i had a blind date, which is suck
By GraceChen03
@GraceChen03 (73)
China
November 26, 2011 9:45pm CST
sever weeks ago, my family arranged me a blind date. i met a guy who is almost nien years elder than me. he looked very gentle, and seemed like a good man. but after the date he did not call me or text me. i thought maybe there would be nothing to happen. but one day later, he texted me and asked me what i was doing etc. i meant to give up, but he seemed a nice guy, maybe i should try. he did not ask me out. at the next weekend, i thought it was time for him to ask me out. but he did not, instead he told me that he bought a bike and rode it to the countryside with his friends. but he still texted me. i also answered him. we would have a four-day holiday the next weekend, i though this time he would date me out. but he told me that he was arranged to work for the first two days. in the third day of the holiday, he asked me out in the evening. at that time, i was strolling with my sister, so i asked him to go to eat first later i would join him to have a drink or something else. maybe an hour later, i finished shoping and called him. then he told me his friends asked him out to have a dinner, and it would be a little late.i did not say anything but feel very disapionted. at the same time, a friend of mine asked me to but something with her. i agreed. after buying what she wanted, i meant to go home, then he called again, and asked me whether i was still out. well, we met in a juice bar. he told me that he could have been here earlier, but a friend of his is late and he had to wait him with another friend. i said nothing. we talked several other things of nonsense. before we leave the bar i told him we were not suit for each other.
what a man, he accutually never cared about me, and i was nothing to him , i thought.
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10 responses
@investor211 (474)
• Mexico
28 Nov 11
actually you never know if people will date you seriously or just for fun, sometimes guys find dating interesting and they do it because have nothing to do or to have someone to spend the night out, the best you can do is date guys who you really know and have good heart and not those who clearly tells you "lets have fun" in modern times dates are loosing trustfulness since people are no longer with the compromise of a serious relationship.
@soulist (2985)
• United States
27 Nov 11
You never know what he could have been thinking. He may not have wanted to rush things and seem too eager. He did ask you out again and while some things postponed it a little bit he still showed up, he still texted you to talk. I think that in itself was showing he cared on some level. I wouldn't have given up after two. It took one friend of mine 3 months before he asked a girl out on the first date. Some guys just like to take things slow.
@Fortunata (1135)
• United States
27 Nov 11
You were right to get rid of him. He was stringing you along. You'll meet somebody better.
@Genericbe (1376)
• Philippines
27 Nov 11
You are very lucky for not having that kind on man to enter your meaningful life.You have used your senses in right time to know if he truly cares or not.
That kind of guy is a typical-blind date man, meaning BLIND (not able to see) and date meaning unpredictable time. You see, after your acquaintance, he texted you after couple of days, and give you many ideas of activities without even asking more of yours at all. The same as he is just wasting his time so he just make communications with you when he has nothing to do. What kind of guy is it? a BLIND GUY he is. The worst is, he is ego-centered and the effort he does is very minimal or not evident to prove if he really shows interest on a girl.
It is good you have said those lines to him, for him to wake up that he is not that as what he thought he is.. ha ha ha..
In any Blind-date instances, always bear in mind that it is a mystery of everything. Expect the unexpected and rely on your instincts as what you did. In this way, you will learn to protect and give yourself the respect you wanted from them.
Great time here at mylot
@amybaby (17)
• China
28 Nov 11
Its common to see such guys in blind date. For them they just want girls to get married. You cant expect love or much care from them.If you are going to a blind date,you should prepare youself for this. We are still young,we are still dreaming for love, so its better to find your Mr Right urself. GOOD LUCK!
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
27 Nov 11
You never know, when people date there are many games they play, I think if he wasn't interested in you he would not have asked you out at all, maybe he is not sure how you feel and is frightened of rejection, it could be anything...I feel people forget that the other person can not read your mind and is probably playing the different games people play so they don't get hurt or embarrassed...if he is not suited to you there will be someone soon that will be...
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
27 Nov 11
Hmmmm, What You did special for him,What it looked to me there was little miscommunication Nothing more than that,as you yourself said the Guy was Nice , Why You girls always want to be treated special and I think what can he for you and When he was busy he told you about that before hand, You felt hurt when he unkowningly ignored you Did you Ever thought How he felt When you Ignored him due to your busy schedule.
Have a Nice day
@junivat (49)
•
27 Nov 11
that blind date really sucks, make sure he pays for it or else that makes it suckier more. you gave him a chance, but then again he just seem to not know your interest and not into you.
you will find the right man for you, just stay happy and be positive in life.
we will get there.. =)