how do you ditch that B*tch!

i think the other girl wouldn't go all the way to UK just to meet him, so i think it's easier to just change the phone and block the girl's email if possible. Just make sure that the husband isn't trying to reach that girl again.

This is such a hard situation. I know I have no so much idea if how I can handle this/ what's the right thing to do. I was touched by your friend's story. It must be really hard for her. I think they need to talk to his husband. If who's really the one he love? Maybe his husband is just afraid to neglect his responsibility to his wife, and can't say that they should end. I mean, they are married but he has no more feelings. While on the other girl, they are not married but there's love between them. I also think that the guy was just depressed during those times/he needs someone to comfort him/he needs companion since living in other countries is such a stressful & difficult situation, and we both all know that we easily fall into temptations. Maybe he was not strong enough to handle those kind situation.

Do you believe that in every relationship or situation in life? upon realizing your past mistakes and overcoming those, the more you want to desire yourself to change for GOOD, THE MORE TEMPTATIONS WILL ARISE. That is exactly how I can describe your shared topic. First, it is clearly obvious that your friend husband before they got married do have that kind of lifestyle as what your friend lately had discovered, and maybe, when they got married already and realized he really love your friend, he opted to change but HE failed in changing his previous works because HE WAS TEMPTED ( just like ADAM and EVE but in this case, it was ADAM who was tempted by a SNAKE ) and you know who I describe already as the SNAKE ( the B*tch) Second, I see that your friend is very responsible. IMAGINE HER EFFORTS TO JUST FILL EVERYTHING EVEN DISTANCE MET JUST TO FILL ALL THE BEST FOR THE RELATIONSHIP? She is very extraordinary. She never doubted her husband, instead she gave so much trust and support all the time without knowing the real truth of her husband was doing. That only signifies, HOW PURE IS HER HEART TO LOVE AND BE COMMITTED AND WHAT IS MARRIAGE ALL ABOUT! AT her own cost, effort, time and LOVE. For, this she was hoping all the time that everything in her life is in proper place , happy, contented and well achieved right? (that is before knowing the real situation) Third, THE behavior of your friend is normal because, all emotions are carried by all those shocking revelations she discovered, and please take note? it was not her husband who have that guilt to confess the truth but the third party ( B*tch) With any wife in that situation, will really freak out and the worst of it was the problem did not justify the reason of her husband once they confronted, and here is the second issue again via SMS of the same ISSUE. Would you believe her husband reasons? I for not.. the way this B*tch counts is that they have spent very important times together than his wife. Fourth, IF her husband tell it's over? when is the question of the word "OVER"? IT is over because of the reasons like HE was living with your Friend now ( his wife) and he has no more options to go back? or OVER because his wife got to know the truth already and he has no way out but to say "OVER", or OVER because her husband realized he is really guilty and in great mistake doing it to his wife? which among this will answer the Word "OVER" Fifth, If I am to ask about what to do in this situation, after all the defense of my husband, I will set aside pain for it will be there to recall it, But, I will think SMARTER now rather be mixed with emotions. I will think of the FOLLOWING: I AM THE WIFE AND NO ONE CAN TAKE OR SUPERVISE ME! EVEN THAT b*TCH I HAS ALL THE RIGHT TO EXPRESS/ REACT AND IN CONTROL OF MY HUSBAND FOR HE HAD DONE THAT MISTAKE NOT ME.. NO MATTER HOW IM ANGRY, I WILL FORGIVE MY HUSBAND BECAUSE I WILL NOT LET ANY PERSON TO DESTROY OUR 6 YEARS OF MARRIAGE, EITHER WHAT LACKING IN IT, I DID ALL MY BEST AND I MUST HAVE THAT RESERVATION AS A WIFE I WILL ACT AS A DESCENT WOMAN IN ALL SO THAT WHENEVER MY HUSBAND WILL SEE ME, ALL HE SEES ARE THE GUILT INSIDE OF HIM AND IN THIS HE WILL CHANGE AND REALIZE. Fifth, If i will write a letter to that B*tch it goes like this : Hi, I am sure you know me very much. I was expecting MY HUSBAND was there to finish his studies for better education and OUR FUTURE. In fact, am very supportive of him going there always, But, how come a professor do give such tutorial teaching to one student only? A teaching to cheat his own wife? Is this a new Degree there or your own special degree? or yes, I read all your degrees., Sounds, your a great teacher trying still to re-unite her student in long time right? I wonder why WHEN WILL YOUR LECTURES WITH MY HUSBAND WILL STOP? IS THAT A NEVER ENDING COURSE? IF YES? I AM NOT AWARE ONLY NOW, and sorry to say , BUT I WANTED MY HUSBAND TO DROP THAT DEGREE CHEATING COURSE OF YOURS NOW! FOR HE IS MY HUSBAND AND YOU ARE A PROFESSOR ONLY, and I will not wonder why my Husband knew such course, because your'his teacher taking advantage and giving special degrees for ONE student. YOU do not need to act like professional for you are not, nor if you will claim that my Husband seduces you? Once you have known that he is married, being a professor must have checked all the paper correctly and must have good moral values. I Supposed you have ethics. If ever you expect my Husband after all your messages? well, never mind, for professors must be ready to release their students and accept other students again,from there you again apply your Degree. By, the way, I have no plans of letting anyone to DESTROY our 6 years marital relationship. I have a clear conscience with GOD, I do good to others so it will be reflected back to me. Your mistakes are there, and will be carried thru your lifetime, so add me as one of your memories . Sixth, If I am the husband, I have no right to make lies at all, I will reveal the truth just to compensate all the pains Caused to my wife, because my marriage will suffer. I have committed mistakes many times and this will be a lesson for me and I not blame my wife if she was hurt deeply because of my infidelity. I should realize that this is the time to center my wife, once she accepted me again, even my professor still tempt me, I will not worry anymore and have a good night sleep unlike before that I clean my lies to keep my wife alone. Sorry, If I made so long discussion, I just wanted to share my insights about this.at least to comfort you and your friend. No matter how destructive the third party is, just hold on to the marriage.. That is the best, and try to forgive him, Im sure, the next if he committed it again, he will wake up one day alone with no more TRUE WIFE in bed but just a wife in papers.. I hope he learned from the mess he did. GREAT day here at mylot