where comfort room should i go?????

Hi... This is quite unique problem, I never thought of this. I think with time they'll create third type of wash room... For now, you can use based upon your appearence. If you've dressed up like a girl then go to ladies wash room...

I have a friend whose cousin is gay. When I went on a tour with her and her cousin, she would always use the Ladies rest room along with the rest of us. Everybody knows that she's gay but we just accept her for what she is. I don't see her as a man. I see her as a person who has her own preferences. I don't think it's awkward that she goes to the Ladies rest room because biologically she is a girl.

Well, I would normally say go to the room of the person you were born as, but, since the outside appearance changed, follow that instead.

NO I haven't. I know just how you feel. In my opinion, you are technically still a boy so you need to use the comfort room of the boys unless you realy look like a girl then you could probably use their comfort. Just hold on there dear, one day the government might impose a rule for establishments to create a comfort room just for transgenders

This is a mater of genitalia really . If you have a vag*na do not use the urinal . It would be very hard to aim . If you have a pen*s you go use the urinal. If your concern is that of people staring (though i doubt people do that)there are always the cubicles. Reflecting on what u said people dont really mind other people in the comfortroom.

I think that is really a problem with you because there is so many discrimination about you in this society. If I were asked, of course, you will be comfortable with in the ladies comfort room. It is awkward for you to go in men's room for they will gonna tease you then and it will be awkward for them too.

I have seen gays that really look like girls in a ladies' CR, just to fix themselves, and it's ok. But I don't really know if they use the CR to empty their bladders. For lesbians, I'm sure they still use the ladies' cr. On the movies, I've seen gays and guys peeing at the same time, but....you piqued my curiosity :) Whichever you choose to go, I think it's okay.

Basically, if you look good enough o pass for a girl, by all means, go to the ladies room. I have a gay friend and he could easily pass off as a woman because he was close to being feminine looking (along with feminine clothes). He often accompanies me to the ladies room when we need it. He also does it in school where everybody knows he was gay. In otehr public areas, all ladies in the powder room didn't bat an eyelash when he walks in. I guess society is now more tolerant of gay people. I don't think you'll be punished for relieving a human discomfort.

Is a difficult question,but if you feel and look like a woman go to a bathroom of women,but if are a woman and look like man and feel like that go to the bathroom for men.

As a girl, it would be alright for me to see you in a ladies comfort room. There's nothing wrong with that. I think men would feel uncomfortable when they see you in gents' comfort room and they might even punch you. So just to be safe, use the ladies' comfort room.