I love Someone Secretly!
By Greninee
@Greninee (369)
Philippines
November 25, 2011 6:16am CST
Hello guys!
have you ever been in love with someone secretly? Well, I just want to share that I'm in love with someone close to me but I don't want to tell him what I really feel. We are so close and I don't want to break the friendship. One time, he got drunk and sent a message to my cell phone saying " I love you with all my heart"! I was so shocked and I ask where he is. That's the time I realized he was drunk. That guy has been avoiding me silently and I wonder why. It's like he treated me like just an ordinary person and was never been close to him. I got hurt. I am afraid to ask him because our friendship may endanger. Oh my!...I can't help thinking of him. I don't want to think that he feels something special for me.I don't want to see him because whenever I see him, I feel like my knees were freezing and I cant speak.
What can I do now?
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11 responses
@leon923940426 (480)
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25 Nov 11
I am happy to find that you fell in love my dear friend . If I love someone , and I do not sure if she loves me , I will try to get close to her . for example , I will find a excuse to have dinner with her ,then we can talk a lot . If she do love me , I can feel that . Beside , the dinner time can remove both nerverse .
I also think you can go for a trip or claimb a hill , only with communicate you can get what you want .
If you have any questions , please feel free to contact me my friend .
@leon923940426 (480)
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25 Nov 11
I am a man and if I fell in love with a girl . I would happy when I meet her ,the feature is that I will always smile when I talked with her .
I am a active boy , and I will talk to her by myself and make her laugh all the time .
hmmm , How can I say , I think he is a nervous and shame boy though your describe . Maybe he will not take this as I said . I think you two should communicate more . for example , you can go out with some friend and make sure he will come . I think if her know you will go he must come with your friends even he is nervous .
I strong believe that a middle friend of you two do a lot help for the love . So ,you still can make someone whisper some words on his ears and encourage him to talk to you . But the person must be trustful .
Anything you still want to know ? tell me my little girl .
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
25 Nov 11
Hai friend....
I am very happy to know that you found your partner....Is he is in your same age????
Most friend ships will end in love...You are really lucky because you could to find your partner with out others help...That's nice...From my experience, I analyzed that man will open his mind by drink....They will say the whole things/truth at that time that stored in there heart as secrets...You can know his heart on that time....I think you should not keep silence...If he had send such message, he will be in sincere love with you...He will be in the same mood as you....He will be worrying about that if he miss the relation with you....You can ask him through messages...So that he can say anything with out shyness...So suddenly ask him about this case...And make sure that both of you are in love... All the best....
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
25 Nov 11
Yaa...Love is great and Just enjoy it....Make a talk with him about on this....Otherwise you will loss him...Please...As soon as you can....Don't miss a good person in life....All the best....
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
25 Nov 11
I know what love is secret.
I feel such love and I know how you feel.
just want to tell everybody that loves you and you love him but no way because it's secret love.
sometimes this happens unexpected love suffer so friends and then some people never talk.
success with this secret love.
nice day!
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
25 Nov 11
Here we say: kids, drunks and idiots speak the truth.
What if he feels the same like you? What if he only dared to say he loves you as he was drunk?
If you do think you are in love with him why not give it a try?
You can't always play on safe. If you want something go for it.
@Pushhyarag2000 (1416)
• India
25 Nov 11
First of all, congratulations on your discovery of your LOVE!
May be he right now is having some inhibitions or hesitation talking it out face to face with you as much as you do feel too. But no worry, no hurry. Take it cool & easy. Try to feel comfortable and get into talking gradually. May be you should continue to chat through texting which will help you open up each one of you, and understand each other better.
If you have confidence in someone close to you, then you may confide in them and seek their support to break the ice. It always gets better with kind people helping lovers unite.
All the very best & take it sip by sip.
@siahfearce (14)
• Philippines
15 Apr 12
Don't expect too much. Don't escape the reality that you and him are just friends. Just enjoy his company. Be happy and treasure all the things happen when you and him are together. It's not wrong loving him.It's just your comfortable whenever your with him. Don't be confused about your status. Thinks positive that friendship is more powerful than having a relationship because friendship has no breakups. Think that friends will never leave you, boyfriend does.
@Greninee (369)
• Philippines
10 Jul 12
you were right in saying that friendships never leaves you but boyfriend does... i tried to move on and ignore the feeling of love I felt for him...but even I tried to forget and move on, I still end up loving him still...it's been 9 months since we first met but I can't understand why he's so dear to me...I could feel his cares for me and his cares brings chill inside me...why do i feel that he has also something for me?...my heart says he also feels the same way.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
30 Nov 11
I also love someone secretly.
I tried to keep it for myself- but, I am so in love that I ask him if he love me too.
And the rest is history...it's nice to be in love and be loved.
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
26 Nov 11
For me yes take good care in your life better not love a person that you get scared it is not good your life in married is not like happy much.
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
26 Nov 11
I do experienced it in the past.I love a friend but can't tell her I feel cause I'm afraid to get rejected and lose our friendship.I tried it sometimes to tell it to her by a joke and she answer me with a joke to hehe.
I guess it is better for us to tell what we feel and face the consequence whether it is good or bad.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
25 Nov 11
You've got to make a move if you really like him. Do you know that most guys who never had the guts to tell their real feelings to someone drinks first. You got me remembering a guy who tried to court me. I looked at to him as an older brother and friend. I didn't know he has this secret feeling towards me. I just know that he was like that who likes talking with us, the new members of a school organization. I noticed him stopped smoking when I told him how I hate his smell whenever he speaks to me. Until there were days I am receiving flowers. Finally one night he came to my house with two other guys I know. He was drunk. And he told me his feelings towards me.
So I guess that guy really likes you but he fears you don't like him. And the reason he treats you like that now is because he avoids talking about the message he sent you. My advise is for you to asked him why he suddenly becomes strange. Hopefully when you forced him to talk to you he will eventually have the courage to tell you what he really feels for you.
@paland3 (64)
• Hungary
26 Nov 11
Hey Greninee, i think you should talk with him. (well, of course He should talk with you, but maybe he is afraid too) If you think he is afraid then dont talk, just make signs, that he is welcomed. I think i know what you feel right know, i had a simular situation, and know i have my best friend, and my girlfriend in one person :)