broken hearted girl

get this pain out of my chest - broken-hearted
@Greninee (369)
Philippines
November 26, 2011 12:04am CST
hello mylotters! It's been a while ago that I've shared to you that I'm in love with someone close to me secretly. We've talked already. We decided to part ways for us to forget this feelings. The truth, he already knew that I had feelings for him but he only love me as friend. Nothing more. I accepted the truth but yes, it really hurts. He decided to leave and not contact me anymore just for me to ease this hurt and maybe forget him. I don't know what will happen to our friendship. But he said that he will always treasure me as a wonderful friend he had ever known. I went into my bed this morning with tears in my eyes. I'm sad that he'll be leaving. He explained that he have to do this for our own sake and for mine especially. It's like I'm chasing rainbows in the sky...I'm in love with a person who didn't feel anything for me. OOUUUccchhhh! it really hurts! Just want to share to you guys
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13 responses
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
27 Nov 11
I admire your honesty and braveness. I am sure this experience will make you a better and stronger person! There is nothing wrong about it, it happens all the time, the bottom line is you were honest about how you feel and you set it free with a smile!
@Greninee (369)
• Philippines
4 Dec 11
hello checapricorn! I'm flattered that you say I'm brave. yes, love makes us brave. thank you so much.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
26 Nov 11
Ouch! Love really hurts! Loving someone involves getting hurt. Especially if the one we love doesn't love us back. But what he did is just right. He made it clear that he cannot reciprocate the love you have for him. And it's really good not to see him for sometime otherwise you will just be in pain. Maybe he's just not the right guy for you. I hope you can get over him easily and later find someone else to give you inspiration and loves you in return. Goodluck girl!
@Greninee (369)
• Philippines
4 Dec 11
hello enelym! Yes, he has been honest...that I am just a friend to him. I've been making myself busy this week and I feel great because I have lots of achievements. thank you for your advice. happy day.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
26 Nov 11
many people get the feeling like you..so c`mon wake up.. life must goes on i think..yes, it`s hard when we are broken heart but it doesn`t mean you must give up..right??
@Greninee (369)
• Philippines
4 Dec 11
yes, you're right! I won't give up doing my best to make my life worth living and happy through helping others and making the most of my abilities. thanks!
@Lhenni (1242)
• Philippines
26 Nov 11
........... That's what you called "LIFE". We should experience all emotions that really helps us to be a better person. I know it's really sad, I been there and maybe all of us! What the least we can do is to get the lessons from it. Grieving is normal! If you want to be sad for long, that's okay, but make sure that along the way being sad is you gain again your confidence that it's okay to experience and feel that way... and, that someone is waiting for you to meet (maybe soon) that will make your day or maybe life so meaningful! Cheers for your happiness Greninee!
@Greninee (369)
• Philippines
4 Dec 11
yes, I agree with you Lhenni! I may be sad right now but someday, i will be happy again with someone who loves me. Thank you so much.
@alberello (4752)
• Italy
26 Nov 11
You have shared in a sense, you're also vented. It is sometimes necessary.
@Greninee (369)
• Philippines
4 Dec 11
Your message is so deep;D But somehow, thank you for support.
@derveni (35)
• Philippines
26 Nov 11
hi greninee! I know the feeling. I myself has also been trying not to communicate with my friend who i end up liking. We've been good friends and now I'm trying to detach myself from him in order for my feelings not get any stronger. It's not easy. It hurts a lot. But what else will I do? what keeps me going right now is that I know that God has made someone better for me. It's one thing that I've been holding on and keeps me going in this cruel world. :)
@Greninee (369)
• Philippines
4 Dec 11
yes, it's not easy derveni. I admire your faith in God. Yes, there will be someone who will love us and we will be happy if that time comes. thank you derveni!
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
26 Nov 11
hey Greninee I know how you feel, this has happened to me a few times in my life and there is nothing anyone can say to make you feel better, but I have learnt from my past hurts that in the end it was for the better. I never thought I would go on and be happy but new love did come and when I looked back I thought what a waste of my tears. Things always happen for a reason and I bet somewhere in the near future you will find someone else and even fall harder, I look at it that yes at the time it hurts but if you love many times in your life then you are very lucky, you know there are some people and I know two people have never had that feeling of love at all ever...you know the saying" Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all" well its true...but it is ok to cry but I knoe you will find someone new in the future and when you do remember lilaclady saying you are very lucky to feel the love.
@Greninee (369)
• Philippines
4 Dec 11
hello lilaclady! thank you for the support. I'm been making myself busy this week. Yes, I will move on. Thanks a lot lilaclady.
@luanakent (794)
• Brazil
27 Nov 11
He feels the best feeling: friendship. I believe he is a good guy because he did not take advantage of yours feelings and walked away. The pain??? ah... hurts but does not last forever.
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
26 Nov 11
hello, Sorry for what happened to you?. But a little advice and I promise I will do my best. Well, I know how it feels but come to think of it that it is for your own benefit that is why he is leaving. I assure you that you will be alright if you dont think of him anymore. You dont have to push through what other people's feeling you have to accept it. You cant control of his feelings to you because only friendship is only he can offer to you. Make yourself busy with your friends or even family. In that way you will feel alright? Don't worry you will be alright as soon as you accepted the fact that he is gone.
@Greninee (369)
• Philippines
4 Dec 11
yes, we will be forever friends. I never forget a person like him in my life. I will treasure him as a friend. thanks a lot tiina! I'm happy that even though he's gone, my friends here in mylot are supporting me and you're one of them! thank you!
@kundanraj (660)
• India
1 Dec 11
love is worst thing one do in one's life. It is most painful. It better to die than to love, and onside love it just atomic bomb even more critical than it. I fell let live your life and enjoy let other as well. Let Love go to hell.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
26 Nov 11
Hai friend....Don't worry....Be happy....You love him...But he not....So leave him...I know it's hard to forget a loving person...Love should be feel to the both people...Here he is not interested to love you in that manner...He love you only as a friend...So please try to forget him...Forget everything...He may have any other reasons to avoid you...He will not leave you for ever..He will come back to you by knowing your love....You can do just 2 things...One is you forget him, and seek for another one...Second is try to tell him the seriousness of your love and wait for a long time...I think the first method is good...Because there have no chance for 2nd one....So try to understand the situation and live more happily... ALL THE BEST my dear friend....
@Greninee (369)
• Philippines
4 Dec 11
thank you my friend dassodils! I won't wait for him dassodils. I will just wait for my right man who will love me at the right time. I will just focus myself in my work, family and friends. I appreciate your advice! mwahhh! happy day!
• Philippines
26 Nov 11
Just moved on girl! He is not meant for you and he is not the best that you think for you..wait for the special one to came for sure you will be very happy about that.
@Greninee (369)
• Philippines
4 Dec 11
yes, you're right MM...he's not the right one for me. One day, the man for me will just come and I'll be very happy. thank you.I appreciate your support guys!happy day!
• United States
30 Nov 11
I had one love that I lost. He will always be in my heart, and there is not anyone who could compare to him. Yea, that hurts. I found out in life, that's the way love goes. When you really like somebody, they don't like you, and one day it will be the same way for you.