missing her but not losing hope and faith we'll be back just like before...
By ever_purple
@ever_purple (522)
Philippines
November 25, 2011 9:55am CST
one of the quotes account i follow on twitter tweeted this "my best friend and i can speak to each other through facial expression" when i read this my heart suddenly cried because i remembered how we were with my bestfriend before...im fortunate with all my friends but she is truly the friend that i consider as the best one cause she were like my sister and we are even beyond being sisters....we knew everything about each other's lives and there were no single time we haven't communicated with each other even if our schedules doesn't meet....we had a stupid misunderstanding and unfortunately led for our friendship to get cold...right now it has been 2 yrs since our misunderstanding occurred, though we are civil with each other but our situation is no longer the same....i just miss how we teased each other, laugh to each other....how we argue about petty things and eventually we will be okay as if nothing happened...our long chats...our long debates about something..our bonding times and our duets of taylor swift songs and our theme song "burn"(that is the song we used to sing together whenever we do videoke)....in other words everything...but i know and believe and trust in my God that in His perfect time we will be back just the way we were before...im positive it will happen..=))
5 responses
@bjc66bjc (6730)
• United States
25 Nov 11
hi ever, thats really unfortunately..but i have been just
where you are...It really hurts when there is a problems
between friends and you don't even know why...I went to her
house one time knocked on her door and she was just not herself
she actually opened the door and asked what I wanted...I thought
she was joking until the closed the door..I know she was very moody
but she was my friend for years...I mean we shared everything..
when I had , she had..I didn't know what the issue was but I do
know that I had not did anything..so I just left to give her
a moment...
Things have not been the same since...I wish it could be because
I loved her as a friend and its been years..But I am ok..my life
goes on because my conscienceid clear...like you said, maybe one day..
I always live i hope,,,,
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@WajeehBJ (135)
• United States
25 Nov 11
This is really very tragic. I know the importance of such a best friend cause I myself have one and we also do the same kind of things. My friend, a humble advice, instead of writing here and letting the whole word know how you feel, talk to here, let her know how you feel and how much you miss the old times. Even if it was a misunderstanding and both of you were equally wrong, apologize to here. Tell her that you are really sorry for whatever happened and all you want is her, your best friend back. I'm sure she would understand and everything would turn alright. I hope it does.
@ever_purple (522)
• Philippines
26 Nov 11
i already did that... we talked and im really willing to forget everything happened but she said that she has personal problems she has to face and i respect it even it means i have to get out of her life...its really painful on my part because she's just not a friend i had for a week or month....its been half a decade but i have nothing to do but to accept the fact that there is already a gap between the two of us but yet don't lose hope that someday our friendship will be back just the way it were before....
@WajeehBJ (135)
• United States
26 Nov 11
hmm, are you sure she really wants to tell you to leave? Cause, what I have understood about friendship is that, when a friend says leave, it does not always mean you are supposed to leave. Sometimes they really need you but they don't seem to understand that. Your existence might console her in a way that she herself couldn't think of. I mean, just spend time together. Be with her. Even if you guys have to stay silent. But be with her.
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
25 Nov 11
Hello there... You really seem to be attached to your best friend... I feel bad for you... I am sure you'll get back your friend, one of these days and things'll be fine... Please don't worry and don't be sad.... Good days last for small time while bad ones prevail for long time..
You can try to make it up with your friend, it is not tough... Just give it a try.. Just tell her how sorry you're about the misunderstanding. And after that don't speak about that issue which got your relation to stage. Good Luck!
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
26 Nov 11
You are right I am also missing my friend HWG because she not join mylot since last 3 weeks but I not loose the hope I know she will came. She may be busy in offline work.
@taura2p (349)
• Romania
25 Nov 11
Maybe you should just try to get back together. I'm sure your friend feels the same and misses you too. I have lost friends along the way, too. Still, my best friend now is one of the best people I've ever met. We can sit together for hours, not saying a word, and still we don't get bored. We are so connected, though we are so different too. I trust her with my own life and there is nothing I would hesitate to do for her. It's a feeling of complete trust, which very few people manage to get in their lives. And I am so grateful for it.
Hope you will have someone like her, too.
Best wishes
@ever_purple (522)
• Philippines
26 Nov 11
actually i had it with her but there just some things that is really out of your control......im happy for u that you have managed to keep that person in your life...i just hope and pray i can be able to let everything back between us just like before...=))
