Virginity

Indonesia
November 24, 2011 7:15am CST
hello all,, meet me again.. this time I want to discuss about Virginity. In my country Woman's Virginity is very Important,, if they've lost it, it would be very difficult to find a man which could understand her condition... My question is what about your own culture?? is it same with ours??? when you meet girl with this condition (lost of virginity)could u accept them?? or you will go and leave them??? tell me yours,, okay
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17 responses
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
24 Nov 11
virginity of a woman is really important. I think that in some countries, virginity is not important. example to us in Bulgaria does not matter whether a virgin or not. while religions know that this is wrong because they value virginity. as I'm okay on these issues. nice day!
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@lady1993 (27224)
• Philippines
25 Nov 11
i think it is still important to our culture- for me it is very important even though some youngsters don't think twice of giving it up.. It would be nice if people would be a little more conservative now and give importance to their virginity.
@phoenix35 (384)
• Philippines
25 Nov 11
Interesting topic. For one thing virginity, I think has nothing to do with love. I think, if someone loves a person, virginity is not important. I live in a catholic country and here virginity is still important to us. But, we look each and every woman as equal regarding with this matter since most woman here would give their bodies out of love. Most men would condemn a woman if she is not a virgin anymore, when upon marriage these men are not virgins as well.
@eljayo (1105)
• Philippines
25 Nov 11
Hi! Virginity is preserving yourself or keeping yourself pure until marriage. For me this is very important, I want to be pure when I face my husband and I think men should be the same. Pure love means willing to wait for teh right time to do such things. Sad to say, people nowadays are very aggressive they cannot wait for the right time instead they do it their way and most of them are underage.These values continue to fade because of a lot of factors.
25 Nov 11
In our country we are not liberated so virginity is really important.That has been protected by girls in here.But then again some cultures evolve adopt to other country. So its just depend to the person irregardless on its culture and tradition when virginity was being thought.So its just depend to the person . When you felt real love its not about virginity but the love of the persons which is being important above all.
• India
25 Nov 11
Finding the right one is just a luck in here in cities but in tribes, it's the family members who bound the tie of husband and wife, but never talk about virginity.... Mainly, if you have money, it doesnot matter what you did in your previous life, even a girl have lots of boyfriend and lovers.... And after marraige, it really doesn't matter. So if you have lost your V doesnot really make the life so hard you described....
@bird123 (10643)
• United States
25 Nov 11
Let's consider what is really important, TRUE LOVE. When God wants you with someone, He places very high chemistry between you. This is the soul who will help you learn and grow the most in life. When all is said and done, they will supply more joy than one could ever imagine. Now for the question: When you finally meet your true love and you discover that she isn't a virgin, what will you do?? Will you really be foolish and full of so much pride that you will let her go??? If you said yes, you have much to learn. Further, would you be hateful to a person you discovered not to be a virgin?? Would you hate and make her feel shame??? If you would,realize the hard lesson will return to teach you how your hate feels to others. It is not a crime to make a mistake, only not to learn from them. Always put yourself in the other person's shoes and see. Lots of Love and Kindness Everyone!!
@vexxus (712)
• Philippines
25 Nov 11
love is all that matters, Well I guess losing a virginity before a girl or woman is married is like a sin to others, especially when the man who will know that is religious one. But in our country it doesn't really matter.
@mantis36 (4219)
• Philippines
25 Nov 11
it doesn't matter as long as the girl have to tell the truth to his boyfriend while still in the courting proposal, so that the boy may have time to think either he withdraw his court or still continues to court while he already knows that the girl he courted is not a v1rgin anymore.... i think it is an offense to men if the women pretending and hiding something and too late for the men to find out later... since it is easy to say that v1rginity is not important, but if that men is in the situation that he immediate discovered that the seal of that girl is already broken before him, then he will surely forget what he said before that "v1rginity is not important" why? because he is surprised.... it is like receiving awards in a contest rescue simulations but in the actual instant disaster that will happens, those learn simulations will lost and you'll be freeze and don't know what to do because panic is already in mind...
@umesh9889 (201)
• India
25 Nov 11
Virginity is very important in my culture also, and that too specially for girls.. But i think finding a virgin boy or girl is very difficult in today's world because of the changing culture.
25 Nov 11
Hi, yunzphyta. i think its just not about (loss Virginity) its about (How) she loss this . 1st i say Women are very tolerant. Ask any of them can not touch. If the condition of her on free will because then I will not accept it . i think you understand what i say..
@shellster (176)
• Philippines
25 Nov 11
Virginity is important, however when you loose it to someone who doesnt deserve it,its much more a waste. Men doesnt care about virgnity, i think.
@pietro93 (60)
• Italy
24 Nov 11
I'm sorry if by saying this I may offend someone's culture, it's not my intention to do so, but I stongly believe that it is kind of stupid to consider a woman's virginity a value nowadays. When I live girls start losing their virginity too early(mostly at 16-17 y/o, but many at 13 either), the fact is, I don't get why this should affect their future relationships. It's their right to do whatever they want whith whomever they want. If they are mature enough, of course.
@amybaby (17)
• China
25 Nov 11
In china,people value virginity very much in old times.If you lose it, its shame to you and your family.Girls even lose lives for this.But now because of the influences of open minding countries, people dont care this that much,especially in big cities.
@wydtron (302)
• Portugal
24 Nov 11
In my culture unfortunately people don't take virginity so seriously. Some girls even wanna lose it as faster as possible or their friends start gossipping and joking about him. To bad unfortunately. By the way im from Portugal :)
@boyuancy (1708)
• India
24 Nov 11
So I was going through this article on a woman's virginity. The rupture of a woman's hymen is called a condition of virginity loss. But hymen is very delicate and can be ruptured by anything from horseback riding to masterbati*n. So I guess virginity is not as important as NOT having STDs.
• India
24 Nov 11
Uffff...I don't know where to start with...Virginity of a woman is prized in ur culture n wt about the verginity of men. Its not only biased but shameful.