Giving all your self in the name of love..
By airasheila
@airasheila (5454)
Philippines
November 27, 2011 4:56am CST
A pleasant day to all,
It is indeed very nice to feel the feeling of being in-love. That somebody is loving you so much. And in return, that you really loved him. That, your world just rotating within the loved that you feel for him. That, you almost gave it all. And after giving yourself and everything to him, one day, you discover that he is a homosexual. That, although you loved him that much, he cannot return to you the favor of love that you have given. That, the only thing he can give you is his company and not the proper love that a boy and girl relationship that must have. And this is the one that being experienced by my friend, that, she cannot get over on it because she have felt that after all that she gave, she was cheated.
Actually, it is not truly ideal to give all yourself in the name of love. Just like the many people are saying, try to reserve at least for your self when you are in love so you will be able to bear the consequence that it may cause at the end.
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12 responses
@abhinalstrikr (4111)
• India
20 Jan 16
one should always have special kind of love reserved for him/her so that nothing can move it
@abhinalstrikr (4111)
• India
20 Jan 16
i have heard somewhere even in arrange marriages parents are cross verifying what the boy/girl has said before marriage takes place is true or fake.
one should mind every step taken in his/her life,love like blind is fare but one shouldn't be totally blind in love so that the end becomes a misery.
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
28 Nov 11
For me yes but if your married is homosexual feeling no need to gave all your self of love because it is not good in the eyes of Jehovah God even though he is the founder of married.
@Danzylop (1120)
• Philippines
28 Nov 11
There is nothing wrong in giving it all yourself. In the name of love, there no too much but there is less. you know what I mean? When you are really inlove, you are willing to give everything and dont consider it giving too much love. Just be sure that you still have something for yourself so you can still continue with life even without the person you love. This is an ultimate lesson that is so hard to learn because when we are inlove we forget to spare some love for our self and give everything just to make that person valued and would not let us go.
@leon923940426 (480)
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28 Nov 11
Actually , I want to give , but there no one want to accept ,hahahhaha
@shellster (176)
• Philippines
28 Nov 11
easier said than done with reserving something for yourself. girls are always all out when it comes to loving. if guys have the heart to tell you from the start about his sexuality, then thats good. if not, good luck! it hurts like hell.
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
28 Nov 11
Sometimes, when a woman has given everything to her boyfriend, she feels insecure. What if he would suddenly fell out of love, because anyway he has used you already. That is what fears most women specially when they have given their bodies to their boyfriend.
So, i think women should first get to know the boyfriend well, if he indeed truly loves you, before giving everything to him. And besides, as you said she should at least reserve some for herself.
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
28 Nov 11
when a man loves, he is really ready to give everything for love.
. because true love does not ask him to do it for me but must be done within no questions asked.
love is just a very nice feeling but when it is shared
then that love can rise and stand on mountains and everything.
and this man ready to love everything done within just to keep it.
Have a nice day!
@bluespygirl (2112)
• Philippines
27 Nov 11
Hello there! I think it is right to reserve something for yourself and not give it all. This is so that you will not be so hurt after.
If I may share, I just have an experience recently about giving all of myself for the sake of friendship love. Just recently, we have misunderstanding and I really feel sad about this.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
27 Nov 11
That is true. We should leave something for ourselves. We should not give everything to the person we love coz if we got cheated we will only be left with so much pain. That pain will make us weak and helpless. We feel we are worthless and will lose our motivation. We should set some reservations until we are sure that the person will be our only love who will love us back until the end.
@dellessimon45 (710)
• United States
28 Nov 11
I do agree that you cannot give your whole self in the name of love, or you can risk being hurt in the event that it may end. I do think that one must give a significant amount of themselves, though! I also believe that one must avoid selfishness in order to achieve the most out of their love and relationships but you must take into account that you cannot let someone walk all over your feelings!
If you're partner is satisfied with the portion of yourself, you offer, then that's all that really matters! 
@cowboynextdoor (102)
• Philippines
27 Nov 11
love is crazy and so it make people in love crazy too. giving your all for love is giving all your time for craziness. let's all be just a little crazy
