sometimes the best thing to do is not to care any more

Letting go isn't about giving up. It's about accepting that there are things that cannot be.We must be willing to let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the life that is waiting for us.Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward.

it's hard to do this especially if you still have feelings for that person. not long ago this happened to me. i cry it all out because it seems that no matter what i do to make it ok, it's not about time. i need to heal our feelings and smile the pain away. we seemed ok but we both know it'll get more complicated if we keep on pushing or if we overdo it. at the end of the day, i still think of it but i just wanna sleep and not care about it anymore. come what may.. but thank goodness im good now. i dont think and pray to God that it wont happen to me again cause am ok now. we're good now. just control your emotions. its ok to cry but dont spoil it. do whatever you think that would help you but make sure it wont compromise your goal which is to feel good in the next few days or months. smile and pray.

For me if the one feel injustice then it is the way he feel like the way in it they feel not good.

good decision,but how much can anyone stand on such a decision.We are humans and can we stand on not caring for anyone and not expecting anymore.Or not getting hurt or disappointed. yes its a hard thing and we can not easily move on in our life when such things happen.Emotions are really a hard thing,if that is something practical they can just go and forget ,but these emotions stay with us and kill from inside. The when every one feel its all over,then only a new thing starts.There is not an end to such things.As we get used to all these we become strong from heart.

We know that your relationship not always easy, and good relationships, there are times where we must go through a difficult time. I think everyone must have felt the same, just the way the deal with the problem are different from one person to another. People who succeed in the relationship are people who are willing to and able to survive until the final point. Each process toward success is the level that we must go through. Like a tree that grows higher, the greater the storm would eat that every moment ready to bring down the tree and the more powerful the tree standing upright

In order to move on easily, we have to accept the fact that the cause of distress happened and most of all surrender everything to God. He's the only one who's always there for us in all times, good or bad.

I am also adopting that strategy now as my hubby never seem to stop his habitual drinking. I don't want to create unnecessary stress by being so caring as he refused to listen to me. The better option is for me to detached myself from being a caring person that I used to be.

Yes you are right. Sometimes moving on is the best thing to do. There is no sense in crying over spoiled milk. I have lived my life for quite a time and have been in so many crossroads. There were those that I feel that I made the wrong turn and there were those that I made the right choice. But I never regretted were I went through and I just continued with life and move on. It feels so great and light when burdens are left behind.

It will take some time but to keep trying to save the relationship will only hurt more in the long run. But after you are sure that you know the other person is no good and its over for a good reason you will feel relieved.

I am one of those few persons who can easily move on, but sometimes this is a bad thing. I wasn't born like this, I learned to be like this and if you manage to pass the ice mask, you can see me as I am. Everybody thinks that I don't care and don't have a heart, but I do and it's very hard to stay and watch, but sometimes they must learn to help themselves. I can't show what I feel because these are weak spots, but to the ones close to me I show them my true face while for the oders I'm just an ice cold heart less guy.

It is easy to say "just move on" but it is one difficult thing to do. What your mind tells you is not what your heart follows. People like us who love deeply and invest a lot of emotions into a relationship find it very hard to move on. I am going through this phase in life and I would not wish it on anyone. The heartache is unbearable and even if everybody keeps telling me to move on, I just can't. Sometimes, I feel so stupid hoping for a miracle when in reality there isn't really anything more I can do. So, my friend, you are not alone in this world. It is sad but we have to accept our fate and wish that there is somebody out there who will give the love and care that we deserve.