Wanted Girl friend.

Yeah lots telling lies like deliar? lols.Yeah. Its really hard to find true person online. In fact even that person is true. She will have hard time accepting that I'm true also. In short theirs always doubt in the air. That why its really hard to find trust online. Its much easy to find trust in convenient store. lols.

I don't know were did you get that impression but I never said that your a girl. When I said like deliar. Its the word "the liar" that what I meant. I'm not saying to you but rather the subject we are discussing. Because you said many tells lies. That why I said like deliar. Its suppose to meant the girls that your saying.

Sorry, i am not a girl.. like you said, searching a mate via internet is just like gambling, you dont know how your cards, and you dont know about the future. it is better to avoid it.

But, if you get to know someone online, then they put up a load of information about themselves. Yes, they wouldn't put up some sort of crazy detail about them, showing how they're crazy... but they wouldn't be telling you about that when you meet them, either, so what's the difference?

I'm thinking more along the lines of someone I know at work. I know them. I know how they act. I know what kind of person they are. I know how they react when something goes wrong. Or like someone at like a church group, and what type of person they are there, or what kind of family they have, what type of friends they keep. All of this stuff can give you some concept of what kind of person they are. I think one of the biggest problems we have in our culture today (US culture), is that people think the best way to meet someone is at a bar, or at a night club. And in that situation, you are right. They can put on a fake mask, pretend to be something they are not, and then you have absolutely no clue what kind of person that is. You have no frame of reference, to see if how they act around you, is how they are in the rest of their daily life, because you've never seen them in their daily life. Then you give your heart away, or marry, and wake up to find this person is totally difference from what you thought you knew. Well duh, you didn't really know them to begin with. And online is the same thing only 100x worse. You can fake anything online. Anything at all. I've seen people who went to meet some guy or girl they met online, only to find out they were married, or had several other 'partners' on the side, or less malicious, just were totally different in general, than their online persona.

Totally agree with you andy77e. The person is only true when its guard is down and not when its wearing their mask on. Sometimes you will know a person best if you just around with that person. Not talking. or flirting. Just being with that person character shows.

Thanks. But I'm not that type really. Maybe its the last resort. But the way thing right now. I prefer to have a job than to have anything about relationship. Its all expense. lols. Life is short so we only have few years to get rich. lols.

Thanks. Yeah I know. but I guess its never going to happen with me. Because right now I decide to be realistic. I don't mean that finding someone online is unrealistic. But for me the risk is just to greater than the reward. Beside for four years I don't have a job. If I can find a job. I guess I can find true love also. lols.

@albrello Yeah. I do agree. Care and Full of it. lols. in 100 people I talk online 101 can't be trusted. Lets face it. who will going to give their real name on the first chance of chat? I guess none. @chrisanto Spammers? I don't understand what the connection of spammers in a dating sites.

Yes ? you have to be careful because a lot of spammers are there. So you dont know whose the fake or right guy.

Try and try until you realize that what your doing is plain stupidity I guess? lols. Actually I'm describing my dog. My dog keeps on jumping trying to reach the doorknob. even though I know he can't open it. But he keeps on jumping every morning when he want to go out. lols. Anyway. I guess its hard to find real person online. I rather not going to risk it. but thanks for the advice.

Congrats. I think theirs always love inside the net. lols. Its hard to find true love online. But once you find one its going to reward you. I'm happy to see real life truth story online love. That goes to happy ending. I'm not that in hurry. I'm more on looking for a job than to find love online.

I'm happy for you and for your sister. I know what you mean. But in my country it still taboo if you got married because of someone you meet online. But its seem in each country theirs some difference culture and openness. Beside if it destiny then its going to be destiny. No matter what.

Good luck. But since you said your father give you her number does it mean you don't still meet? So its means she is not physically your girlfriend just text mate or something like that? Or you really have meet already?

Yeah I guess. If she is beautiful and smart in real person then why not. Lols. Smart enough to dumb me. lols. I think many will going to mistake the trill of being in love. Lets face it. If someone suddenly become your best friend online even though you don't know that person will you going to fall for it? I'm not. I'm not that type. Maybe I will just going to play along. But if I know that person by going out and hang out. then maybe.

Yeah. that's true. its really hard to trust people online. But if that person is as beautiful as you. I think they will going to have hard time not trusting you. lols. A horse can run a hundred miles nonstop. Can carry loads twice its weight. Can be vicious if threatened. But if theirs no one rding that horse. That horse can't do any of those I mentioned about. Behind every great man theirs a great woman.

Love moves in mysterious ways. lols. Anyway. Its not a dating site if its only women that goes to dating site right? Its needed two to tango. Lets just not concentrate in one side. theirs also great risk. As I said some even got abused after they meet their date online. That's why I open this thread. Because even with this kind of risk still many women join and meet up with their suppose date. The only reason why I emphasis women simply because I don't give a damn if he got rape by she unless that she look like nothing human. lols. But women get rape because of online dating and still many go and meet their date for me is kind of desperation don't you agree?

So what happen to your friend? And what site did she use? And how long did she use the online dating site? Information is really important in this kind of online sites. Because some sites is just another front of you know what. But still theirs others who is really good one.

I think it will never going to happen that I will going to meet someone online. I'm sure with that. I have hard time trusting people that I meet in person. How much more people I meet online. But its a good thought. But I don't think I will going to waste my time with this kind of fantasy.

I'm not that type who will at this moment. And I'm more like a conservative type of person. So I don't think its going to work for me. But I'm just happy that others do get successful with this online fling. But same time worried especially to does innocent teenagers who just to carefree and end up being abused.

Me too. I only trust person who I can see their expression. I judge people through their facial expression and the tone of their voice. But I guess that is the reason. Why this type of dating will not going to work for me. I'm not a type of person who going to go to you and ask your name or something.

Before when we are in college we do this kind of thing. Not a dating or something just YM making friends and make up. But usually what we do is that we told them that we need to meet in elevator in third floor of this mall. But what we do we just going to pass by and check what they look like. If we don't like what we saw. We just simply walk out. lols.

Of course I will not going to fall to this thing. I'm just curious how this things works. But my security features are high. lols. I'm a type of person if I going to trust that person. I need to know that person a long time. That's why you can say my house is on fire. Even if I smell smoke, feel the heat, but as long I don't see my house on fire. I will not going to believe you type of person.

They say its called destiny. But the only destiny I know is a cable channel. lols. I'm not that desperate and I'm not that serious to go on this online thing. I'm just happy that some just been happy with the outcome. But me. I rather want to have someone who I meet than someone who I know online. Beside you don't have any idea if that person is even real or not.