maybe you can find a good homes for them.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
24 Nov 11
Its not really that hard to find someone to take care of them. But since they don't eat if they are cared by other people I'm sure they will going to die not with starvation but with depression. One of our dog don't eat unless he is hand feed. Just imagine a dog being hand feed.
@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
24 Nov 11
I hate to say this but if you can't afford the dogs you really need to give them up! Look for a no kill shelter. See if friends can take them in. Look for a dog rescue. You have to do something! Your family is hurting and the dogs are paying for this,also! Your dogs will not die from depression! I really doubt it! Dogs are smart animals. They won't forget you but they will be fine! Just like you will be! Sure it will be hard but it will be the best for all of you!
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
24 Nov 11
Not our dog. They know we are happy if they eat. that why they eat. and food is the main weapon they have against us.lols. If they down. They simply don't eat they know that if they don't eat we give time to them. We even hand feed them. And if they are depress they don't eat. We been in and out of hospital because they don't eat when the are depress. And yes they are smart dogs. Do you know that they get water carry them in their mouth and wet their dog food? Because they are in hunger strike? Now if that is a doing of ordinary dog then our dog can survive. But our dog is not ordinary dogs. Not emotionally. lols.
@boyuancy (1708)
• India
23 Nov 11
I'm so sorry you have to go through this. Try giving any one you are less attached to for adoption to a relative so the dog is with you, and you still don't have to feed it.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
24 Nov 11
Yeah. that's true. But another one is to go home to the place of our birth. To a rural area. To our own province and start all over again in their. We have a little farm. I know its hard to return. But that's life. And we must adopt so is our dog. I think we will going to keep them no matter what.
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
23 Nov 11
I don't think you have much choice, you will have to let go of those dogs, relatives will be good people to give them to, you can still visit your dogs sometimes.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
24 Nov 11
That's if they going to eat. That our main concern right now. If our dog going to eat. Second the environment. Our dog are spoiled one. If they like something they will not going to stop until they get it. If we going to chance that environment I'm sure they will going to be depress and will not going to eat.
• Philippines
23 Nov 11
I don't think the dogs will die due to depression when you give them away to people who can afford to feed and take care of them. They are more likely to die with hunger and dehydration when your family won't be giving them anything to eat and drink. Dogs are just like humans and they too can adapt with their new owners. As hard as it is to decide that you're handling the obligation to another family, think of what's best for the dogs and not just for ourselves. You both will benefit from that solution since you will be more focused on providing for the needs of your family than thinking about the welfare of the dogs too, which can only add to your problems. Kudos to you and your family! God bless and take care!
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
24 Nov 11
Okay. Our dogs when depress we hand feed them. If we are not home for a day. They will not going to eat their food. You don't know our dogs. They are not a type of dogs who is a survivor. They lived through our affection. Although Its our fault that our dogs are emotionally spoiled. but they know our weakness. If they don't eat we give in. That why they can do hunger strike until they get what they want.