My best friend avoiding me., what i want to do

aww, sweety ..I know exactly how you feel. Has this happened just recently ? He's probably just getting used to the schedule of his new life and is tired from work and stuff like that. BELIEVE ME! i had to go thru this adjustment with my boyfriend recently. I was really pissed off and i felt that he was avoidng me but i got a lot of advice from a lot of guys n every single one of them told me to let him be, he will talk and when he can talk but ofcourse he'll talk to u as much as he can.. however, If its been like say 1 week with no communcation, PLEASE don't get b*tchy about it.. just ask him how he was doing and that u miss talking to him because he's "so busy!". Ask him what he's been doing lately without sounding mad or clingy. He will tell you whats up without hesitation if he's honest .. but if you really feel like he's avoiding u like you know he's available online or something and he's not taking to u then u guys gota talk about that amongst urselves but you can't break off a friendship if ur really friends .. sometimes life just happens where u lose the ppl u were once close with but it happens hun .. don't get to worried about it. I dont know if u have feelings for him but yah. if ur strictly friends then just ask him whats up

I think you should talk to him for one time to discuss this matter. If he told you he don't interested with you then you also avoid him.

hello dream world..welcome to mylot.. i think you get the right place when you want to share your trouble or problems i think i can suggest you for more independent.. yes, he is your bestfriend (several years ago), but now?? you must calculate the friendship if your bestfriend never think again that you are still his bestfriend.. it takes your time and offcourse annoy when he ignore you c`mon..you can search any friend who want always accept you even they are more wealthy and richer..

Maybe he is just so busy on his job and he unintentional to avoid you. Maybe you just feel that because he don't have enough time to have bonding on you. If you really feel that he avoid you, try to ask him what is the things that you do to make him avoid you. I think talking to him personally is the best to do for you to resolve this problem. He is your friend so you have the right to ask him about his feeling.

If he is avoiding you, it means he is no longer interested to be friends with you. So let it be. If he wants to, he will come back. If he doesn't just move on. There are lots of fish in the pond, just find a new one for yourself.

Why do you worry for someone who is least bothered about you? .. Just move on. turn and see who is standing behind you still when you suffering. He is your real friend.

Life is about developing yourself. That is the destiny. If our interests are not the same anymore we have less in common and it's harder to stay friends. This is also normal. Friendships do end but there are enough people in the world. Enough chances to make new friends. You can sit there and complain or feel sad or misthreated etc but this won't help you. Go on with your life instead of living in the past. For all of us there is a time to come ánd go! This is what I call: GROW(ing)