How to make Longer relationship with the partner ?

Philippines
November 26, 2011 6:52am CST
Sometimes problems are the reason to break the relationship in the family.. Example:attitudes,misunderstanding,financial,adultery/or had other girl or boy... but if you love each others,and expect that there are circumstances,handle it good,and talk each others problems... always honest,caring,truthful,loving,work as team will keep longer relationship and only death will break up..
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9 responses
@devi53 (347)
• India
26 Nov 11
It is true befrindwithme, in life problems will come that is quite natural handling the problem is important.
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• Philippines
27 Nov 11
Okay,,,talking about relationship ,and how to handle problems people know it that,and the knw how to solve,to get worse..it is human nature to have problems.
@devi53 (347)
• India
27 Nov 11
Even though i also responding like this, in certain circumstances we have suffer a lot i think if any problem arise we don't take action immediately think twice or three then with help of god we get a correct solution for that. thank you dear.
@squallming (1775)
• Malaysia
27 Nov 11
To maintain a relationship, we need effective communication, emotion management and a correct sense of direction. We communicate with people daily in order to entertain, build relationship, solving problems, persuade and many more. People who does not know how to communicate effectively may anger someone through words. when there is already something heated up, people does not know how to communicate to resolve the conflicts. That is why communicating effectively can maintain relationship. Next, our emotion changes easily. sometimes due to certain issues, environment, pressure and works. It is best that we manage our emotion when we are in a relationship. Negative emotions may cause conflicts, frustration and quarrel. This is sure to bring a negative impact to any relationship. Besides that, people in a relationship should have a correct sense of direction. For example, if people are to maintain a romance, they must both have the wish to maintain and grow the relationship besides having the commitment to love only that person for the whole life and later on get married. If they have such sense of direction, they will certainly solve every problem they face and be fruitful in the future.
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• Philippines
27 Nov 11
Okay thanks for that..Yes communication in relationship should be maintain,talking each others, sharing problems, and others need..' Helping also ech other,working as a team and also love..
• Philippines
26 Nov 11
Hello befrindwithme, I think it is important that the family is intact and that they have a strong relationship with each other by investing time and effort in bonding with each other. Open communication is really important so that they can continue to know what is going on with the lives of the family member. It's not just the matter of trust but as you said honesty is important also. They have to be honest with each other so that they can correct whatever is wrong in their relationship. Take care and happy mylotting!! red_amethyst
• Philippines
27 Nov 11
Yes time,bonding each other can also have happy relationship. Open communication,and yes sharing each problems,helping,working together..And honest,trust to each other..
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
26 Nov 11
Friend for longer relationship God blessing is necessary so daily pray near the God for good relationship. Old people relationship was long life relationship and till end of life but now patience is less so relationship may break any time in the middle. But we should try to save our relationship and carry till end of life.
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• Philippines
27 Nov 11
It is true that God should be the center of each life and more blessing to have,and joy if yu are n God's plan.. Even there are problems,but yes God should be the answer,nd prayer to Him.
@gelayagui98 (1336)
• Australia
26 Nov 11
Hi friend, to have a successful and longer relationship-marriage, their decision should be righteous, that is, they ought to be in accordance with Christian values which are based on the teachings of the Holy scriptures. unchristian values for instance the changing values of the changing times, which do not respect the sanctity of marriage should be rejected. Definitely, there is only one key to successful relationship to make it longer and lifetime.....START IT RIGHT![em]thumbup[/em]
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• Philippines
27 Nov 11
For those believers,relationship and marriage should be honorable ,rightetous,pure and cceptable to GOD... Yes that relationship should be scriptural..But most marriage today's these,is not will of God,and worlds principles use.. So there is difference on that..But as for me,relatioship should in God's will and long relationship..And God be the center..
@Rosa26 (2618)
• United States
27 Nov 11
I believe on that. If we try to underatand thefeelings of our partner, and love that person with his/her errors,knowing that everybody have weakness,and putting God always in the middle of the relationship, knowing that God is love, this relationship is going to last.
• Philippines
27 Nov 11
True.Every one has its own weaknesses,and yes we can make errors in life,relation..But let God be the corrector on that,just need submission to Him,and also love each other..
@GemmaR (8517)
27 Nov 11
I think that you should know whether you and your partner are right for each other or not and, if you are, this is one of the most important things in life. If you are meant to be together, then it will be much easier for you to do so than if you weren't meant to be together at all. Communication is key in any relationship, whether that be with a partner or a family member. If you have any problems at all, you should always talk them through together, as it will be an awful lot easier to overcome those problems if you do this.
@erba2011 (56)
• Hungary
27 Nov 11
Yes, i think too that if there is no God nothing will work out. Every human 'invention' is just temporary...Only God is eternal.
• Philippines
27 Nov 11
Ok,,yes true God will work our the life problems,and others isue and relationship.. We just hold on to God,,and everything give it to HIM.
@ayvanee (149)
• Philippines
30 Nov 11
There will be a lot of times when couples would fight but it's always important to remember what they have at the very beginning... FRIENDSHIP. After that, everything comes next-- love, understanding, humility, honesty, etc. I personally think that relationships never work without friendship. For a certain relationship to actually work, couples should be best friends. :)