marrying at 30 plus

They do have a point there. But I did got married at 30 and my wife was also 30. I think that is the right age to get married since most of us at that age is already mature enough to decide and get settled. Another thing to consider is financial stability and obviously at a young age, most of us are that financially stable yet. We know that money is needed to provide our family with the basic needs knowing that the cost of living nowadays are quite high.

I think that is the right age to get married for a man. Because that age matured enough to face responsibilities and everything about family life...

i married with 30 and my daughter was born when was with 32. I dont think is good to get married too young but the truth is it depends on each case.

Hello, I am agree with you, here is no problem if some one marry at 30 or above. Indeed in these carrier is first priority of every one. So they want to satell and get financial freedom before marriage. But also remember that pair is decided in heaven. So only God know when some one get marriage.

I got married again at 36 and will have a baby soon, I already have one, he is 13,and my doctor told me that I can have a baby eventhoght I am not a young girl. My life now is great I have a family and a home and I love all the things that are happening in my life.

i want my marriage early.but i camt...because there are a lot for me to do before...i want my sister get married.and i want to be in secured position in life...so that only i can maintain a family, i think my marriage will be may be at 28 ,29.

First of all, that's a load of bull because women can healthily and successfully carry children well into her 40's. My mother had her first child as an accident when she was 33 and the second also an accident at 39. Secondly, you don't have to have kids to justify getting married. Marriage is about the love and commitment between two people. No one ever HAS to have kids.

well I suppose it depends what your reason for getting married is. if you see marriage purely as a vehicle for procreation, that might be a concern for you. but a lot of people marry because they're in love, committed and want to spend the rest of their life with that person, whatever the future may bring. it's about wanting to be with the person you've found love with, rather than about making more people. so of course, the right time to marry is when you're with someone you want to be married to and are ready to make that commitment. not all couples want to have children, so the age you marry at isn't a concern. if marriage was purely to have children, then they'd make you have a fertility test before marrying, and ban post menopausal women from marrying.

while you make a valid point with regard to marrying later in life if you want to have children, many people who are over 30 are divorced and already have families and may no longer want anymore children. i am in that category myself. i am 50 and recently divorced but now have a wonderful boyfriend and we would like to get married eventually. he is 13 years younger than me and he does not want children, so for us it works. but you are right to do everything you want before making a solid committment to someone and then you will be able to settle down with a clear mind. i sewed my "wild oats" so to speak the whole year after my divorce and then finally met a great guy i want to settle down with. good luck!

Life has no manual Ever_purple. You cant say at age this i will do this and age that i will do the other. things can turn out very differently and you can easily get very disappointed. The best time to get married is when you are ready. when do you know you are ready? when you feel the right person has come, how do you know that? it is nature... nature will speak to you very loudly and the issue of having children will not even arise.. you will just see them coming one after another. Cheers!

I had a view that Marriage is not essential...But some of my friends in mylot changed my view totally...But I don't think that marriage at 18 to 25 is not good... It will lead to some problems...That girl will not be matured..I think I will not be a matured girl sudden...When My parents feel that I became so,they will begin to search a good groom..Some of my relatives are not agreeing with my view...And they came with a good proposal...I scolded them and not to repeat this...I am only 18 and There have enough time for marriage and family...I am not matured...I always think and behave like a child...I think this is good for me... Thank you...

I think it all depends on you not your parents. It is ok to marry at 30 or 31 but not after 35 years because of the increased risks about pregnancies but all depends on how many children you want and the gap you want between them such as if you want to have 3 children with 4 years gaps between them then it is better if you could marry earlier than that.

When I was on my early 20s, I told myself that I will get married at the age of 25. Now that I am 25, nah, it didn't happen. I still don't have a groom. lol. Why 25? so that if I have kids I will see them grow and I can also engage with their activities because I still can and be there for them every step of the way until they get married and have their family of their own and I would have my grandchildren to take care of, I should still be healthy by then --or so I thought--. :p

"Marriage doesn't change anyone. It only magnifies what's already there." I got this quote from the ebook im currently reading. If your relationship is good and you both of you feel secured for the future, then marriage is an option. if not, it doesn't matter what age you are in. so long as you have a house on your own, and you can feed every mouth in your family. =)

Well, I married at age 23, but my husband is 14 years older than me so he was 37 when we ot married. I'm his first wife, too. We have a friend who's in a relationship, and he's 36 years old now, but does want to marry sometime. Then we have another buddy who never married at all, and he's in his 80's. He's been in an on/off relationship with a widow, but they never lived together or anything. I guess it all depends on the individual and what's right for them.

My sister in law married at 25, but gave birth at 35 years old, one after the other. She now have two cute growing and smart kids, a boy and a girl. In addition, my sister got married at 35 and gave birth a year after that. She also had children one after the other. She now have two smart and cute girls. I think, what is a bit scary is giving birth at the age of 40, because it is said to be a menopausal baby, in which it could either be too intelligent or too dull or with some defects. Down syndrome is more likely for a child born on this age of the mother, as health experts says.

Well i think its not a problem but well when love hits you it dont ask and you might not find love until 40 even . I dont think its wrong , and there are womans giving birth at even greater age from this and i think everyone is in around same danger that life can give them during giving birth . Lets hope that dont happen to anyone . About the gods plans , he dont exist and he dont have plans for you . You need to make them for yourself :) And live with your decision witch will bring you happiness and sadness both go hand for hand :P But i dont find a problem at that wanting to ahve child at 30+ or marrying its everyone choice . If i can marry i will even marry now and i'm just 21 but i dont think i found the girl for me :) And well i'm fine with not marrying at all , jsut being together without being married is ok for me too .

Actually its really a late age to marry but an ideal time!

I believe you can never really set the right time to get married. I used to tell myself that I will get married at age 30 but I got married at 26. But I adapted pretty well. And to becoming a mother, there's really no age that defines whether you are ready or not. It's all in the mind. If you put you heart into it and accept your responsibility as a mother even in an early age, you will handle it pretty well. If you are already aged 35 but you are still full of yourself and do not want responsibility you will never be ready.

well i am 31 years old already and have some worries about your family, some study said that its a high risk of a woman to get pregnant at the age of 30s specially first baby...but im still hoping to have a healthy baby at the age of 32...